dealing

[evadra_rowdy]

Cant you buy separate cars and let her do own shopping? You can invest all of your time on kid coaching some sport or cant you goto gym?

[Staysafebro]

Most women have same issues as your wife. Ladies ye antha boss. 

[Android_Halwa]

dude, when nothing goes right, go left ani annaru peddalu...

sakkaga chepthe vintaledu....okay..bane vundi...kani nuv entha sakamainodivo kuda maku telvadu kada...

nuv ne pendlam itla chestundi ani chepinav...kani nee version kuda correct ani nammadam etla vaya ?

samasaram annaka lollilu ayitayi vaya...chill...anthe kani...darwaza enkala muchatlu dukanam petti mari chepithe etla ne ?

titti chepthe intaledu....thik hain...ipudu pyar mohabbat se cheppu...oka 2-3 months ne pendlam emi chesina, kopam rakunda handle chey...pyar se samjhao...mohabbat dikhao...pyar mohabbar mein nafrat bhi pigal jathi hain...nafrat karne wali biwi kya cheez hain

but a 2-3 months la...nuv ne kopam ni handle chesukolekapothe...neelo kuda lopam vunate...so, first try to identify where and whats going wrong with you and correct it...then you can see how to handle your wife...

 

 

[reality]

11 minutes ago, Staysafebro said:

Most women have same issues as your wife. Ladies ye antha boss. 

 

[Don_Draper]

2 hours ago, liteteesko said:

i and my wife have been married for about 5 years and we are not jelling well. I have anger issues. She has time management issues and other absent minded issues. doc deggariki vellam not very much progress. Usually she is a calm person. We have a kid and we both are working.

Na feeling and impression on her is like she is not well managed/organised person. Nene anni initiation teesukovali like kid doc appointment, bill payments, weekend plans etc. No mundu chupu ata all. but other wise family social life bane handle chestadi. so basically very laid back and na true feeling she is more like consumer ....consume the situation at home as it comes and just react to it. but  proactive ga emi cheyadu including showering love.  this is my opinion and she disagrees to this. Probbaly i am not seeing/feeling her efforts what she claims that she is doing.

matter enti ante idi ila undaga.. godavalu aitunayi.. like late chesina, ediana marchipoina, naku picha kopam vachi thidatanu. i should agree that na maatalu koncham rude ga untayi not demeaning or any bad words. naku enti ante tanu nerchukovali  ani but tanu chesina porapatle malli malli chestadi. like making me wait some while doing shopping .... she repeats and repeats same things again again. I scold her and remind her you are not learning from past situations. She has a reason for everything but result matram unadu.  nenu chala hurting ga matladutanu ani, nenu thitidhte eduru inka recha kodatadi inka finally matter racha racha aitadi.

Nenu chala sarlu cheppanu, nenu koncham thidithe nuvvu enduku malli rechagodatavu koncham ice cheste na kopam taagutadi kada ani. but her response is Nenu emi mother teresa ni kadu.. nuvvu matldate mataldki ee manishi aina paurusham vasatdi ani.

Meeku ilanti sutuations vastunaya.. ela deal chestunaruuu? naku chaala heavy ga undi.. depression vastundi. 

You should accept the person as is and plan accordingly. Inka pressure pettatam valla emi kadu. Anger is like a hole, you keep on digging it. Better accept her flaws, amey flaws kanna ni anger ee dangerous. Its okay life is not straight, mundu chupu bokka em nadvadu ayyedi edo aithaney untadi... everyone forgets bro.. nenu indaka gym lo na locker kakunda vere locker naadi ankoni 30 mins gym vallani pareshan chesa.. anni open chesi chustey last lo opposite di naa locker undey.. had a rough day.  Tittinapudu vallaki self respect untundi.  Just say chweet chorry an move on  .  You are trying too hard to change her, don't just accept it.  

[vankarodu]

1 hour ago, explore said:

ne peru ku nyayam chesav

[Don_Draper]

2 hours ago, dakumangalsingh said:

Matter enti ante chala Chinna vishayam 

nuvvu kopam tagginchukoo bro ante. Nothing serious here 

   

[kingoftollywood]

nuvvu basic ga ma intlo story raasinattu vunnav.....exactly same to same here...

kakapotey aa time ki serious avvadam....oka 15mins tarvatha malli back to normal

ekkuva sepu kopam ga vundalem

kakapotey mee antha long kaadu...and no kids

[riashli]

#maleego #husbandego

Almost all husbands feel the same.. vallu perfect anattu n being short tempered is birth right anattu.. emaina ante chinnappudu nundi na kopam inthe antaru.. adedo best quality laga.. 

Time management anta.. mundu meeru chese panulu sariga chesi wife meda edavandi 

[reality]

Just now, riashli said:

#maleego #husbandego

Almost all husbands feel the same.. vallu perfect anattu n being short tempered is birth right anattu.. emaina ante chinnappudu nundi na kopam inthe antaru.. adedo best quality laga.. 

Time management anta.. mundu meeru chese panulu sariga chesi wife meda edavandi 

[Don_Draper]

2 hours ago, liteteesko said:

adi overnight solution kadu bro.. its a characteristic by birth. birth defect. taggichukovadam kuda practice cheyali ...daaniki she also must support and handle well in those situations. I tried and still trying.. but support and help lekunda i am feeling more depressed. depression feelings vastunayi.. mounanga undatam.. suicide contemplate alochaanlu

You are thinking too much and expecting too much.. Don't try hard.. Support enduku vaaa.. We come alone die alone, why expect support.. Fighters fight alone. Your depression stems from your expectation... Everyone cannot handle well all situations... birth defect ala em undadu. The environment she came from might be different.. over a period of time things will change.. Believe me the harder you try harder you will fail..

[cyndrilla]

12 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

dude, when nothing goes right, go left ani annaru peddalu...

sakkaga chepthe vintaledu....okay..bane vundi...kani nuv entha sakamainodivo kuda maku telvadu kada...

nuv ne pendlam itla chestundi ani chepinav...kani nee version kuda correct ani nammadam etla vaya ?

samasaram annaka lollilu ayitayi vaya...chill...anthe kani...darwaza enkala muchatlu dukanam petti mari chepithe etla ne ?

titti chepthe intaledu....thik hain...ipudu pyar mohabbat se cheppu...oka 2-3 months ne pendlam emi chesina, kopam rakunda handle chey...pyar se samjhao...mohabbat dikhao...pyar mohabbar mein nafrat bhi pigal jathi hain...nafrat karne wali biwi kya cheez hain

but a 2-3 months la...nuv ne kopam ni handle chesukolekapothe...neelo kuda lopam vunate...so, first try to identify where and whats going wrong with you and correct it...then you can see how to handle your wife...

 

 

wah wa wah wa Halwa

[Don_Draper]

3 minutes ago, kingoftollywood said:

nuvvu basic ga ma intlo story raasinattu vunnav.....exactly same to same here...

kakapotey aa time ki serious avvadam....oka 15mins tarvatha malli back to normal

ekkuva sepu kopam ga vundalem

kakapotey mee antha long kaadu...and no kids

kahani ghar ghar ki antav  .  

[Don_Draper]

3 hours ago, liteteesko said:

i and my wife have been married for about 5 years and we are not jelling well. I have anger issues. She has time management issues and other absent minded issues. doc deggariki vellam not very much progress. Usually she is a calm person. We have a kid and we both are working.

Na feeling and impression on her is like she is not well managed/organised person. Nene anni initiation teesukovali like kid doc appointment, bill payments, weekend plans etc. No mundu chupu ata all. but other wise family social life bane handle chestadi. so basically very laid back and na true feeling she is more like consumer ....consume the situation at home as it comes and just react to it. but  proactive ga emi cheyadu including showering love.  this is my opinion and she disagrees to this. Probbaly i am not seeing/feeling her efforts what she claims that she is doing.

matter enti ante idi ila undaga.. godavalu aitunayi.. like late chesina, ediana marchipoina, naku picha kopam vachi thidatanu. i should agree that na maatalu koncham rude ga untayi not demeaning or any bad words. naku enti ante tanu nerchukovali  ani but tanu chesina porapatle malli malli chestadi. like making me wait some while doing shopping .... she repeats and repeats same things again again. I scold her and remind her you are not learning from past situations. She has a reason for everything but result matram unadu.  nenu chala hurting ga matladutanu ani, nenu thitidhte eduru inka recha kodatadi inka finally matter racha racha aitadi.

Nenu chala sarlu cheppanu, nenu koncham thidithe nuvvu enduku malli rechagodatavu koncham ice cheste na kopam taagutadi kada ani. but her response is Nenu emi mother teresa ni kadu.. nuvvu matldate mataldki ee manishi aina paurusham vasatdi ani.

Meeku ilanti sutuations vastunaya.. ela deal chestunaruuu? naku chaala heavy ga undi.. depression vastundi. 

Btw spend more time with your wife, tell her you regret being in anger and you lost control. Tell her you will try to improve. We both should improve indeed. Take steps together.. Be happy man..max 30 years inka bathkutam emo.. madyala eda dubki kodtamo telidu.. Repu ni kid kuda ninnu alaney antadu daddy you are not changing.. villager ani.. appudu telustadi..

[Don_Draper]

5 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

wah wa wah wa Halwa

Nailed it akkada