Mental health issues

[Sreeven]

55 minutes ago, katie497 said:

Movies are boring

Then watch pakkinti movies

[Unityunity]

1 hour ago, cyndrilla said:

You are on the right track..Explore options and find a job..

Job unte life disciplined untadhi..empty mind is devil's workshop annattu alaane untadhi..

It's just a phase and you are not alone..

It's completely ok to feel that way..be positive..meditate, work out...

Be busy

Aunty..nuvvu super....well said...empty mind i devil

[perugu_vada]

clear ga annaavu, everybody busy with their own lives andhu k not able to spend time with you over the phone ani .. that tells u vaallu busy ayyaru nuvu khaali ga undi ila mental depression ki pothunnav

an idle man's brain is devil's workshop ani oori k analedu .. khaalee ga unte ilaanti thoughts ye osthaay .. get urselves busy in watever way u can .. may be cooking or drawing or making some arti-crafts etc .. 

job pothe husband ni face cheyalekapovatam enti .. he is ur husband .. u both did many a things being together .. apudu leni siggu ipudu enduku ? 

mana kante life lo enno kolpooyi real probs lo unna vaallu enthoo mandhi unnaaru .. vaallatho compare cheskuni chuudu ni life entha better o nee k ardham autundi 

u are married and not a kid anymore .. u know u have a problem .. u also know d solution .. but u dont want to implement it, as simple as that anipistondi .. 

everything will be fine .. just enjoy life anthe as it comes by ... dont make it complicated

[BostonBullodu]

I thought somebody will miss the ootha padam gym ki vellu in these kind of suggestions may be its not gonna happen... 

[cyndrilla]

Just now, BostonBullodu said:

I thought somebody will miss the ootha padam gym ki vellu in these kind of suggestions may be its not gonna happen... 

It really helps..That feeling that you are taking care of yourself feels good

[Detriotlions]

"" THIS IS MY ASSUMPTION'''

looks like this is posted by ouR db fav @vendetta 

the conv is active is not active with any JL posts 

 

[cyndrilla]

1 minute ago, Detriotlions said:

"" THIS IS MY ASSUMPTION'''

looks like this is posted by ouR db fav @vendetta 

the conv is active is not active with any JL posts 

 

Disagree..genuine post ae anipinchindhi

[Bangaruu]

 

[Detriotlions]

11 minutes ago, cyndrilla said:

Disagree..genuine post ae anipinchindhi

nuvvu edi ante adi akka 

[evadra_rowdy]

Poduna gym, madyanam cinema, evening mandu kottu.life full exciting vuntadi.or simply join college or voluntary work

[Gundepotu_Gummadi]

4 hours ago, katie497 said:

Hi,

ee forum regular ga watch chesthuntanu.  ee post ki reason entante naku mee andari support and criticism ( need more of this) kavali. Im unable to get over few thoughts, but before I get to this let me introduce myself.

  exactly 15 months aindi US vachi, got married to a guy 8 years older to me, 1 month lo parents pelli fix chesaru. intial ga antha bagundi, trips, restaurants , konni families tho parties (who pretend to be friends)etc. 12 months aindi and then everything became boring and routine. I know its normal and then naa issues start ayyayi ( mostly with in my brain ) no complaints with my spouse. He is noraml ( chala reserved , friendly but not friendly, controlling but not controlling, may be we should call him more balanced, not outgoing at all, doesnt like talking to new people, prefers staying at home rather than talking to people ), kani naake depression laga start aindi, Back at home I had a few close friends who were there for me always , when ever I felt sad, alone I used to share my thoughts ala oka mini counselling ayyedi, kani nenu ikkadiki move ayyaka everyone got so busy ( may be with their husbands, planning for kids etc) and all of a sudden no body has got time for me. Complaning ani kaadu, they never return my calls , okavela call return chesina 2 mins quick ga matladi pettesthunnaru. Best friends ankunna vallantha casual friedns aipoyaru, US lo I couldnt make lot of friends, ala parties lo kalisthe matladadame thappa tarvata interaction undadu, sare Im overthinking ani anpinchi ( I need to keep myself busy) husband tho fight chesi ,  vallani vellani beg chesi H1 chepinchukunna ( naadi science background India lo, I worked in a pharma company for 1 year or so), java edo kashtapadi , Pr***y help tho job lo join ayya, 7 years exp ani pettesariki chala expectations unnayi naa meeda and as you all guessed I could not meet them and got fired in a month and then I had to come back. Idi ayyaka I lost all my confidence in life, cannot look at my husband in the eye and talk to him, suicidal ( I know please stop judging me ), depressed and decided Im not fit for anything and its better I just stay back at home. Life chala depressing ga anpisthundi , self respect thaggipoindi, nenante evariki ishtam ledu anpisthundi. Relatives chala mandi unnaru, kani evaru matladaru, friends unnaru evaru matladaru. Friends andaru life lo munduki velthunnaru, nenu ikkade stuck aipoya oka idiot laga, Why am I like this anpisthundi, I keep talking to myself, I keep counselling myself( naku telsu ivanni part of life and simple problems  ani, naa kante suffer ayye vallu chala mandi unnarani), I need to stop comparing my life with others

  I have many threads here where people asked for life advice and most of them have been supportive and critical as well, kani nenu ikkade ee story endhku vesthunna ante naaku support vaddu ( support , compassion kosam aithe indus ladies or 7cups.com ki velle danni) I want people to criticize me, tell me that Im a fool, I dont want to sympathize myself anymore, I want to get better. Please advise and help me get strong. I dont care ane attitude inculcate cheskovali, ela? Evaru lekapoina life lo brave ga unda galanu ani 

@vendetta @dimpy @cyndrilla villala nuvvu kuda db lo evadinina chusuko

[Avenger]

On 11/8/2017 at 1:01 PM, katie497 said:

 

 

[Peter123]

elcome to yamerica maaam here it will be like this only,,please cry more and more take weekend off start crying/depressiong  and thinking from monday to friday,,,i understand situatsion,,,but like this only here... please be more frustrated and depressed,,,it is good for health also sometimes...

[Meowcatp]

Do you drive? If not learn and start driving, go to shopping malls

adopt a hobbie- cooking, YouTube DIY’s home decor, jewelry organizers, workout, try different make up, nail art

lastly it’s definitely not easy to add 7 years of experience on your profile and get a job. Subscribe to LinkedIn forums related to your technology and read all the stuff. 

8 years gap is definitely little too much, so you should have expected this difference.These kind of up and downs are pretty common, you need to understand this and have hope. Take your time before planning for kids, your husband being an introvert. You should be mentally prepared to deal with all the kids stuff. 

[Idassamed]

7 hours ago, Raithu_bidda_ said:

invest in crypto and and start going to casinos 

life bore aa anipidu roju koka adventure laga vuntadi.