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Are you close to your father ?


Pichekkistha

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2 hours ago, lazybugger said:

I don't like my father too. He gave me $5m to do whatever I want with it, and get out of his sight.

But I can never forgive him for the way he belittled my mom. He's no more. Sometimes I miss him.

5 million dollars ? @3$%

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2 hours ago, sarkaar said:

anni positivies mee nannagaru gurinchi mataldi malli athani story tho  etta connect ayyav Mrs. Madhavan? ani @idibezwada @3$% just asking

Alantivi aduguthe humiliate chesav antadi .. jagratha @3$%

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Be thankful to your parents no matter what.

May be mee parents ki early age lo marriage ayyi undochu, mee father side vaallatho attachment ekkuva undi undochu. 

entha bad ni mee father gurinchi mind lo pettukunte kastam :o repu mee intiki vasthe sarigga treat cheyyaleru.. elanti mindset unchukoni.

be positive.. keep calling him regularly.

 

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4 minutes ago, sandie said:

Be thankful to your parents no matter what.

May be mee parents ki early age lo marriage ayyi undochu, mee father side vaallatho attachment ekkuva undi undochu. 

entha bad ni mee father gurinchi mind lo pettukunte kastam :o repu mee intiki vasthe sarigga treat cheyyaleru.. elanti mindset unchukoni.

be positive.. keep calling him regularly.

 

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Ma Paternal grandfather has that kinda attitude  :P 

maa thanmudini full gaaram chese vaallu.

luckily hez( gf) gone.. pics chusthe navvochidhi. Nenemo pakkana ninchoni unta. Maa thammu shoulder paina untadu 

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1 minute ago, sandie said:

Ma Paternal grandfather has that kinda attitude  :P 

maa thanmudini full gaaram chese vaallu.

luckily hez( gf) gone.. pics chusthe navvochidhi. Nenemo pakkana ninchoni unta. Maa thammu shoulder paina untadu 

please translate into telugu malli please

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6 hours ago, Pichekkistha said:

I was never close to my father.... and i don't want to be either....... This post might be to find if i am alone and if not, may be it consoles me.

In fact he is not close to neither my mother nor my brother. But i always find him talking / laughing a lot with relatives / friends . I don't understand what he is is trying to achieve. My mother..she can't utter a word / give suggestion or complain on anything at all. Its been close to 30 yrs. I feel $orry  for her.

I don't remember an instance that we were together... went to a restaurant, a movie, a trip, a ride nor a fun chat either. All he spoke to me was to either warn me or yell at me. I used to get out when he comes home for lunch. Never felt like sharing anything. Even under a low phase of life, he didn't support (except financially). I sponsored US visa for them 3 yrs back and been asking to visit because my mother wants to come. he doesn't visit and doesn't let even my mother visit.

I am not even sure if i like him...Generally, i am a happy & contended person. Don't have complains on anyone in life except him. He is over 55 now. I don't even know if i will be able to take care of him by myself when he grows older.

 Bro , atleast your father has settled your life...and my father is having all the above qualities and he did not settles my life too.. not given proper direction and nor financially supported me at anytime...my father too he is more attached to his brothers n sisters than my mom (now she is no more) and he loves his bro n sis more than his childrens(myself n sibbling) we both of them felt very bad at that time..and thinking same too...but after started my carrier i started thinking  why should i have to behave like sameas he. it is my responsibility to look after my parents..and started took  his reponsibility i paid his debt with my joining bonus n first pay check ...at that tine i felt very happy internally and from that day onwards..i have took his responsibility and started loving too..and fullfil some  of his dreams..and giving respect  infront of relations n in front of others  even though my i have taken care of my marraige expenses  he did not put his expenses (at that time he realized how much am respecting him and he said he will do reception for his satisfaction and put his  hard earn money) ..and today also we are having lot of differences in our opinions  but i always respect my father and that he recognized and started appreciated mee lot infornt of his bros n sis... so dont hate your parents never ever. Start loving him  and .do your responsibility towards  your parents....

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1 hour ago, sandie said:

Ma Paternal grandfather has that kinda attitude  :P 

maa thanmudini full gaaram chese vaallu.

luckily hez( gf) gone.. pics chusthe navvochidhi. Nenemo pakkana ninchoni unta. Maa thammu shoulder paina untadu 

Reverse ma Intlo 

paternal grand parents and aa side anta nannu full gaaram n ma bro ni pattinchukunetollu kadu 

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16 minutes ago, vendetta said:

Reverse ma Intlo 

paternal grand parents and aa side anta nannu full gaaram n ma bro ni pattinchukunetollu kadu 

Seems you' r only girl after long yrs at ur family 

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2 minutes ago, vravi22 said:

Seems you' r only girl after long yrs at ur family 

Vammo ela telsu ya enno generations nundi girl ledu and anta boys family anta 

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Me,my father jhan jigri dost..kalisi release day movies ki vellevallam ala ani mari ekkuva chanuvu ivvaledhu,control lo itae undevallam.but no matter wt support matram undedhi..!

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33 minutes ago, vendetta said:

Vammo ela telsu ya enno generations nundi girl ledu and anta boys family anta 

For Today generation parents  girls n boys are same..but incase of paternal generally they love boys...if they started loving girls meanz above is the ideal sitiation or they like ur parents too much..( bcause father may be capable of earning  or taking his parental responsibility)

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