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Pichekkistha

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4 minutes ago, k2s said:

 

you both seems amma kongu chatu pillalu 

Anthey kadha.... Amma ki migilindhi adhey.... $hit... i have tears in my eyes now...

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Just now, Quickgun_murugan said:

I dont think TS's mother ever felt she is ill-treated or asked TS to rescue her.... its TSs pure misunderstanding about his father-mother relationship...

how smug you are man. How do you know that TS's mother didn't feel that she was ill treated? some women don't even spell it out, in the fear of being asked to shut up or humiliated as being not strong enough.

I can't speak for the TS, but my mother was disgusted with my father's behavior towards her brother and relatives. Ofcourse my father had his reasons, and they were good ones too.

I know it, because I spent whole of my teen years rebelling against my father, doing things to piss him, dragging him to face humiliation on my account, etc.

I did this all because my mother wept before me and my sister.

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4 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

I dont think TS's mother ever felt she is ill-treated or asked TS to rescue her.... its TSs pure misunderstanding about his father-mother relationship...

mother eppudu adagaru rescue cheyyamani and also mother-father relationship meedha misunderstanding cheskunnaru ani anukolemu.. ah intlo chinappati nunchi choosinavu influence chesthayi..

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1 minute ago, lazybugger said:

how smug you are man. How do you know that TS's mother didn't feel that she was ill treated? some women don't even spell it out, in the fear of being asked to shut up or humiliated as being not strong enough.

I can't speak for the TS, but my mother was disgusted with my father's behavior towards her brother and relatives. Ofcourse my father had his reasons, and they were good ones too.

I know it, because I spent whole of my teen years rebelling against my father, doing things to piss him, dragging him to face humiliation on my account, etc.

I did this all because my mother wept before me and my sister.

At least you did that....I wish i was that bold....

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6 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

story allinava ? nijama @lazybugger uncle? 

$5M ichinaaka inka lolli endi.. roju racha cheskoka?

adhi ichi 20yrs ayyindi. inka endhi racha. ichina next min aey marichi poyna.

I don't owe a thing to my dad. I miss him, onlyy because I thought my dad was uniquely cruel. Found out almost every male is like that.

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Just now, innovative said:

mother eppudu adagaru rescue cheyyamani and also mother-father relationship meedha misunderstanding cheskunnaru ani anukolemu.. ah intlo chinappati nunchi choosinavu influence chesthayi..

Naku nidrostundi padukundam pada 

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21 minutes ago, innovative said:

 

I think one of the main reasons idhi.. mother ni father treat chese way chala impact padthadhi pillala meedha.. some fathers think .. pillalu chinappudu vallaki emi thelidhu nenu em chesina okay ane mindset lo vuntaru.. but thelikundane intlo ah paddathiki alavatu padipotharu.. but kids watch every thing . especially.. teenage lo boy child looks up to his father ani antaru.. so the way father treat his family members especially mom impacts children... (this applies to mom and the way she behaves with dad)

Generalize chesi cheppatledhu.. but thelisina families lo choosanu.. dad ni mom ni sariga treat cheyyaka povatam valla mentally hurt iyyi silent ga vundi poye vallani choosa.. they can neither change father nor console mother..  

I can agree with you completely ...........saw lot of cases

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Just now, innovative said:

mother eppudu adagaru rescue cheyyamani and also mother-father relationship meedha misunderstanding cheskunnaru ani anukolemu.. ah intlo chinappati nunchi choosinavu influence chesthayi..

what ever it is.. the mother is institutionalized .. separating them now will give her more pain than pleasure... TS should try his best to make his father openup with family... 

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1 minute ago, Pichekkistha said:

Anthey kadha.... Amma ki migilindhi adhey.... $hit... i have tears in my eyes now...

iddarni happy chey man

inta age vachaka inni years ayanto undi inka mom ki mee dad nundi em expectations undavu

they want you to be happy, happyga pelli chesko kids wife family toh happy undu, successful ga undu, it makes them happy

anta old age vacha keerthi pratistaki value istaru 

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2 minutes ago, lazybugger said:

adhi ichi 20yrs ayyindi. inka endhi racha. ichina next min aey marichi poyna.

I don't owe a thing to my dad. I miss him, onlyy because I thought my dad was uniquely cruel. Found out almost every male is like that.

yes..

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