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Are you close to your father ?


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Just now, vendetta said:

kadule

no comments, e posts chuste feel avtaru , manchi atani laga unnaru , nakey bhayam vesindi nammalante so matladatledu nenu

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1 hour ago, Pichekkistha said:

I was never close to my father.... and i don't want to be either....... This post might be to find if i am alone and if not, may be it consoles me.

In fact he is not close to neither my mother nor my brother. But i always find him talking / laughing a lot with relatives / friends . I don't understand what he is is trying to achieve. My mother..she can't utter a word / give suggestion or complain on anything at all. Its been close to 30 yrs. I feel $orry  for her.

I don't remember an instance that we were together... went to a restaurant, a movie, a trip, a ride nor a fun chat either. All he spoke to me was to either warn me or yell at me. I used to get out when he comes home for lunch. Never felt like sharing anything. Even under a low phase of life, he didn't support (except financially). I sponsored US visa for them 3 yrs back and been asking to visit because my mother wants to come. he doesn't visit and doesn't let even my mother visit.

I am not even sure if i like him...Generally, i am a happy & contended person. Don't have complains on anyone in life except him. He is over 55 now. I don't even know if i will be able to take care of him by myself when he grows older.

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Just now, lazybugger said:

manchodu ela man? he's just another idiot here, who has no qualms about referring to people the way dumbfcuks here do.

nannu psychologically disturbed annadu antey, its clear tht uncle doesn't talk to anybody outside his precious little circle where everyone agrees with hiim. lol.

idisheyy man.. edo peddodu .. chadastham ekkuva anthey..

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Just now, Quickgun_murugan said:

idisheyy man.. edo peddodu .. chadastham ekkuva anthey..

what man. nenemanna ippudu? respect adukkoni teeskuney anthaga, ivvatam telidu aa uncle ki. 

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1 hour ago, Pichekkistha said:

I was never close to my father.... and i don't want to be either....... This post might be to find if i am alone and if not, may be it consoles me.

In fact he is not close to neither my mother nor my brother. But i always find him talking / laughing a lot with relatives / friends . I don't understand what he is is trying to achieve. My mother..she can't utter a word / give suggestion or complain on anything at all. Its been close to 30 yrs. I feel $orry  for her.

I don't remember an instance that we were together... went to a restaurant, a movie, a trip, a ride nor a fun chat either. All he spoke to me was to either warn me or yell at me. I used to get out when he comes home for lunch. Never felt like sharing anything. Even under a low phase of life, he didn't support (except financially). I sponsored US visa for them 3 yrs back and been asking to visit because my mother wants to come. he doesn't visit and doesn't let even my mother visit.

I am not even sure if i like him...Generally, i am a happy & contended person. Don't have complains on anyone in life except him. He is over 55 now. I don't even know if i will be able to take care of him by myself when he grows older.

so good father aithe nenu good son avta.. since he is bad father.. I will be a bad son antav.. 

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1 minute ago, Bhalla1 said:

so good father aithe nenu good son avta.. since he is bad father.. I will be a bad son antav.. 

Nuvvu edi ante.. adey antadu TS kuda..

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8 minutes ago, vendetta said:

kadule

no comments, e posts chuste feel avtaru , manchi atani laga unnaru , nakey bhayam vesindi nammalante so matladatledu nenu

evari gurinchi chepthunnav tallli?

I'll be 35 this september. adhi musalodu aithey, alaagey kaani.

endho ee db lo gola. andaru 16yrs laaga feeling emo.

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2 minutes ago, Bhalla1 said:

so good father aithe nenu good son avta.. since he is bad father.. I will be a bad son antav.. 

There's no such thing as a bad son.

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1 minute ago, Bhalla1 said:

anni posts sadavale kani.. enduku ala antadu antav?

TS is thanu pattina kundeluki moode kallu type .. andukey alaa antadu 

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1 hour ago, sarkaar said:

mee father neeku  nachina, nachakapoyina, neeku janamnichina thandri.. nuvvu e stage varaku edigav unnav ante becuase of your father eh kada..

irrespective of his behaviour it is your responsibility to take care when your parents gets older.

you may  feel sorry later if you hate him now..

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2 minutes ago, lazybugger said:

evari gurinchi chepthunnav tallli?

I'll be 35 this september. adhi musalodu aithey, alaagey kaani.

endho ee db lo gola. andaru 16yrs laaga feeling emo.

Nuvvu kadule man

 

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