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1 hour ago, Android_Halwa said:

idi mari too much vaya...nenu epudu chepina nenu naa pellam ni control chestha ani ?

endo emo...ie duniya motham assumptions mida nadustundi

Ne postlu chustene telstondi male chauvinist

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54 minutes ago, Heroin said:

Ne postlu chustene telstondi male chauvinist

hehe...posts chusthe telustunda ? okay..if iam a male chauvinist...so whats wrong in it ? 

to make it balance in the society, yeah I might be male chauvinist to challenge the psuedo feminists..

are you one among them ?

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1 hour ago, Android_Halwa said:

hehe...posts chusthe telustunda ? okay..if iam a male chauvinist...so whats wrong in it ? 

to make it balance in the society, yeah I might be male chauvinist to challenge the psuedo feminists..

are you one among them ?

I'm not pseudo feminist

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11 hours ago, liteteesko said:

i and my wife have been married for about 5 years and we are not jelling well. I have anger issues. She has time management issues and other absent minded issues. doc deggariki vellam not very much progress. Usually she is a calm person. We have a kid and we both are working.

Na feeling and impression on her is like she is not well managed/organised person. Nene anni initiation teesukovali like kid doc appointment, bill payments, weekend plans etc. No mundu chupu ata all. but other wise family social life bane handle chestadi. so basically very laid back and na true feeling she is more like consumer ....consume the situation at home as it comes and just react to it. but  proactive ga emi cheyadu including showering love.  this is my opinion and she disagrees to this. Probbaly i am not seeing/feeling her efforts what she claims that she is doing.

matter enti ante idi ila undaga.. godavalu aitunayi.. like late chesina, ediana marchipoina, naku picha kopam vachi thidatanu. i should agree that na maatalu koncham rude ga untayi not demeaning or any bad words. naku enti ante tanu nerchukovali  ani but tanu chesina porapatle malli malli chestadi. like making me wait some while doing shopping .... she repeats and repeats same things again again. I scold her and remind her you are not learning from past situations. She has a reason for everything but result matram unadu.  nenu chala hurting ga matladutanu ani, nenu thitidhte eduru inka recha kodatadi inka finally matter racha racha aitadi.

Nenu chala sarlu cheppanu, nenu koncham thidithe nuvvu enduku malli rechagodatavu koncham ice cheste na kopam taagutadi kada ani. but her response is Nenu emi mother teresa ni kadu.. nuvvu matldate mataldki ee manishi aina paurusham vasatdi ani.

Meeku ilanti sutuations vastunaya.. ela deal chestunaruuu? naku chaala heavy ga undi.. depression vastundi. 

so you have the solution . #liteteesuko

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10 hours ago, JAMBALHOT_RAJA said:

nee problem ki reason OCD. Anni perfect ga undali anukovadam. annitiki picha lite picha lite ani manasulo anuko. 

abbah emana cheppava gaandu babu

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9 hours ago, evadra_rowdy said:

Cant you buy separate cars and let her do own shopping? You can invest all of your time on kid coaching some sport or cant you goto gym?

evadra_rowdy

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chinna vishayalu evvi ....nuvu compare chesthavu kadha varey vallu intha fast ga chestahru ala ani ...these cases are common on every one's family ...vallu mana laga fast reactive avaru man... adhi nenu kuda realise ayyi  ...individuality gurinchi chepthuna 

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nee side nunchi thappu undhi antunav... kadha.. first avi tagginchi chudu.

tanu job chesthunda..if yes..then why pressurize her for not doing things and being proactive.. 

may be these things are not worthy of her doing. so u do..its for ur family.. 

shopping deggar, repeat mistakes...patience unchkoo... picha lite.

happy wife is happy life

nuv entha thiditey ...anthey amount damage avthundi relationship kuda..so lite jus do all u can.. keep patience. imagine she is not there and keep doing stuff

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11 hours ago, kingoftollywood said:

nuvvu basic ga ma intlo story raasinattu vunnav.....exactly same to same here...

kakapotey aa time ki serious avvadam....oka 15mins tarvatha malli back to normal

ekkuva sepu kopam ga vundalem

kakapotey mee antha long kaadu...and no kids

MINE TO SAME TO SAME, but as you said my anger is also for 15 to 30 min :)

ee adollu anthe, mana maga jaathi kuda anthe....have to lead life happily 

 

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