Telugu_ammayi Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 Ma parents vaaadhu vaadhu antunna i married this guy ...we met through matrimony , some how I liked him and we got married ... now he started showing his true colors ...started misbehaving , ill treating me and kavalani different state lo project accept chesi ..hez distancing himself from me ...nenu typical ammayi la kids will save my marriage anukoni...job athani state lo search cheskoni shifted ... edhy nenu chesina mistake ...I’m expecting now n I’m in my end of first trimester ...he invited his family to visit us ...instead of helping me ...he making me do the work ...hve to wake up super early bf n lunch prepare cheyali ..I hve to go work n evening nenu vachy sariki everyone will be waiting epudu dinner chestana ani...naaku work deadlines anni unntayi...no wfh...inka my husband wants me to resign n stay at home ... ento happy single ga unda kunda ee gola ento ...n top of it now I’m having baby n my family is like we told u so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biskot Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 Kurchuno me husband tho matladu... edhi edhi itla itla ani.. try to make him feel your pain. Communication is important. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Telugu_ammayi Posted March 31, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 2 minutes ago, Biskot said: Kurchuno me husband tho matladu... edhi edhi itla itla ani.. try to make him feel your pain. Communication is important. Communicate chesa..,I never gave up on this relationship ...but Motham one side n I’m super stressed out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anta Assamey Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 You admit it was your decision... So you have to deal with it and make it right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittaya Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 14 minutes ago, Telugu_ammayi said: Ma parents vaaadhu vaadhu antunna i married this guy ...we met through matrimony , some how I liked him and we got married ... now he started showing his true colors ...started misbehaving , ill treating me and kavalani different state lo project accept chesi ..hez distancing himself from me ...nenu typical ammayi la kids will save my marriage anukoni...job athani state lo search cheskoni shifted ... edhy nenu chesina mistake ...I’m expecting now n I’m in my end of first trimester ...he invited his family to visit us ...instead of helping me ...he making me do the work ...hve to wake up super early bf n lunch prepare cheyali ..I hve to go work n evening nenu vachy sariki everyone will be waiting epudu dinner chestana ani...naaku work deadlines anni unntayi...no wfh...inka my husband wants me to resign n stay at home ... ento happy single ga unda kunda ee gola ento ...n top of it now I’m having baby n my family is like we told u so Hi Sry to hear abt this.Did your husband know that you are posting here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biskot Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 Don’t stress. I can suggest you only this - thanu cool ga unnapudu matladu.. ask him my why he behaving rudely and what mistake you have done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittaya Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 17 minutes ago, Telugu_ammayi said: Ma parents vaaadhu vaadhu antunna i married this guy ...we met through matrimony , some how I liked him and we got married ... now he started showing his true colors ...started misbehaving , ill treating me and kavalani different state lo project accept chesi ..hez distancing himself from me ...nenu typical ammayi la kids will save my marriage anukoni...job athani state lo search cheskoni shifted ... edhy nenu chesina mistake ...I’m expecting now n I’m in my end of first trimester ...he invited his family to visit us ...instead of helping me ...he making me do the work ...hve to wake up super early bf n lunch prepare cheyali ..I hve to go work n evening nenu vachy sariki everyone will be waiting epudu dinner chestana ani...naaku work deadlines anni unntayi...no wfh...inka my husband wants me to resign n stay at home ... ento happy single ga unda kunda ee gola ento ...n top of it now I’m having baby n my family is like we told u so Matladu open air lo ne feelings cheppu ayana feelings vinu Then make decisions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MRI Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 may be a small talk during/after sex?? men will be weak and willing to negotiate at this time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Telugu_ammayi Posted March 31, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 17 minutes ago, Anta Assamey said: You admit it was your decision... So you have to deal with it and make it right Deal chestunna ..cheyali koda now I can’t walk out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Telugu_ammayi Posted March 31, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 16 minutes ago, Biskot said: Don’t stress. I can suggest you only this - thanu cool ga unnapudu matladu.. ask him my why he behaving rudely and what mistake you have done. Dono my mistake ...now my heart is already broken .which can’t be healed ..life long itla ela lead cheyalooo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Telugu_ammayi Posted March 31, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 15 minutes ago, MRI said: may be a small talk during/after sex?? men will be weak and willing to negotiate at this time 😏😒 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TamrajKilvish Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 Tough time for you. It will pass. Let him know that he cannot expect you to do all the work and that too while you are pregnant. Tell him that he needs to share the burden equally and at such a delicate time more than equally. Tell him how much you value your relationship and at the same time tell him that he needs to do the same. It's better if such conversation goes in a calm way rather than an argument. I am sure he will make an effort to understand your pain and will make amends. Wish you joy and good health Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MRI Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 2 minutes ago, Telugu_ammayi said: Deal chestunna ..cheyali koda now I can’t walk out don't regret.. everything is for a greater good.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uttermost Posted March 31, 2018 Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 you have a job, right? divorce his ass, and claim a large alimony plus child support. but first divorce his s0rry ass. rest can come later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Telugu_ammayi Posted March 31, 2018 Author Report Share Posted March 31, 2018 1 minute ago, TamrajKilvish said: Tough time for you. It will pass. Let him know that he cannot expect you to do all the work and that too while you are pregnant. Tell him that he needs to share the burden equally and at such a delicate time more than equally. Tell him how much you value your relationship and at the same time tell him that he needs to do the same. It's better if such conversation goes in a calm way rather than an argument. I am sure he will make an effort to understand your pain and will make amends. Wish you joy and good health Sharing household chores anty stay st home antadu ....in laws visit made everything even worst... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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