NEVER EVER REFER YOUR HIGH TALENTED FRIENDS FOR THE SAME ROLE

[pillirevanth]

 

Long back in 2011 lo na First Project. I was hired for .net Developer but after joining the project, i came to know that its crystal reports oriented work. Maa praxy***** vaadu anni vachu ani cheppadu, so my manager was expecting work from me from 1st day. Accommodation ledu, Car ledu, telsina vallu leru, weather kotha(snow weather), ila chala problems madya chala kastapadi 2 months lo crystal reports videos konukkoni, night training avtu morning office lo work chestunte, maa manager ki naa meeda konchem impression poyindi. Work aithe chesina kaani impression poyindi, 1st assignment target reach avvaledu ani. First impression is a best impression kada. 

2 months tarvatha maa contractor colleague ki vere job vasthe resign chesadu with out any notice. So client and Prime vendor both are desperate to have one more consultant for work. Consultant notice period ivvaledu ani prime vendor baaga bayapaddadu. E situation ni cash chesukundamani nenu prime vendor ki call chesi na close friend ni refer chesina(who helped me to get masters seat). Resume submission interview schedule avvadam 30 mins lo aindi.. ade day evening interview ki same ***** ni arrange chesina..friend ki job vachindi. that day was thursday and he got joining for monday. I gave him an accommodation, shared all of my knowledge which i learned from past 2 months. Gave heads up about team lead and manager's mentality etc etc.. He joined on monday, a task was assigned on the same day. I helped him to complete that task by wednesday.. First task kaabatti konchem impression undali ani full blood pettinam..After reviewing his work, manager praised him alot on thursday and on the same day i got TERMINATION notice for the next day.
My manager thought my friend is best fit compared to me for my position.. 

ON THAT DAY I DECIDED NOT TO REFER ANY OF MY FRIENDS UNTIL MY SKILLS ARE PROVEN AND MANAGEMENT HAS GOOD OPINION ON ME.

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Cut chesthe 2015 lo naaku oka job vachindi in a city where 90 miles away from the city i am currently living. E saari nene f2f interview ki velli job techukunna. Job Requirement is tough with all the new technologies where 60% skills are not familiar to me. Lease undatam valla and job safety doubt valla first 2 months travel chesina. 1st month daily and 2nd month alternate days drive chesina. New technologies learning curve, manager gaadi mood swings, min of 4-5 hours of hectic daily driving in the traffic. work cheyadam tough ga unde due to all these reasons. nenokkidine New city ki move ayipodam anukunna but for the sake of my 4 months old baby i couldn't do that. Work pressure valla correct apartment kuda choose chesukoleka poyina new city lo. New city ki move ayipoyaka maa parents vacharu US trip ki. Job lo inka full grip raakapovadam valla, i didn't give my best to my parents. 6 months tarvatha apartment change chesina, penalty pay chesi. After doing 1 year of job i got stability. My manager has very good impression on me.

MANAGEMENT MAARINDI, they are mostly kind of non technical. after few months oka QA join aindi and she knows basics of Agile. With her good communication skills she tried to convert her position to scrum master role. 

 

 Oka colleague ki vere job vachi vellipoyadu.. nenu, na masters close friend(Person A) long back anukunnam, same cilent ki work cheddam ani in specified X state. so i took the initiation.. vaadu vere job chesthunna kaani nenu chestunna company lo job ippincha.. maa office lo vaadiki job raavadaniki kartha, karma and kriya anni nene with best pay rate. Job vachaka 1 month maa intlone free accommdatio kuda ichina. Job lo kuda as usual ga baaga help chesina to get onto pace. oka 3 months tarvatha Person B(OPT), Person C(H4 EAD) join ayyaru. Person C job environment ni sanka naakinchindi.. One fine day she met with an accident and didn't come to office. I thought to refer an opt guy. Naaku full job safety + candidate meeda naaku manchi margin kuda vastadi ani.. I have prepared all the required things. Idi ila unte, maa friend Person A oka meeting lo(i was not there) maa manager ki cheppindu, i know one friend who is very good(Person D), and i feel he is very good fit for our project ani. Vendor tho matladatam, resume submit cheyadam anni chesesadu and main thing is, he forgot to tell me that. Next day Person D ki praxy***** koraku nannu adigaadu. Appudu cheppadu i forgot to tell you what happened yesterday ani.. Person D naaku kuda manchi friend(masters) and he also doing a good job from past 3 years in a same client. Ippudu Person D maa company ki vasthe na position doubtfull untadi later ani naaku telsu. My wife also told me not encourage this ani. Andukani e process mothanni break cheddam ani Person D raavaddu ani Person B and D ki chepdam anukunna. But enduko nenu selfish/foolish ga aalochistunnanu ani anukuntaru ani little hesitated and back step vesina(The biggest regret in my life).. person D got job and i gave him 2 weeks accommodation at my home. I still have some regret about my back step. 2 weeks tarvatha india trip poyina for 45 days.. So got refreshed.. Person D is gem and he proven at work greatly. 

I am a stright forward guy.  junior scrum master, developers ni micro management chesthu blame cheyadam start chesindi.. I confronted her processes with good reasons in front of management. scrum master na meeda grudge pettukoni naatho manchiga act chesthu maa director ki naa meeda bad impression create cheyatam start chesindi.. After 8 months one fine day director nannu pilichi na work poor undi ani chaala class peekadu..Later i figured out that its because of the junior scrum master's false reports my director got a bad impression on me..

Ippudu office lo organization changes ayyayi.. Budget issues valana 2 developers ni teeseddam anukunnaru.. So aa list lo Person B(opt) and Nenu unnam. Management thought Person A and Person D are better than me.

I felt really very bad, i spent hell lot of time to understanding the project/people and shared the knowledge to my friends. During this process i might lost impression with the new management. And the most frustrating part when many of my friends are asking me is "WHY ONLY YOUR CONTRACT IS TERMINATING BETWEEN 3 OF YOU, THOUGH YOU JOINED 1 YEAR AHEAD OF THEM." 

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so friends, NEVER EVER REFER YOUR HIGH TALENTED FRIENDS THAN YOU FOR THE SAME PROJECT FOR THE THE SAME ROLE YOU ARE WORKING FOR.
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[Piracy Raja]

[alooparata]

paadu lokam ra 

[nandananditha]

story la  cum master  mistake unadhi kani friends dhi ledhu ga

[idibezwada]

manchiga ayindi...nelantollaki alane avvali..selfishh shiat..

[alooparata]

Just now, idibezwada said:

manchiga ayindi...nelantollaki alane avvali..

orey manchi chese vaallani cheda dobbaku ra 

[idibezwada]

2 minutes ago, nandananditha said:

story la  cum master  mistake unadhi kani friends dhi ledhu ga

maku edvadaniki jealous feel avvadaniki oka reason kavali...frndsdi pokuna manodidi poyindi ani baabu edupu...

[idibezwada]

2 minutes ago, alooparata said:

orey manchi chese vaallani cheda dobbaku ra 

em manchi chesadu babu...commission kosam refer cheydam kuda manchena..

[pillirevanth]

3 minutes ago, nandananditha said:

story la  cum master  mistake unadhi kani friends dhi ledhu ga

cum master reports thoni class peekina director after 6 months tarvatha praised me. Basic ga i became silent didn't confronting any more.. completing the tasks just as they wanted, so management is happy with me.. 

for the budget issues, when the head count came into the picture.. I stood last compared to my friends.

[idibezwada]

1 minute ago, pillirevanth said:

cum master reports thoni class peekina director after 6 months tarvatha praised me. Basic ga i became silent didn't confronting any more.. completing the tasks just as they wanted, so management is happy with me.. 

for the budget issues, when the head count came into the picture.. I stood last compared to my friends.

so ippudu nee frnds kakunda akkada vere vallu undi appudu nee head count 1st unte emchesevadivi...frnds backstab chesi edanna politics cheste edvali kani idem edupu vayya..

[GeorgeReddy]

good post ba

neku bathakanerchina telivitetalu levu.. join a company with as many few indians as possible

[vokatonumberkurrodu]

nenu MS Ki vachina kothalo....seniors oka maata chepperu....

neeku ekkadaina oka position open undhi ani telisthe aa vishayam nee lone unchuko...nee friends gaani roomates gaani asalu cheppodhu ani....

adhenti ala antunnaru information share chesukovadam manchidhe kada ani....

but fact of matter is there will be some people who are not good at finding positions but if  we help them apply they can work behind our backs to get recommendations from people already working there and get that job....

US is a cutthroat world ...ikkada friend family em undadhu....evari labham valu choosukuntaru....

 

[nandananditha]

1 minute ago, idibezwada said:

so ippudu nee frnds kakunda akkada vere vallu undi appudu nee head count 1st unte emchesevadivi...frnds backstab chesi edanna politics cheste edvali kani idem edupu vayya..

andaru kalisi chesaru ani doubt emio

[princeofheaven]

22 minutes ago, pillirevanth said:

 

Long back in 2011 lo na First Project. I was hired for .net Developer but after joining the project, i came to know that its crystal reports oriented work. Maa praxy***** vaadu anni vachu ani cheppadu, so my manager was expecting work from me from 1st day. Accommodation ledu, Car ledu, telsina vallu leru, weather kotha(snow weather), ila chala problems madya chala kastapadi 2 months lo crystal reports videos konukkoni, night training avtu morning office lo work chestunte, maa manager ki naa meeda konchem impression poyindi. Work aithe chesina kaani impression poyindi, 1st assignment target reach avvaledu ani. First impression is a best impression kada. 

2 months tarvatha maa contractor colleague ki vere job vasthe resign chesadu with out any notice. So client and Prime vendor both are desperate to have one more consultant for work. Consultant notice period ivvaledu ani prime vendor baaga bayapaddadu. E situation ni cash chesukundamani nenu prime vendor ki call chesi na close friend ni refer chesina(who helped me to get masters seat). Resume submission interview schedule avvadam 30 mins lo aindi.. ade day evening interview ki same ***** ni arrange chesina..friend ki job vachindi. that day was thursday and he got joining for monday. I gave him an accommodation, shared all of my knowledge which i learned from past 2 months. Gave heads up about team lead and manager's mentality etc etc.. He joined on monday, a task was assigned on the same day. I helped him to complete that task by wednesday.. First task kaabatti konchem impression undali ani full blood pettinam..After reviewing his work, manager praised him alot on thursday and on the same day i got TERMINATION notice for the next day.
My manager thought my friend is best fit compared to me for my position.. 

ON THAT DAY I DECIDED NOT TO REFER ANY OF MY FRIENDS UNTIL MY SKILLS ARE PROVEN AND MANAGEMENT HAS GOOD OPINION ON ME.

----------------------

Cut chesthe 2015 lo naaku oka job vachindi in a city where 90 miles away from the city i am currently living. E saari nene f2f interview ki velli job techukunna. Job Requirement is tough with all the new technologies where 60% skills are not familiar to me. Lease undatam valla and job safety doubt valla first 2 months travel chesina. 1st month daily and 2nd month alternate days drive chesina. New technologies learning curve, manager gaadi mood swings, min of 4-5 hours of hectic daily driving in the traffic. work cheyadam tough ga unde due to all these reasons. nenokkidine New city ki move ayipodam anukunna but for the sake of my 4 months old baby i couldn't do that. Work pressure valla correct apartment kuda choose chesukoleka poyina new city lo. New city ki move ayipoyaka maa parents vacharu US trip ki. Job lo inka full grip raakapovadam valla, i didn't give my best to my parents. 6 months tarvatha apartment change chesina, penalty pay chesi. After doing 1 year of job i got stability. My manager has very good impression on me.

MANAGEMENT MAARINDI, they are mostly kind of non technical. after few months oka QA join aindi and she knows basics of Agile. With her good communication skills she tried to convert her position to scrum master role. 

 

 Oka colleague ki vere job vachi vellipoyadu.. nenu, na masters close friend(Person A) long back anukunnam, same cilent ki work cheddam ani in specified X state. so i took the initiation.. vaadu vere job chesthunna kaani nenu chestunna company lo job ippincha.. maa office lo vaadiki job raavadaniki kartha, karma and kriya anni nene with best pay rate. Job vachaka 1 month maa intlone free accommdatio kuda ichina. Job lo kuda as usual ga baaga help chesina to get onto pace. oka 3 months tarvatha Person B(OPT), Person C(H4 EAD) join ayyaru. Person C job environment ni sanka naakinchindi.. One fine day she met with an accident and didn't come to office. I thought to refer an opt guy. Naaku full job safety + candidate meeda naaku manchi margin kuda vastadi ani.. I have prepared all the required things. Idi ila unte, maa friend Person A oka meeting lo(i was not there) maa manager ki cheppindu, i know one friend who is very good(Person D), and i feel he is very good fit for our project ani. Vendor tho matladatam, resume submit cheyadam anni chesesadu and main thing is, he forgot to tell me that. Next day Person D ki praxy***** koraku nannu adigaadu. Appudu cheppadu i forgot to tell you what happened yesterday ani.. Person D naaku kuda manchi friend(masters) and he also doing a good job from past 3 years in a same client. Ippudu Person D maa company ki vasthe na position doubtfull untadi later ani naaku telsu. My wife also told me not encourage this ani. Andukani e process mothanni break cheddam ani Person D raavaddu ani Person B and D ki chepdam anukunna. But enduko nenu selfish/foolish ga aalochistunnanu ani anukuntaru ani little hesitated and back step vesina(The biggest regret in my life).. person D got job and i gave him 2 weeks accommodation at my home. I still have some regret about my back step. 2 weeks tarvatha india trip poyina for 45 days.. So got refreshed.. Person D is gem and he proven at work greatly. 

I am a stright forward guy.  junior scrum master, developers ni micro management chesthu blame cheyadam start chesindi.. I confronted her processes with good reasons in front of management. scrum master na meeda grudge pettukoni naatho manchiga act chesthu maa director ki naa meeda bad impression create cheyatam start chesindi.. After 8 months one fine day director nannu pilichi na work poor undi ani chaala class peekadu..Later i figured out that its because of the junior scrum master's false reports my director got a bad impression on me..

Ippudu office lo organization changes ayyayi.. Budget issues valana 2 developers ni teeseddam anukunnaru.. So aa list lo Person B(opt) and Nenu unnam. Management thought Person A and Person D are better than me.

I felt really very bad, i spent hell lot of time to understanding the project/people and shared the knowledge to my friends. During this process i might lost impression with the new management. And the most frustrating part when many of my friends are asking me is "WHY ONLY YOUR CONTRACT IS TERMINATING BETWEEN 3 OF YOU, THOUGH YOU JOINED 1 YEAR AHEAD OF THEM." 

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so friends, NEVER EVER REFER YOUR FRIENDS FOR SAME PROJECT FOR THE THE SAME ROLE YOU ARE WORKING FOR.
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katha lo villain scum  master not your buddies

[Batman_fan]

idhem Dubai kadu kooli job refer chestey neku jeevitantam runa padi vundataniki.

IT job, people do all kinds of things just to get that extra dollar