Need help for friend's divorce

[LocalFullMoon]

2 hours ago, rapchik said:

1st point ayithe mutual divorce kindhaki vasthadi without alimony

...second point lo nuvu etla happy ga untav ante mataku alimony adguthadhi inkoncham trouble pakka chesthadhi... better ask your friend to record small conversation in between them for future purpose..

@vendetta getting 3K Alimony every month 

[LocalFullMoon]

2 hours ago, samaja_varagamana said:

ee case lo girl veediki pay cheyali if i am not wrong.......... contact a good lawyer man ee db lo evadu chepadu....chepina half baked knowledge untadi. Divorce aynodu naku divorce ayindi ani cheppu kodu kada

@JaiSamajaISM

[kiraak_poradu]

2 minutes ago, LocalFullMoon said:

@vendetta getting 3K Alimony every month 

Oh

[krystax_admin]

We do not know whose fault there. one thingis for sure entatante, too much feminism valla marriages M* gudustunnai.

But, me vadu before filing a divorce ila cheyyachu to save his marriage:

Ask him to transfer to a different city (rather than living in a shithole) , and learn to live happily without depending mentally on his wife. During that time he can focus on job, sports, gym, hanging out with friends, continuing his hobby’s etc. He or she can visit each other during that time if they want to spend some quality time. He must show her or make her trust, that he loves and respects her, if she behaves good. If she finds that he can live happily without her presence, she will introspect herself and change her attitude.

 In worst case, if she did not change, then he can go for divorce.  Good thing entante, kids are not involved in this process (I believe). Another thing, pina evaro cheppinatlu, each divorce case is different and Lawyer is the best person to suggest.

[LocalFullMoon]

1 minute ago, kiraak_poradu said:

Oh

You vendy lover 

[kiraak_poradu]

5 minutes ago, LocalFullMoon said:

You vendy lover 

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[LocalFullMoon]

1 minute ago, kiraak_poradu said:

drawyer elastic rubber em kadu 

I know @Quickgun_murugan pmed you goking Vendy 

[kiraak_poradu]

Just now, LocalFullMoon said:

I know @Quickgun_murugan pmed you goking Vendy 

Ok 

[Feelingbad]

14 minutes ago, krystax_admin said:

We do not know whose fault there. one thingis for sure entatante, too much feminism valla marriages M* gudustunnai.

But, me vadu before filing a divorce ila cheyyachu to save his marriage:

Ask him to transfer to a different city (rather than living in a shithole) , and learn to live happily without depending mentally on his wife. During that time he can focus on job, sports, gym, hanging out with friends, continuing his hobby’s etc. He or she can visit each other during that time if they want to spend some quality time. He must show her or make her trust, that he loves and respects her, if she behaves good. If she finds that he can live happily without her presence, she will introspect herself and change her attitude.

 In worst case, if she did not change, then he can go for divorce.  Good thing entante, kids are not involved in this process (I believe). Another thing, pina evaro cheppinatlu, each divorce case is different and Lawyer is the best person to suggest.

100% right.

[BabuBaddam]

17 hours ago, ram4a said:

mostly EGO issues... 

Husband Version - Identi maa intlo maa mummy Maa Daddy edi chepte adi vinedhi....Na pellam enti M bhi inatle. Mastu pogaru deeniki

Wife Version - Maa Dad entha baga chuskunaru, Na ex- Suresh,Veeresh,Venkatesh,Mallesh,Boopesh,Pookesh andaru Cho chweeet Anni panullu chese vaalu naaku eppudu No chepe vaalu kaadu. Veedu enti intha demanding ga unnadu....Assalu Veediki nenu chala ekkuva ani feeling.

[Biskot]

ltt

[vendetta]

Man mental peace main

life is short happy ga undali

manam janma tiskundi evaro Pelli perutoh manalni fry cheydaniki kadu 

marriage lo happiness marital fruits unay ante adjust avachu to some extent but emi ledu just draining your energy ante get out of it ASAP 

[kranthi111983]

19 hours ago, Pumpachak said:

My friend got married in late 2014, he is a very patient guy. Papam monna taagi open ayyadu evarki cheppuko ledu anta ippati daka. So open ayyaka free ga matladthunnadu natho.

She was studying master's when he married her and now both are working.

Its, Very very sad story, very painful. She is firebrand, humiliates him, veela parents tho she hardly talked for 3-4 times in 3 years. Godava aithe kuda he would be the first person to compromise, starting lo ala alavatu ayindi. Now when he realised her ego, etc and trying to change but she is shouting like anything. She is quite prickly, crabby but this guy is quite personable, friendly.

Ipudu divorce isthanu anna, ivvu nelanti sadist tho kapuram kante nenu vidipotame best. And nenu chustha nuvvu antha easy ga ela thappinchu kontavo ani challenge chesindi. Though both of them are staying in same house, they are hardly talking to each other. Ammai parents are worst, they are provoking her more and more. Abbai parents iddarni mandalinchali ani chusina, she is disrespecting them.

Crux, Does anyone the consequences of filing divorce in usa vs india ? Which is better and recommended. Also, entha karchu aiddi iddarki approximately. As far as alimony is concerned naku ardam aina batti, he spends lot more than her and her salary is more because she made job shifts.

 

Edi recommended and how to approach, where to file. How can he get it smoothly.

 

DB pujyulu, peddalu please help.

If divorce is the final option, ask your friend to plan finances properly before he starts the process.

1. India lo emina property unte, parents, family peru meedha marchali.

2. mee vaadu  valla parents  ki dabbulu pampi unte for buying preporty, daani traces teseyyali.

3. Mee vaadu valla parents daggara, family daggara baaga appullo untadu kadha vaadi chaduvu etc ki. Adhi document cheyyali to show that he is in debt. Ikkada nenu chepedhi artham avutundhi anukunta neeku.

4. Consulting lo unte w2 lo takkuva chuyinchi per-diem ki run chesuko manu. Oka vela GC unte 1099 meedha undi paystub lo takkuva chuyinchi migatha antha expenses lo chuyinchcali.

5. ammayi pay ekkuva kabatti oka advantage alimony vishayam lo. mee vaadi acct lo dabbulu ekkuva unte, vaatini vere daggara pettukomanu

Most important oka lawyer ni hire chesukomanu. Inka aa ammayi iche prathi dhamki ni, warning ni document cheyyamanu.

[CVR]

MS porila lani cheskune vaala dreams oka range lo unte result inko range lo untadi...life arm licking aa...seen a lot of them

[Quickgun_murugan]

16 hours ago, LocalFullMoon said:

@vendetta getting 3K Alimony every month