Interracial in India

[AFDBphilosopher]

America lo laagaa, India lo kooda Upper caste vallaki ilanti thinking untadaa?

[lazybugger]

undadhu.

[Batman_fan]

emi participate chestava

[lazybugger]

ee db lo nicest person ani neeku anipisthundo, athanni koncham geluku, 99% aayina casteism bayata osthundi.

India motham anthey. arranged marriage ani perutho caste ni continue chesthu nay untaru.

[AFDBphilosopher]

5 minutes ago, Batman_fan said:

emi participate chestava

Yes

[AFDBphilosopher]

4 minutes ago, lazybugger said:

ee db lo nicest person ani neeku anipisthundo, athanni koncham geluku, 99% aayina casteism bayata osthundi.

India motham anthey. arranged marriage ani perutho caste ni continue chesthu nay untaru.

Artham kaledhu

[lazybugger]

Just now, AFDBphilosopher said:

Artham kaledhu

caste paathuku poyindi Indians mindset lo.

caste neutral ani cheppuku tirigey vaallu kooda try cheyyaru intercaste marriage, that too with someone from a lower caste.

assalu vaallaki lower caste lo friends untey ga, marriage daaka vellataaniki. so amma nanna cheppina vallani cheskoni kaalanni gadipestharu.

[batman]

1 minute ago, lazybugger said:

caste paathuku poyindi Indians mindset lo.

caste neutral ani cheppuku tirigey vaallu kooda try cheyyaru intercaste marriage, that too with someone from a lower caste.

assalu vaallaki lower caste lo friends untey ga, marriage daaka vellataaniki. so amma nanna cheppina vallani cheskoni kaalanni gadipestharu.

i am open to inter religion marriage too

[AFDBphilosopher]

46 minutes ago, lazybugger said:

caste paathuku poyindi Indians mindset lo.

caste neutral ani cheppuku tirigey vaallu kooda try cheyyaru intercaste marriage, that too with someone from a lower caste.

assalu vaallaki lower caste lo friends untey ga, marriage daaka vellataaniki. so amma nanna cheppina vallani cheskoni kaalanni gadipestharu.

Yes, but vallaki okka saari power unna lower caste vaaditho valla aada vallanu denginchali aney korika untundhaaa?

[badboy]

Most of the thing what you have said here is true but, not all of it.

Nenu Intercaste marriage chesukunna.

[badboy]

2 hours ago, AFDBphilosopher said:

America lo laagaa, India lo kooda Upper caste vallaki ilanti thinking untadaa?

To my knowledge, america lo catselu levu. You were taking as per skin colour. Then why relate it to caste?? Second thing, human emotions ki caste/colour tho sambandham ledhu bhayya. When you are so thirsty, don't you drink water when offered by other religion/caste/coloured person? The picture you display and the message you project does not resemble your question. 

 

[dakumangalsingh]

15 minutes ago, badboy said:

Most of the thing what you have said here is true but, not all of it.

Nenu Intercaste marriage chesukunna.

So, here it goes.... me from childhood hostel and I do have lot of friends. Naa MBA ayyina taruvata yemmatey maa nanna garu naaku pelli chedham ani fix ayyaru. Nenu appudu UK ki vachesa, India lo vuntey ekkada chestaro ani. Second masters completed in uk and job vachindi uk lo ney and then started troubles, pelli pelli anni antunnaru. Okka 3 years manage chesa photo pampicha kunda, inka chivaraki emotional blackmailing started, inka tapadhu ani okka pic pampa just for the sake. Yee sambandham vachina reject chesey vadini ala okka 6 months manage chesa but anni options ayyipoyayi. Appudu maa nanna garu adigaru yenti assalu chesukuntava ledha ani....Then I said, only inter caste ammayi aithey ney chesysukunta ani cheppa. For that, my dad said you should have said that in the beginning itself ani. Ala ammayini kuda personal ga chudakunda cheysukunna marriage in 2014 - ( engagement appudu i am in uk). 

Maa family members ki fusulu eggiripoyayi. Every one opposed, but maa daddy ni adigey dairyam evariki ledhu so valla kopani pelliki evearu help cheyataniki rakunda project chesaru. Even though, my dad didn't care and now we are happy.

2 main reasons here for me to do so - nannu baga impact chesinavi - may be silly reasons for you but naaku kadhu.

1st reason - naa chinna appudu maa dad chepparu - avatalli vallu manushula kada aney chudu, caste aneydi pantinchukoku ani. (at the age I dont even know the word caste - anta chinnapudu. konni konni ala memories mana sub-conscious lo ala vuntai kada, this is one of it.  

2nd reason - my friend is a software employee in chennai and used to earn almost 1 lakh per month. he bought new cycle to go to office, migitha friends andau cheparu chudara vaadu cycle konnadu ani tease chesey vallu. Kanni vadu chepadu real reason about believing in what you do ani. andaru environment gurinchi matladutaru, i just did ani simple ga chepadu. this inspired me a lot.

Maa nanna gari sontha voorilo (nenu akkada puttaledhu, andukani valla sontha vooru anna). we go there for every sankranthi festival in childhood days. villages lo illu antey yela vuntayo telusu kada, pedha lawn laga vutundi. So, maa inti gate nunchi house deggaraku ravali antey okka 250 meters vutundi. that too yerra matti (red coulour sand) summar lo baga kalidhi. I use to witness this, when some people visit our home, they use to remove their footwear near that gate and walk till varanda, anta kalutunna alaney nadichey vallu. Being a kid, I didn't understand why do they do that. Memu yeppudaina cheppulu lekunda velithey mammalani titey vallu. So, after growing up i realised the reason. Vallu takkuava caste ani, andukey ala chestaru ani. I hated it so much, one day maa relatives visited my home (when i was in my degree), all were sitting inside my house that's when I asked their driver to grab a chair and sit. appudu andari mokalu madipoyayi but couldn't utter a word because of my dad. 

so andukani decide ayya to marry a girl out of caste ani and I did. For all those who need confirmation, I am OC and married ST girl (I even hate while typing this). Inni chaduvulu chadivi kuda castlu kakarikayalu yenti bhayya comedy kakapothey.

Nen Bhi matrimony profile lo caste no bar ani pettina but ekkada no responses