Bharya vedimpulu valla chanipoyina

[Crazy_Robert]

28 minutes ago, Amy99 said:

Exactly ! Happy that atleast you are addressing both genders equally ! Abbayi chesthe oka laaga ammayi chesthe okalaga punishment ivvalsina avasaram ledu .....evaru chesina thappu thappe.....and so called laws are put forth after witnessing many incidents that make them come with a new law ....! Kakapothe eh law aythe Enti people are ready to misuse them 

Agreed. law change chesina women eppudu victim card pettukoni raccha chese chances e ekkuva untayi.. vallaki media support okati. aa media kuda TRP kosam chusthundhi kani ground level ki velli think cheyyadhu. Assalu marital life lo jarige ye vishayam ayina nalugu godala madhya solve avvali. nadi veedhullo kadhu.. media kuda adhi ardham cheskovali.. 

[samaja_varagamana]

31 minutes ago, BostonBullodu said:

eh @Amy99 aunty evaru... calling @samaja_varagamana @Crazy_Robert..

Naku telidu bhayya

[tennisluvr]

1 hour ago, Amy99 said:

 

Lol as expected 

As expected what? Clarify your statement if you aren't sensible enough to make a coherent argument. 

[Amy99]

10 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

As expected what? Clarify your statement if you aren't sensible enough to make a coherent argument. 

HEhe ... it wasn't an argument man ! I was expecting few intellectuals to come up with this  emoticon ..., and you proved me right

[uttermost]

1 minute ago, Amy99 said:

HEhe ... it wasn't an argument man ! I was expecting few intellectuals to come up with this  emoticon ..., and you proved me right

lol.

[tennisluvr]

1 hour ago, aakathaai said:

mana old generations ni comment chesthaam kaani true relation ante vaallade denemma vidakulu chaala common aipoinaai ee culture ni kooda apraachyula(west) nundi adopt cheskunnam

It's a fashion to blame everything on the West. Its not so true, thing is this is a change that's bound to occur due to changes in technology and the ease of life technology revolution has brought with it. 

For example in a nation that's mainly agrarian it's imperative that men have to shoulder most of the physical burden, which has been done for most part of history. However in a society where most of the jobs are service sector jobs and neither men or women have to spill blood to make a living, it's imperative that a change in mindset would occur over time. Can't blame the women for that either if you ask me, however this adaptation to change should be considered by the parents as well instead of expecting the younger adults to behave the way they did back in their own youth. That's where the crux of the problem lies. 

 

[tennisluvr]

1 hour ago, tywinn_lannister said:

True. they dont even think abt Divorce no matter how many times they fight each other...

ee gneration lo relationship  ante, oka shirt teesi paaresi inko shirt esukovadam antha easy ayipoyindhi..

 

From what I have seen, there's more honesty when it comes to relationships among Western people than among Indian people esp. those that go hunting for brides on online arranged marriage matchmaking websites(shaadi, bharatmatrimony etc). 

So even though the divorce rates in the West are higher, that doesn't necessarily mean they are less happier. They certainly have more options than his counterpart in India would. 

[Crazy_Robert]

3 minutes ago, Amy99 said:

HEhe ... it wasn't an argument man ! I was expecting few intellectuals to come up with this  emoticon ..., and you proved me right

hmm.. Intellectuals kanna mundhu common people thinking kuda change avvali.. marital life bagalekapothe divorce theeskovali.. assal ee alimony concept pettina vanni battalu vippi kottali.. katnam ane concept kanipettunonni kalchi suruku pettali.. Girl/Boy evadi paisa vadidhe.. iddharu equal ankunnapudu 

3crs bharanam ivvaleni situation lo aa vijay chanipothe mathram aa ammai ki life esina thappu ledhu. 

[tennisluvr]

Another thing that supports my point is that most of these divorces are usually seen in middle class and upper middle class families and above in India, and most of these are concentrated in urban/semi-urban areas. In the rural areas within India, the divorce rates are lower. Also the rates of female foeticide, infanticide, domestic violence and battery are higher in the same places. IN rural villages esp. those that are still subsistent on old school methods and jobs to make a living, there's a more rigid structure to the family. 

However in most towns and cities where technology has changed the work culture, the divorce rates are higher and are going to be that way. What's needed here even beyond a correction in the law to eliminate loopholes, is the approach to upbringing kids esp men. While women have been made aware of their independence and their relatively new found freedom, enough hasn't been taught to Indian men when they were boys to make them aware of how the expectations have changed as far as what they had to offer to the other sex is concerned. 

All these people have to go by are regional and Bollywood movies with hopelessly outdated ideas. 

[tennisluvr]

2 minutes ago, Crazy_Robert said:

hmm.. Intellectuals kanna mundhu common people thinking kuda change avvali.. marital life bagalekapothe divorce theeskovali.. assal ee alimony concept pettina vanni battalu vippi kottali.. katnam ane concept kanipettunonni kalchi suruku pettali.. Girl/Boy evadi paisa vadidhe.. iddharu equal ankunnapudu 

3crs bharanam ivvaleni situation lo aa vijay chanipothe mathram aa ammai ki life esina thappu ledhu. 

Ikkadochi public ga nee katnam demands cheppinodivi okappudu, nuvvena churakala gurinchi matladedi. Neeku nuvvu pettukunnava enti mari aa churakalevo. 

[tennisluvr]

41 minutes ago, Crazy_Robert said:

Agreed. law change chesina women eppudu victim card pettukoni raccha chese chances e ekkuva untayi.. vallaki media support okati. aa media kuda TRP kosam chusthundhi kani ground level ki velli think cheyyadhu. Assalu marital life lo jarige ye vishayam ayina nalugu godala madhya solve avvali. nadi veedhullo kadhu.. media kuda adhi ardham cheskovali.. 

Idigo ilanti regressive thinking valle ilanti issues vachevi. If a girl or boy, irrespective of their gender are being victimized in a marriage, nalugu godala madhyalo koorchuni edavalantava? They have every right to use social media and other forms of communication to let those that care about them be aware of their plight. 

Of course, ala ani cheppi ilanti provision ni misuse cheyalani nenu cheppatledu encourage cheyatledu, but there are always cases where people misuse laws even if they almost water tight against misuse. People will always find a way to misuse an existing law, it's not the law that's at fault here. It's just human mindset, this is irrespective of gender, nationality, race, religion etc. 

[Crazy_Robert]

4 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Ikkadochi public ga nee katnam demands cheppinodivi okappudu, nuvvena churakala gurinchi matladedi. Neeku nuvvu pettukunnava enti mari aa churakalevo. 

Bro.. Nenu katnam demand eppudu pettukoledhu. First of all maa intlo evvaru theeskoledhu.. katnam gurinchi edho thread vesi unta.. endhukante I have seen few people expect dowry more than 1 Cr + .. so sarcastic ga pettanu.. em chusi istharu 1Cr +.. bulli master ni chusaa ani ..

[Crazy_Robert]

5 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

Idigo ilanti regressive thinking valle ilanti issues vachevi. If a girl or boy, irrespective of their gender are being victimized in a marriage, nalugu godala madhyalo koorchuni edavalantava? They have every right to use social media and other forms of communication to let those that care about them be aware of their plight. 

Of course, ala ani cheppi ilanti provision ni misuse cheyalani nenu cheppatledu encourage cheyatledu, but there are always cases where people misuse laws even if they almost water tight against misuse. People will always find a way to misuse an existing law, it's not the law that's at fault here. It's just human mindset, this is irrespective of gender, nationality, race, religion etc. 

meeru annadhi correct. kani arranged marriages cheskunedhi future lo emayina ayina kani peddhavalla support untadhi ane reason tho. assal ee kalam lo chala cases valladhi vallu kuda discuss cheyyakunda bazar laki ekkuthunnaru ga. rural lo jarigevatiki ok.. vallaki sadhuvu undadhu.. sadhuvu kunna vallu kuda ala undatledhu .. 

[samaja_varagamana]

7 hours ago, tennisluvr said:

As expected what? Clarify your statement if you aren't sensible enough to make a coherent argument. 

chill bro 

[ranku_mogudu]

10 hours ago, Amy99 said:

True that ! I agree with what  You said ! There should be equity in law ..... that's what " feminism " mean. A person who violates law should be equally punishable be it a man or woman !!! Regarding alimony what you said is true ! Blame the judiciary who made such laws not the entire gender ( fyi ,each and evry law here Is made by men )....

equality badhulu equity vaadesav bhayya