frustrated due to family

[iddaritho]

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

 

 

 

 

[kiladi bullodu]

1 minute ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

 

 

 

 

3 options alludu

1. Do not expect money from FIL

2. Divorce your wife and get married again

3. Leave USA go back and take caare of FIL properties

 

Dhabida dhibidey

if you do not do option 3 you will remain like Daggubati Venkateshwara Roa great Co - brother of SIR CBN

[JANASENA]

If I'm you I'll be least bothered about my in-laws properties and the shares. 

[TheBrahmabull]

3 minutes ago, kiladi bullodu said:

3 options alludu

1. Do not expect money from FIL

2. Divorce your wife and get married again

3. Leave USA go back and take caare of FIL properties

 

Dhabida dhibidey

if you do not do option 3 you will remain like Daggubati Venkateshwara Roa great Co - brother of SIR CBN

intha sunami create chesinav endi vayya - enduku bhayapedtunnav ts ni

[Android_Halwa]

5 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

Nyayame kada bhai chesindi...inkemi kavale niku mari ?

Niku vunna in laws...vallaki iddaru daughters...nuvemo India lo vundavu...mari vallani evaru chusukuntaru ? so..nyayanga chusthe, mee FIL should divide the property share into three parts...one for MIL, one for your wife and another share for your sis in law...this is the best solution. ledu nyayam ga naku 50-50 kavali ante...mee FIL and MIL ni chusukunedi evaru ane question vasthe, neeku vunna advantage kastha potadi...

settle for 33% and you will get your right share and no need to look after your in laws as you do now...

leda vallu chepedi, vellu chepedi vini naku 50% kavali ani lolli chesthe vunnadi kuda potadi, vachedi kuda raakapoga, mee FIL and MIL maintenannce kuda neeke padtadi...

and..property divide kaledu kabati vallu emana chesukuntaru..gold konkuntaro, poojalu chesukuntaro vallistam...nuv evaru vaya vallani lekkalu adaganike..

[Ara_Tenkai]

9 minutes ago, JANASENA said:

If I'm you I'll be least bothered about my in-laws properties and the shares. 

+1. I do not think this post is real.. valla FIL car konukkuntadu inkemaina konukkuntadu ... neekenduku bhayya... parents ki 2 daughters unte iddaru same economic status undali anukuntaru parents.. if you guys are earning more.. obviously neeku takkuva lands istaru...

[JANASENA]

1 minute ago, Android_Halwa said:

Nyayame kada bhai chesindi...inkemi kavale niku mari ?

Niku vunna in laws...vallaki iddaru daughters...nuvemo India lo vundavu...mari vallani evaru chusukuntaru ? so..nyayanga chusthe, mee FIL should divide the property share into three parts...one for MIL, one for your wife and another share for your sis in law...this is the best solution. ledu nyayam ga naku 50-50 kavali ante...mee FIL and MIL ni chusukunedi evaru ane question vasthe, neeku vunna advantage kastha potadi...

settle for 33% and you will get your right share and no need to look after your in laws as you do now...

leda vallu chepedi, vellu chepedi vini naku 50% kavali ani lolli chesthe vunnadi kuda potadi, vachedi kuda raakapoga, mee FIL and MIL maintenannce kuda neeke padtadi...

and..property divide kaledu kabati vallu emana chesukuntaru..gold konkuntaro, poojalu chesukuntaro vallistam...nuv evaru vaya vallani lekkalu adaganike..

[Henley]

9 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

 

 

 

 

Why bring parents in between? You don't you say you need that property and married just because of propert ? Are you couard ? 

[Henley]

11 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

 

 

 

 

Sachipo works doesn't deserve people like you who are couard 

[Android_Halwa]

First settle property issues with your parents...atarvata make peace with your wife and regain her confidence and with that confidence, push her to a corner to sort out property issue with her father..niku enduku vaya madhyala lolli...adollu aitha gattiga kotladi paisal patkostaru...galeez galeez chestaru ...niku enduku vaya ie pareshanlu antha...pendlanni pampichi mama kada paisal vasool chesuko...mee amma,ayya ni enduku vaya...vallani kuda gammuna kusomani cheppu...peddame poinapudu pilla ni ichina mama raledu ani dorkinapudalla esukunta ante etla...

 

[Nasavunensastha]

Dn ask inlaws properties bro...cm bl to us with ur wife..u wl b all set.

[Henley]

Just now, Nasavunensastha said:

Dn ask inlaws properties bro...cm bl to us with ur wife..u wl b all set.

He needs property man 

[former]

7 minutes ago, JANASENA said:

If I'm you I'll be least bothered about my in-laws properties and the shares. 

+ 1000000000111

[argadorn]

4 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Nyayame kada bhai chesindi...inkemi kavale niku mari ?

Niku vunna in laws...vallaki iddaru daughters...nuvemo India lo vundavu...mari vallani evaru chusukuntaru ? so..nyayanga chusthe, mee FIL should divide the property share into three parts...one for MIL, one for your wife and another share for your sis in law...this is the best solution. ledu nyayam ga naku 50-50 kavali ante...mee FIL and MIL ni chusukunedi evaru ane question vasthe, neeku vunna advantage kastha potadi...

settle for 33% and you will get your right share and no need to look after your in laws as you do now...

leda vallu chepedi, vellu chepedi vini naku 50% kavali ani lolli chesthe vunnadi kuda potadi, vachedi kuda raakapoga, mee FIL and MIL maintenannce kuda neeke padtadi...

and..property divide kaledu kabati vallu emana chesukuntaru..gold konkuntaro, po.nuv evaru vaya vallani lekkalu adaganike..ojalu chesukuntaro vallistam..

agreedd...

[former]

12 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde