dealing

[uttermost]

5 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Nyayam nyayame...kanoon Andha hotha hain bhai..adame ki kastam vachindani ayyo papam ante etla, a matlab endo kuda telvale kada...

adame vachi Manishi ni sampithe, adi kuda crime ane antaru kani, adollu chesinru kada ani life teesukoru kada

choosko ra bhai. if love and respect is not the basis for marriage, better dont marry.

stop pretending like you've cracked the evolutionary code on gender relations and are simply acting out in your kids best interest.

you are being dishonest and untruthful.

[tom bhayya]

[reality]

The moment you stigmatize yourself as angryman...feminists will pound you...

[SeemaLekka]

1 minute ago, tom bhayya said:

Welcome back ankul

[Anta Assamey]

[uttermost]

1 minute ago, reality said:

The moment you stigmatize yourself as angryman...feminists will pound you...

where do feminists come? If a man/woman has married, doesn't he have the responsibility towards his family? responsibilities include deescalating conflicts in the house.

anyway this is not a court, where his confessions are going to change the jury's opinion of him. He's welcome to take a deep look at himself in anonymity, if its possible. even if the replies here aren't upto the mark.

[Don_Draper]

39 minutes ago, SeemaLekka said:

Don anna

Etlunnav

[Don_Draper]

24 minutes ago, mustang302 said:

Tomorrow evening buy her some flowers.environment ela change ipothadho nuvvae choodu..!

 

https://www.1800flowers.com/

[Kumaravarma]

22 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Nyayam nyayame...kanoon Andha hotha hain bhai..adame ki kastam vachindani ayyo papam ante etla, a matlab endo kuda telvale kada...

adame vachi Manishi ni sampithe, adi kuda crime ane antaru kani, adollu chesinru kada ani life teesukoru kada

arey arey halwa anna inka appu ra plz ra 

[Kumaravarma]

24 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

Voice leda ? Women are suffering from identity crisis here, gender dos domination aitundi..danivalla female batch anthe musugu lo vuntunaru...

thikesipdesinaru

kaali peeli aath..!! 

[TOM_BHAYYA]

13 minutes ago, tom bhayya said:

[athadu]

4 hours ago, liteteesko said:

i and my wife have been married for about 5 years and we are not jelling well. I have anger issues. She has time management issues and other absent minded issues. doc deggariki vellam not very much progress. Usually she is a calm person. We have a kid and we both are working.

Na feeling and impression on her is like she is not well managed/organised person. Nene anni initiation teesukovali like kid doc appointment, bill payments, weekend plans etc. No mundu chupu ata all. but other wise family social life bane handle chestadi. so basically very laid back and na true feeling she is more like consumer ....consume the situation at home as it comes and just react to it. but  proactive ga emi cheyadu including showering love.  this is my opinion and she disagrees to this. Probbaly i am not seeing/feeling her efforts what she claims that she is doing.

matter enti ante idi ila undaga.. godavalu aitunayi.. like late chesina, ediana marchipoina, naku picha kopam vachi thidatanu. i should agree that na maatalu koncham rude ga untayi not demeaning or any bad words. naku enti ante tanu nerchukovali  ani but tanu chesina porapatle malli malli chestadi. like making me wait some while doing shopping .... she repeats and repeats same things again again. I scold her and remind her you are not learning from past situations. She has a reason for everything but result matram unadu.  nenu chala hurting ga matladutanu ani, nenu thitidhte eduru inka recha kodatadi inka finally matter racha racha aitadi.

Nenu chala sarlu cheppanu, nenu koncham thidithe nuvvu enduku malli rechagodatavu koncham ice cheste na kopam taagutadi kada ani. but her response is Nenu emi mother teresa ni kadu.. nuvvu matldate mataldki ee manishi aina paurusham vasatdi ani.

Meeku ilanti sutuations vastunaya.. ela deal chestunaruuu? naku chaala heavy ga undi.. depression vastundi. 

Dont overthink.. idi prati intlo undede.. nuvu mari sensitive ga alochistunavu.. and yes kopam taginchuko and you are not perfect as well.

[halwaraaj]

4 hours ago, liteteesko said:

i and my wife have been married for about 5 years and we are not jelling well. I have anger issues. She has time management issues and other absent minded issues. doc deggariki vellam not very much progress. Usually she is a calm person. We have a kid and we both are working.

Na feeling and impression on her is like she is not well managed/organised person. Nene anni initiation teesukovali like kid doc appointment, bill payments, weekend plans etc. No mundu chupu ata all. but other wise family social life bane handle chestadi. so basically very laid back and na true feeling she is more like consumer ....consume the situation at home as it comes and just react to it. but  proactive ga emi cheyadu including showering love.  this is my opinion and she disagrees to this. Probbaly i am not seeing/feeling her efforts what she claims that she is doing.

matter enti ante idi ila undaga.. godavalu aitunayi.. like late chesina, ediana marchipoina, naku picha kopam vachi thidatanu. i should agree that na maatalu koncham rude ga untayi not demeaning or any bad words. naku enti ante tanu nerchukovali  ani but tanu chesina porapatle malli malli chestadi. like making me wait some while doing shopping .... she repeats and repeats same things again again. I scold her and remind her you are not learning from past situations. She has a reason for everything but result matram unadu.  nenu chala hurting ga matladutanu ani, nenu thitidhte eduru inka recha kodatadi inka finally matter racha racha aitadi.

Nenu chala sarlu cheppanu, nenu koncham thidithe nuvvu enduku malli rechagodatavu koncham ice cheste na kopam taagutadi kada ani. but her response is Nenu emi mother teresa ni kadu.. nuvvu matldate mataldki ee manishi aina paurusham vasatdi ani.

Meeku ilanti sutuations vastunaya.. ela deal chestunaruuu? naku chaala heavy ga undi.. depression vastundi. 

most common scenario......5 yrs ayyindi antunnav.....godavalu avvadam start aina deggarnunchi ippati daka, neelo konni changes ochi untai, alage amelo, avento list cheyyi, self assess whether the changes are aggressive enough for the time period or really slow, same thing me wife ni thana point of view nunchi cheyamanu, kurchuni discuss cheyandi, these are very petty issues like small stones which would generally get crushed and eventually vanish when 2 gears are trying to fit and work together.

 

If one of you is seriously trying to overcome mistakes and not able to, then communicate with your partner and ask them to help....if they are not able to help and/or you are not able to overcome....then your partner will accept you as you are since you gave then the confidence that you tried everything you can(dont expect it right away....acceptance takes time)......

P. S : I am married for 4 years, since my 6th month after marriage till our 3rd anniversary we never had a single 15-day stretch without issues/arguments/quarrels some of them almost went till parting discussions.....but I always believed in one thing.....there is nothing more important for me in this world than keeping up and holding onto the relation, I hate to accept defeat in the game with life.....during this time my ego and this belief were colliding head on to win over each other......I held my breath and hung on and eventually, not a single quarrel in the last one year, I accept her as she currently is and she accepts me as I currently am. And now my belief is always one level above my ego which made it possible. Game over!!

[devarakonda]

Hi Bro, i am in a relation with a girl for 6years, i had situations exactly like yours. And I did same like you getting serious on her assuming that she will learn, also I used to clearly explain her why I am serious and how I want her to make decisions at those situations, she still did the same mistakes again and again. But finally she is no more with me, she broke up with me 3months ago. I am now severely heart broken and trying very hard to come out of it  ..

I feel she is immature to understand why I am doing like that and gave up with me.

[alooparata]

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