Balance between Family Time vs Career growth

[Quickgun_murugan]

2 minutes ago, Sreeven said:

No buddy...ptathi stage lo vallaki vunde tensions vuntai. nijam ga aithe we are in good position. neeku DB lo sollu matladatani time vundi..vallaki every min is important

     

[Quickgun_murugan]

1 minute ago, nildesparandom said:

enduk navthunnav rabhai?

[uttermost]

concentrate on your career, and be decent guy at home. eat supper together, and get to know how their day was. you should have it covered. good luck.

[nildesparandom]

1 minute ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

enduk navthunnav rabhai?

neelanti job okati cheppu ra bhai...ila roju DB lo inka ekkuva sepu gadipestham

[mastercheif]

41 minutes ago, ve_ndor_bad_cows said:

Its a routine yet busy life after marriage -- 

Day time motham office lo-- evening time & weekends gone with kids and shikaars--

career growth ki required new skills/technologies nerchukuntu, same time family tho time spend chesthu balance cheyadam yela? Id this really possible? For me keeping family happy is priority and i dont want to missout on my kids special moments/memories--

tips suggestions are welcome--

same boat lo unnavaalu same boat lo ne flow lo flowing or cruise eskoni jet speed lo cuts kodthu flowing ?

both not possible chinnu.

if you are disciplined and your spouse supports you then you can achieve both otherwise eat biscuit and laugh at yourself . ha ha  ha ha ha 

[nildesparandom]

Just now, mastercheif said:

both not possible chinnu.

if you are disciplined and your spouse supports you then you can achieve both otherwise eat biscuit and laugh at yourself . ha ha  ha ha ha 

[UncleSamaja]

43 minutes ago, ve_ndor_bad_cows said:

Its a routine yet busy life after marriage -- 

Day time motham office lo-- evening time & weekends gone with kids and shikaars--

career growth ki required new skills/technologies nerchukuntu, same time family tho time spend chesthu balance cheyadam yela? Id this really possible? For me keeping family happy is priority and i dont want to missout on my kids special moments/memories--

tips suggestions are welcome--

same boat lo unnavaalu same boat lo ne flow lo flowing or cruise eskoni jet speed lo cuts kodthu flowing ?

go to India and why did you get married.

[uttermost]

atleast till your kids reach teenage, don't forget they are watching what you do closely. be a nice guy. your kids will turn out awesome.

[ve_ndor_bad_cows]

7 minutes ago, uttermost said:

do stuff with your kids. better than going to shikaars.

like playing with them, solving crosswords, build treehouses.

parenting is hard. nobody has perfected it. good luck.

kids will grow up well regardless of you spending your time with them. make sure you don't act like d1ck. because kids can pick up the tiniest stuff.

99% of being a parent is trying to be a decent human being, whatever kind of asshole you were before you had kids.  

Spending time antey adhe man.. stories puzzles blocks writing eyc etc.. shikaars wife kosam man.. atleast alternate weeks..thanks for the inputs though...

[mastercheif]

5 minutes ago, nildesparandom said:

you laughing at yourself ? 

[ve_ndor_bad_cows]

4 minutes ago, UncleSamaja said:

go to India and why did you get married.

Arey poyi pakka thread lo aaduko po --nee lanti silly fellows latkhor threads chaala unaayi--

[UncleSamaja]

Just now, ve_ndor_bad_cows said:

Arey poyi pakka thread lo aaduko po --nee lanti silly fellows latkhor threads chaala unaayi--

Pelli enduku chesukunav.Thread vesyaniki time unda bey latkoor 

[Quickgun_murugan]

9 minutes ago, nildesparandom said:

neelanti job okati cheppu ra bhai...ila roju DB lo inka ekkuva sepu gadipestham

idi lakkuntey ochedi kadu @nildesparandom .. you have to earn it

[ve_ndor_bad_cows]

7 minutes ago, UncleSamaja said:

Pelli enduku chesukunav.Thread vesyaniki time unda bey latkoor 

Bro you have anger management issues and physcic issues-- first avi control lo ki thechukoni later reply to this thread

[ve_ndor_bad_cows]

13 minutes ago, uttermost said:

atleast till your kids reach teenage, don't forget they are watching what you do closely. be a nice guy. your kids will turn out awesome.

Yes -- you are absolutely right