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6 minutes ago, k2s said:

your wife should talk to her father and settle... not you... that property belongs to your wife... so you be out of this as much as possible. dont expect wife's property. 

if your co-brother is very close to FIL, let him be.. why you listen to 4 ppl words ? you are a guest to their house visiting once a year and will be a guest for ever. dont expect a son treatment. 

5 hours ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

*    Andarni sampi 10gi velu mudralu teesko blank stamp papers meeda... motham aasthulu niyye...

pichakuntla aasthula kosam unnolla life ni kharaab chestara...

*   ayinaa FIL and mee parents sampadinchukunnadi valla kosam.. vallu emaina cheskuntaru... 

*  you your wife or your parents have no right to demand.. isthe teeskondi .. ledante mooskoni mee pani chuskondi.. 

*  dont spoil your happiness with jealousy and hatred.. by the end of the day .. you all are family... 

*** mee parents ki nacha jeppu... 

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I dont want to be rude.. but meeru aa sambandham okay cheskunnadey .. iddaru ammayilu motham asthi manaday concept tho ayyuntadi... not coz you liked the girl very much..

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inka nayam @TOM_BHAYYA @k2s @Spartan @kiraak_poradu kaka laku telisthey abbidi dibbidi chestaru..

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6 hours ago, kiladi bullodu said:

3 options alludu

1. Do not expect money from FIL

2. Divorce your wife and get married again

3. Leave USA go back and take caare of FIL properties

 

Dhabida dhibidey

if you do not do option 3 you will remain like Daggubati Venkateshwara Roa great Co - brother of SIR CBN

4. (Anni Musukoni) Ichindi teesukoni...Jump US 

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andaru TS ki gaddi pettaru ga...  post chadivite ts valla in laws nundi money expect chestunattu ledu papam, valla parents daily nasa pedutunaru anukunta (like archana in biggboss @3$% )... parents ki gattiga cheppalekapotunadu.. in case gattiga chepte pellam ekkuva ayipoyindi makante ani anukuntaru ani feel avutunademo..

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Just now, JAMBALHOT_RAJA said:

andaru TS ki gaddi pettaru ga...  post chadivite ts valla in laws nundi money expect chestunattu ledu papam, valla parents daily nasa pedutunaru anukunta (like archana in biggboss @3$% )... parents ki gattiga cheppalekapotunadu.. in case gattiga chepte pellam ekkuva ayipoyindi makante ani anukuntaru ani feel avutunademo..

intinta ramyanam kada idhi

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3 minutes ago, Batman_fan said:

intinta ramyanam kada idhi

yes.. anduke emotions ninnu drive cheyakudadu sanka nakipotav nuvvu emotions ni drive cheyalli ani RGV cheppadu... lekapote daily telugu serials lo close up shots veskovali for every dialogue @3$%

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Andaru FIL lu inthe. Tondaraga lands avi settle cheyaru. Kid ayyaka cheddam anukuntaru but alane delay chestune untaru. 

Next nee co-brother. Vadu india lo untadu and mee in laws ki no sons so mee in laws athanu chedodu vadodu ga untadani and future lo health issues avi unte akkade untadu kabatti athanike close untaru. Nuvvu america lo unte anthe kada mari. just lite theesko. 

Final ga okonni esukovali. Mee in laws side relative evado cheppadu annav kada propeties gurinchi, vadidi rakta charitra lo kota srinivas role. Vadu mee in-laws side banduvu ayi undi valla meeda mee parents ki egesi bad cheppadam enti. India lo ilanti chillar gallu thagipisthe thinipisthe matladutaru.  Lite theesko vani matalu. 

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Heard similar case.

Okka close friend ki brother unnadu india lo. Valla parents ki villu idharey. Veedu 2-2 years ki okkasari india vellu 2-3 weeks undi vasthadu. Parents ni kooda usa ki eppudu pilavaledhu.

Last year valla nanna ki konni health issues vachayi.  India lo unna athaniki ekkuva properties icharu. Veediki thakkuva chesaru. Veedu pedha godava chesthey chuttalalo okkaru kooda veediki support ivvaledhu. Andaru veedi brother ki support chesaru.

Simple logic. When u dont want to take responsibilities, dont expect anything. Be it parents or inlaws.

Ayina mee mama car konukuntey mee parents problem endi. Nee problem endi. Ammayini ichi pelli chesinanduku restroom ki velladaniki kooda mee permission thisukovala?

Mee parents side ey thappu ekkuva anipisthundi. Sardi cheppu. Ledha future lo  mee wife pette torture ki ready undamanu

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39 minutes ago, JAMBALHOT_RAJA said:

andaru TS ki gaddi pettaru ga...  post chadivite ts valla in laws nundi money expect chestunattu ledu papam, valla parents daily nasa pedutunaru anukunta (like archana in biggboss @3$% )... parents ki gattiga cheppalekapotunadu.. in case gattiga chepte pellam ekkuva ayipoyindi makante ani anukuntaru ani feel avutunademo..

situation exact ga ardham chesukunnavu 

mundu nuyyi venaka goyyi anna type na situation 

nenu atu itu cheppukoleka chiraku tho friend valla intlo untunna 2 days nunchi

Ikkada chala mandi denguthunnatu unnaru but 99% hypocrites , andaru edo oka rakanga meru kaka pothe me parents marriage appudu thesukoni untaru 

na situation we did not know what my wife property are or their worth until they told us after engagement

Marriage before my FIl asked if he should write the property in my Name but i said no need so he said he will write the propety between both daughters after marriage and he told to my parents when they came to give patrika 

After marriage he ignored , we did not ask , now my co brother is planning to start a factory and trying to finance by mortgaging this lands which my FIL brother told my parents

so my parents are pushing very hard to have it written on my wife name before everything goes under loan 

my wife doesnt want to ask her parents and is giving push back.

 

So i am the person who is in the center and a situation now where i cant hurt either party 

My First goal is taking my parents to pooja second talk to my inlaws in front of my parents 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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4 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

situation exact ga ardham chesukunnavu 

mundu nuyyi venaka goyyi anna type na situation 

nenu atu itu cheppukoleka chiraku tho friend valla intlo untunna 2 days nunchi

Ikkada chala mandi denguthunnatu unnaru but 99% hypocrites , andaru edo oka rakanga meru kaka pothe me parents marriage appudu thesukoni untaru 

na situation we did not know what my wife property are or their worth until they told us after engagement

Marriage before my FIl asked if he should write the property in my Name but i said no need so he said he will write the propety between both daughters after marriage and he told to my parents when they came to give patrika 

After marriage he ignored , we did not ask , now my co brother is planning to start a factory and trying to finance by mortgaging this lands which my FIL brother told my parents

so my parents are pushing very hard to have it written on my wife name before everything goes under loan 

my wife doesnt want to ask her parents and is giving push back.

 

So i am the person who is in the center and a situation now where i cant hurt either party 

My First goal is taking my parents to pooja second talk to my inlaws in front of my parents 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

idhi intinta unde ramayaname.

 

Speak to your parents and explain them.. it's not worth to expect others property.

And also to your wife regarding your brother's plans.. don't ask her to get the property on her name.

 

idhi ippudu challabadina malla eppudo okasari leputaru issue... malla opikato nachacheppu anthe. Patience is the key.

 

Neeku nee mama ku elanti sambamdhalunnayo manaku telavadhu. 

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1 hour ago, iddaritho said:

situation exact ga ardham chesukunnavu 

mundu nuyyi venaka goyyi anna type na situation 

nenu atu itu cheppukoleka chiraku tho friend valla intlo untunna 2 days nunchi

Ikkada chala mandi denguthunnatu unnaru but 99% hypocrites , andaru edo oka rakanga meru kaka pothe me parents marriage appudu thesukoni untaru 

na situation we did not know what my wife property are or their worth until they told us after engagement

Marriage before my FIl asked if he should write the property in my Name but i said no need so he said he will write the propety between both daughters after marriage and he told to my parents when they came to give patrika 

After marriage he ignored , we did not ask , now my co brother is planning to start a factory and trying to finance by mortgaging this lands which my FIL brother told my parents

so my parents are pushing very hard to have it written on my wife name before everything goes under loan 

my wife doesnt want to ask her parents and is giving push back.

 

So i am the person who is in the center and a situation now where i cant hurt either party 

My First goal is taking my parents to pooja second talk to my inlaws in front of my parents 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

chill bro... this is quite common problem...  patience tho deal chey.. pooja gurinchi mee wife ni deal cheyamanu mee parents tho.. mee in-laws property gurinchi me parents ni deal cheyamanu vallatho ninnu involve cheyodhu ani cheppu.... niku inka bigger problems unnay at work ani cheppu like job ending visa status issue etc etc... just to make the other problem smaller... edo naku thochina idea cheppa

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1 hour ago, sandie said:

Marriage appudu anukuni untaru ga.. share enti ani.

property matters andhuke marriage mundhu matladukuntaru kadha. Etlanti godavalu rakunda.

Aunty nuvvu super.  Nuvu chala planned ga vunnatuvunnavu..

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