Mental health issues

[AgniJamadagni]

Just now, AgniJamadagni said:

sollu story 

 

 

[vankarodu]

26 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Bro .. okasari mee wifie phone browser lo a ani kotti chudu.. andhraftiends suggesfions ochindhante inka nuvv confirm aipodhuv

[erragulabi]

I think you are taking life very seriously.  Nee friends e kadu andari friends ala ne untaru. Ppl get married and they get busy with their new life and kids. Job interest lekunte get busy gardening, cooking, exploring new stuff. You are perfectly alright no worries.

[Bandar_laddu]

11 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

Imagine u r life is like a train .....mundu nundi undey valu parents husband friends etc etc ....everyone gets down in one station or the other last station varaku nuvve velthav.so decide what u eventually need in life deeniki chala time padthadi take that time.

touch cheshav baa... You are a born poet.

 

Ilanti posts chusthene mee shishyulu ainanduku happy feel aithamu memandaram.

 

[yaman]

45 minutes ago, Raithu_bidda_ said:

invest in crypto and and start going to casinos 

life bore aa anipidu roju koka adventure laga vuntadi.

stocks marachi poyavu brother!

[9ine]

45 minutes ago, Raithu_bidda_ said:

invest in crypto and and start going to casinos 

life bore aa anipidu roju koka adventure laga vuntadi.

after you invest in crypto..you dont have time at all.. all the time research..lots of info..you need more than 24 hours in a day

[Piracy Raja]

32 minutes ago, idibezwada said:

mee andariki pothu vastai emo...maa GG akkaki vaste podu..malli malli vastuntadi..they will send cabs and beg her to join

@Vendeta @vendetta 

[kasi]

47 minutes ago, katie497 said:

Hi,

ee forum regular ga watch chesthuntanu.  ee post ki reason entante naku mee andari support and criticism ( need more of this) kavali. Im unable to get over few thoughts, but before I get to this let me introduce myself.

  exactly 15 months aindi US vachi, got married to a guy 8 years older to me, 1 month lo parents pelli fix chesaru. intial ga antha bagundi, trips, restaurants , konni families tho parties (who pretend to be friends)etc. 12 months aindi and then everything became boring and routine. I know its normal and then naa issues start ayyayi ( mostly with in my brain ) no complaints with my spouse. He is noraml ( chala reserved , friendly but not friendly, controlling but not controlling, may be we should call him more balanced, not outgoing at all, doesnt like talking to new people, prefers staying at home rather than talking to people ), kani naake depression laga start aindi, Back at home I had a few close friends who were there for me always , when ever I felt sad, alone I used to share my thoughts ala oka mini counselling ayyedi, kani nenu ikkadiki move ayyaka everyone got so busy ( may be with their husbands, planning for kids etc) and all of a sudden no body has got time for me. Complaning ani kaadu, they never return my calls , okavela call return chesina 2 mins quick ga matladi pettesthunnaru. Best friends ankunna vallantha casual friedns aipoyaru, US lo I couldnt make lot of friends, ala parties lo kalisthe matladadame thappa tarvata interaction undadu, sare Im overthinking ani anpinchi ( I need to keep myself busy) husband tho fight chesi ,  vallani vellani beg chesi H1 chepinchukunna ( naadi science background India lo, I worked in a pharma company for 1 year or so), java edo kashtapadi , Pr***y help tho job lo join ayya, 7 years exp ani pettesariki chala expectations unnayi naa meeda and as you all guessed I could not meet them and got fired in a month and then I had to come back. Idi ayyaka I lost all my confidence in life, cannot look at my husband in the eye and talk to him, suicidal ( I know please stop judging me ), depressed and decided Im not fit for anything and its better I just stay back at home. Life chala depressing ga anpisthundi , self respect thaggipoindi, nenante evariki ishtam ledu anpisthundi. Relatives chala mandi unnaru, kani evaru matladaru, friends unnaru evaru matladaru. Friends andaru life lo munduki velthunnaru, nenu ikkade stuck aipoya oka idiot laga, Why am I like this anpisthundi, I keep talking to myself, I keep counselling myself( naku telsu ivanni part of life and simple problems  ani, naa kante suffer ayye vallu chala mandi unnarani), I need to stop comparing my life with others

  I have many threads here where people asked for life advice and most of them have been supportive and critical as well, kani nenu ikkade ee story endhku vesthunna ante naaku support vaddu ( support , compassion kosam aithe indus ladies or 7cups.com ki velle danni) I want people to criticize me, tell me that Im a fool, I dont want to sympathize myself anymore, I want to get better. Please advise and help me get strong. I dont care ane attitude inculcate cheskovali, ela? Evaru lekapoina life lo brave ga unda galanu ani 

pointless nuvu bhrathiki.....everything will be routine for you 

like hole gets bigger.....so ur spouse dhick gets routine and cant njoy it 

oka vela kids untea....vallu kuda bore kodatharu 

 

so pointless discussion ikkada so demgay 

[katie497]

44 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

It's not a bad idea to meet a local counselor or a psychologist and let them know about your fears and insecurities. Don't listen to what your fellow Indian friends say who might discourage you from doing that, since they don't think healthy people will have all these issues. It's perfectly normal to seek counseling in cases like  your's. 

Also stay away from this DB as most people here aren't capable of giving you sound advise. 

Yes, Thank you.  I dont want to let anyone know that I have issues.  especially related to mental health

[katie497]

44 minutes ago, Sreeven said:

Start watching movies in mvrulz...

Movies are boring

[Bathai_Babji]

@katie497 Ne yavva pake pakodi post esi ... original ID lo nunchi malli login ayyi V.P gallu anni answers isthuntey navvu kuntunava ..... ey Donga Nee ID loni "497" naa bandi number gurthupattesa ninnu bayataki raaa ika ledha nee cover blow ayipodhi  ...

[katie497]

42 minutes ago, idibezwada said:

have a kid...anni set avtai

Not sure about that. I got to be lot more stronger , thanks anyway

[katie497]

40 minutes ago, TheBrahmabull said:

kastapadi sadvina .. if this is genuine nuvvu edo lokam lo vuntavemo anipistundi. ekkuva vuhinchukuntunnav i think. Everyone goes with their own pace in life. stop the comparing with others.  Asal janalu amerika anagane prathodu evening full bayata tiruguthar ani enduku anukuntar vayya.. iga vere pani patha emundadaa- Friends recycle aithuntar life la.

just in case neeku bommarillu cinma istama endi ?

I have to remember this all the time

[samaja_varagamana]

6 minutes ago, Bandar_laddu said:

touch cheshav baa... You are a born poet.

 

Ilanti posts chusthene mee shishyulu ainanduku happy feel aithamu memandaram.

 

Anthe baa until and unless u r balayya u cant send train backwards

[Quickgun_murugan]

49 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

It's not a bad idea to meet a local counselor or a psychologist and let them know about your fears and insecurities. Don't listen to what your fellow Indian friends say who might discourage you from doing that, since they don't think healthy people will have all these issues. It's perfectly normal to seek counseling in cases like  your's. 

Also stay away from this DB as most people here aren't capable of giving you sound advise. 

Atleast thats a sound advise... 

Agreed... stay away from this DB for such stuff ...