Mental health issues

[Heroin]

I too have so many probs but life vellipitondi ante stopped thinking n caring abt them

[Unityunity]

3 hours ago, Keerthana said:

Waiting for your views Keerthana alias Vendetta

[Android_Halwa]

6 minutes ago, Unityunity said:

Waiting for your views Keerthana alias Vendetta

edo oka rakanga...attention seeking ki line la first vuntadi ...

vendetta ID kampu kampu aipoindi ani...igo, kotha ID..

 

[fake_Bezawada]

13 hours ago, katie497 said:

Hi,

ee forum regular ga watch chesthuntanu.  ee post ki reason entante naku mee andari support and criticism ( need more of this) kavali. Im unable to get over few thoughts, but before I get to this let me introduce myself.

  exactly 15 months aindi US vachi, got married to a guy 8 years older to me, 1 month lo parents pelli fix chesaru. intial ga antha bagundi, trips, restaurants , konni families tho parties (who pretend to be friends)etc. 12 months aindi and then everything became boring and routine. I know its normal and then naa issues start ayyayi ( mostly with in my brain ) no complaints with my spouse. He is noraml ( chala reserved , friendly but not friendly, controlling but not controlling, may be we should call him more balanced, not outgoing at all, doesnt like talking to new people, prefers staying at home rather than talking to people ), kani naake depression laga start aindi, Back at home I had a few close friends who were there for me always , when ever I felt sad, alone I used to share my thoughts ala oka mini counselling ayyedi, kani nenu ikkadiki move ayyaka everyone got so busy ( may be with their husbands, planning for kids etc) and all of a sudden no body has got time for me. Complaning ani kaadu, they never return my calls , okavela call return chesina 2 mins quick ga matladi pettesthunnaru. Best friends ankunna vallantha casual friedns aipoyaru, US lo I couldnt make lot of friends, ala parties lo kalisthe matladadame thappa tarvata interaction undadu, sare Im overthinking ani anpinchi ( I need to keep myself busy) husband tho fight chesi ,  vallani vellani beg chesi H1 chepinchukunna ( naadi science background India lo, I worked in a pharma company for 1 year or so), java edo kashtapadi , Pr***y help tho job lo join ayya, 7 years exp ani pettesariki chala expectations unnayi naa meeda and as you all guessed I could not meet them and got fired in a month and then I had to come back. Idi ayyaka I lost all my confidence in life, cannot look at my husband in the eye and talk to him, suicidal ( I know please stop judging me ), depressed and decided Im not fit for anything and its better I just stay back at home. Life chala depressing ga anpisthundi , self respect thaggipoindi, nenante evariki ishtam ledu anpisthundi. Relatives chala mandi unnaru, kani evaru matladaru, friends unnaru evaru matladaru. Friends andaru life lo munduki velthunnaru, nenu ikkade stuck aipoya oka idiot laga, Why am I like this anpisthundi, I keep talking to myself, I keep counselling myself( naku telsu ivanni part of life and simple problems  ani, naa kante suffer ayye vallu chala mandi unnarani), I need to stop comparing my life with others

  I have many threads here where people asked for life advice and most of them have been supportive and critical as well, kani nenu ikkade ee story endhku vesthunna ante naaku support vaddu ( support , compassion kosam aithe indus ladies or 7cups.com ki velle danni) I want people to criticize me, tell me that Im a fool, I dont want to sympathize myself anymore, I want to get better. Please advise and help me get strong. I dont care ane attitude inculcate cheskovali, ela? Evaru lekapoina life lo brave ga unda galanu ani 

ee problem nee okka danide kaadule 

nee laaga introvert laaga perigina ladies andaridhi kooda 

adhe andaritho jovial ga super fast ga vunde ammayilu aythe life jil jil jiga jiga

[KothaHero]

15 hours ago, katie497 said:

Hi,

ee forum regular ga watch chesthuntanu.  ee post ki reason entante naku mee andari support and criticism ( need more of this) kavali. Im unable to get over few thoughts, but before I get to this let me introduce myself.

  exactly 15 months aindi US vachi, got married to a guy 8 years older to me, 1 month lo parents pelli fix chesaru. intial ga antha bagundi, trips, restaurants , konni families tho parties (who pretend to be friends)etc. 12 months aindi and then everything became boring and routine. I know its normal and then naa issues start ayyayi ( mostly with in my brain ) no complaints with my spouse. He is noraml ( chala reserved , friendly but not friendly, controlling but not controlling, may be we should call him more balanced, not outgoing at all, doesnt like talking to new people, prefers staying at home rather than talking to people ), kani naake depression laga start aindi, Back at home I had a few close friends who were there for me always , when ever I felt sad, alone I used to share my thoughts ala oka mini counselling ayyedi, kani nenu ikkadiki move ayyaka everyone got so busy ( may be with their husbands, planning for kids etc) and all of a sudden no body has got time for me. Complaning ani kaadu, they never return my calls , okavela call return chesina 2 mins quick ga matladi pettesthunnaru. Best friends ankunna vallantha casual friedns aipoyaru, US lo I couldnt make lot of friends, ala parties lo kalisthe matladadame thappa tarvata interaction undadu, sare Im overthinking ani anpinchi ( I need to keep myself busy) husband tho fight chesi ,  vallani vellani beg chesi H1 chepinchukunna ( naadi science background India lo, I worked in a pharma company for 1 year or so), java edo kashtapadi , Pr***y help tho job lo join ayya, 7 years exp ani pettesariki chala expectations unnayi naa meeda and as you all guessed I could not meet them and got fired in a month and then I had to come back. Idi ayyaka I lost all my confidence in life, cannot look at my husband in the eye and talk to him, suicidal ( I know please stop judging me ), depressed and decided Im not fit for anything and its better I just stay back at home. Life chala depressing ga anpisthundi , self respect thaggipoindi, nenante evariki ishtam ledu anpisthundi. Relatives chala mandi unnaru, kani evaru matladaru, friends unnaru evaru matladaru. Friends andaru life lo munduki velthunnaru, nenu ikkade stuck aipoya oka idiot laga, Why am I like this anpisthundi, I keep talking to myself, I keep counselling myself( naku telsu ivanni part of life and simple problems  ani, naa kante suffer ayye vallu chala mandi unnarani), I need to stop comparing my life with others

  I have many threads here where people asked for life advice and most of them have been supportive and critical as well, kani nenu ikkade ee story endhku vesthunna ante naaku support vaddu ( support , compassion kosam aithe indus ladies or 7cups.com ki velle danni) I want people to criticize me, tell me that Im a fool, I dont want to sympathize myself anymore, I want to get better. Please advise and help me get strong. I dont care ane attitude inculcate cheskovali, ela? Evaru lekapoina life lo brave ga unda galanu ani 

U r comparing with others, first thing stop there n live ur life on your own terms n not worry what others think abt u, u talking abt friends these days own blood related family members dont get along in indian society so u r expecting a lot. Finally join gym or go to a park n run a mile daily it will help to relax n release endomorphins in your brain which will make u feel better n think straight. 

[riashli]

Pelli ayyi 15 months.. koncham time padutundi le.. as tarvata alavatu ayipotundi.. pillalu puttaka kanisam rojuki okka sari Ayina enduku batukutunna ani feeling rakunda undadu.. alavatu chesuko.. stop expecting from people

[Heroin]

13 minutes ago, riashli said:

Pelli ayyi 15 months.. koncham time padutundi le.. as tarvata alavatu ayipotundi.. pillalu puttaka kanisam rojuki okka sari Ayina enduku batukutunna ani feeling rakunda undadu.. alavatu chesuko.. stop expecting from people

Lol nijam

[cheenu]

17 hours ago, katie497 said:

Hi,

ee forum regular ga watch chesthuntanu.  ee post ki reason entante naku mee andari support and criticism ( need more of this) kavali. Im unable to get over few thoughts, but before I get to this let me introduce myself.

  exactly 15 months aindi US vachi, got married to a guy 8 years older to me, 1 month lo parents pelli fix chesaru. intial ga antha bagundi, trips, restaurants , konni families tho parties (who pretend to be friends)etc. 12 months aindi and then everything became boring and routine. I know its normal and then naa issues start ayyayi ( mostly with in my brain ) no complaints with my spouse. He is noraml ( chala reserved , friendly but not friendly, controlling but not controlling, may be we should call him more balanced, not outgoing at all, doesnt like talking to new people, prefers staying at home rather than talking to people ), kani naake depression laga start aindi, Back at home I had a few close friends who were there for me always , when ever I felt sad, alone I used to share my thoughts ala oka mini counselling ayyedi, kani nenu ikkadiki move ayyaka everyone got so busy ( may be with their husbands, planning for kids etc) and all of a sudden no body has got time for me. Complaning ani kaadu, they never return my calls , okavela call return chesina 2 mins quick ga matladi pettesthunnaru. Best friends ankunna vallantha casual friedns aipoyaru, US lo I couldnt make lot of friends, ala parties lo kalisthe matladadame thappa tarvata interaction undadu, sare Im overthinking ani anpinchi ( I need to keep myself busy) husband tho fight chesi ,  vallani vellani beg chesi H1 chepinchukunna ( naadi science background India lo, I worked in a pharma company for 1 year or so), java edo kashtapadi , Pr***y help tho job lo join ayya, 7 years exp ani pettesariki chala expectations unnayi naa meeda and as you all guessed I could not meet them and got fired in a month and then I had to come back. Idi ayyaka I lost all my confidence in life, cannot look at my husband in the eye and talk to him, suicidal ( I know please stop judging me ), depressed and decided Im not fit for anything and its better I just stay back at home. Life chala depressing ga anpisthundi , self respect thaggipoindi, nenante evariki ishtam ledu anpisthundi. Relatives chala mandi unnaru, kani evaru matladaru, friends unnaru evaru matladaru. Friends andaru life lo munduki velthunnaru, nenu ikkade stuck aipoya oka idiot laga, Why am I like this anpisthundi, I keep talking to myself, I keep counselling myself( naku telsu ivanni part of life and simple problems  ani, naa kante suffer ayye vallu chala mandi unnarani), I need to stop comparing my life with others

  I have many threads here where people asked for life advice and most of them have been supportive and critical as well, kani nenu ikkade ee story endhku vesthunna ante naaku support vaddu ( support , compassion kosam aithe indus ladies or 7cups.com ki velle danni) I want people to criticize me, tell me that Im a fool, I dont want to sympathize myself anymore, I want to get better. Please advise and help me get strong. I dont care ane attitude inculcate cheskovali, ela? Evaru lekapoina life lo brave ga unda galanu ani 

First and Foremost thing... never ever compare your life with others. Everyone in this world are unique and beautiful.

Coming to depression. 2 things I can suggest.

Firstly, see if you can meet a counselor or a physchiatrist and it’s not a bad thing to visit him/her and sort things out ( don’t be with an Indian mind set where people believe that you visit them when you have mental imbalance, which in my opinion is utter bullshit)

Secondly, try to develop some hobby/ do some community service where you can meet new people and grow your network.

You are no more in India. So the life and culture is vastly different, if you want to be happy try to adapt to the situations, rather than being an introvert and sulking with in yourself.

I myself used to be a terrible guy when I wanted to communicate, used to be extremely introvert. But I figured out myself and got myself involved in various community activities made quiet a few American friends(ofcourse I do have Indian friends as well) . Now when I look back I laugh at myself.

good luck for your future endeavors. Hope you have a great life ahead.

[fake_Bezawada]

36 minutes ago, riashli said:

Pelli ayyi 15 months.. koncham time padutundi le.. as tarvata alavatu ayipotundi.. pillalu puttaka kanisam rojuki okka sari Ayina enduku batukutunna ani feeling rakunda undadu.. alavatu chesuko.. stop expecting from people

adenti ala antav husband love and effectionate ga todu ga vunte ae ammayiki ah feeling raadu 

pillalaki love and effection spread cheyali valani proper ga penchali ivanni mother responsibilities vatini enjoy cheyali

mokkalaki neelu posi adhi puvvu poosthene manasuki anandam ga vuntundhi 

alantidhi mana pilani manam penchuthu vaalu lechi nunchunapudu,allari chesetapudu enni wonderful moments vuntayi parenting lo avanni enjoy cheyali endhuku bratukutunam anedhi wrong asalu

[fake_Bezawada]

25 minutes ago, Heroin said:

Lol nijam

edhi nijam pelli ayyi just 15 months enni saradalu vuntayi 

daily bumchik chese age adhi enta exciting ga vuntundhi weekend vasthe bytaki potam 

bumchik bumchik 

[riashli]

14 minutes ago, fake_Bezawada said:

adenti ala antav husband love and effectionate ga todu ga vunte ae ammayiki ah feeling raadu 

pillalaki love and effection spread cheyali valani proper ga penchali ivanni mother responsibilities vatini enjoy cheyali

mokkalaki neelu posi adhi puvvu poosthene manasuki anandam ga vuntundhi 

alantidhi mana pilani manam penchuthu vaalu lechi nunchunapudu,allari chesetapudu enni wonderful moments vuntayi parenting lo avanni enjoy cheyali endhuku bratukutunam anedhi wrong asalu

'ivanni mother responsibilities ' ee Okka line chalu 

[k2s]

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