Whats Wrong With Me? maroka Telugammayi lanti story

[Spartan]

I think something is wrong with me or my relationship. I feel my life is empty. I think it’s because of my husband or may be its me. My husband talks only about his work to me . He doesnt talk about things happening around us, things in his family, household, about travelling, eating out or future plans.

My husband is not romantic, caring or loving. I dont know if its a rare quality in men. He doesnt care about his health or mine. He doesnt have any friends. He doesnt like to go shopping, its waste of time according to him. Only thing he likes to do is watching movie. We dont have the same taste for movies.

My husband doesn’t care if i go out alone at night. He wants me to do everything on my own. I can do things on my own , I am an independent lady but i prefer not taking risks. We stay alone and I have to manage things from shopping to gas.

He had no hobbies. Before marriage he said he has many and even said hes very talented at painting. I never saw a single painting till now. Most of his friends play football or cricket. He is interested in none.
He hates reading , though he was advised to improve his vocabulary .


My life is so mechanical. We both work.
We are like roommates. He is not emotionally available. Are most men like this? What am I doing wrong? Is life just work and money?

 

 

[ARYA]

gp sittancle 

[Spartan]

I found so many of my friends have removed their thali in the USA. So I told my hubby that the thali is too big and doesnt go with my jeans, shirt and scratching my neck a lot and successfully removed it. Since i removed it, now i can wear artifical set, gun metal set with ease and feel like a college student again...

I am just curious how many are still wearing thali/mangalsutra or changed it to a modern thin chain with just the mangalyam.

[neneno1]

Yes it is after anni challabaddaka..You are in the same boat as many and try to find happiness in your own way

[Desi_guy]

E madhya gisonti story lu ekkuva ainay baa..

[karthikn]

5 minutes ago, Spartan said:

I found so many of my friends have removed their thali in the USA. So I told my hubby that the thali is too big and doesnt go with my jeans, shirt and scratching my neck a lot and successfully removed it. Since i removed it, now i can wear artifical set, gun metal set with ease and feel like a college student again...

I am just curious how many are still wearing thali/mangalsutra or changed it to a modern thin chain with just the mangalyam.

No telugu couple I interact with wear Thali not a big deal 

[Spartan]

Just now, karthikn said:

No telugu couple I interact with wear Thali not a big deal 

Fremont stories..gold chain snatching

[whatsapp]

12 minutes ago, Spartan said:

Whats Wrong With Me? maroka Telugammayi lanti story

 

 

 Inka chala mandini chustham bro!! 

[karthikn]

5 minutes ago, Spartan said:

Fremont stories..gold chain snatching

lol.. peaks le.. seattle lo kuda dasara time lo happened.. nallodu couple of old ladies vi lepesadu while they were walking in complex i guess..

[vankarodu]

rei endhi ra idhi

 

[Rushabhi]

Nenu oka area lo panichese tappudu gold earrings pettukuntene shuntevaru colleagues.I used to commute by bus. Inka thali ante anthe sangathulu

[krystax_admin]

E hubby gadu USA unnadu kabatti bathiki poyad. Ledante aunty ecastramartial life ki alavapadedi. Priyudu chetilo inkoka bartha hatam Ani tv9 lo vachedi.

[TampaChinnodu]

1 hour ago, Spartan said:

I found so many of my friends have removed their thali in the USA. So I told my hubby that the thali is too big and doesnt go with my jeans, shirt and scratching my neck a lot and successfully removed it. Since i removed it, now i can wear artifical set, gun metal set with ease and feel like a college student again...

I am just curious how many are still wearing thali/mangalsutra or changed it to a modern thin chain with just the mangalyam.

None of the females I know here wear thali. All thaalis in bank lockers. Only take out during traditional functions

[Heroin]

[9Krishna]

On 22.5.2018 at 12:51 AM, Spartan said:

I think something is wrong with me or my relationship. I feel my life is empty. I think it’s because of my husband or may be its me. My husband talks only about his work to me . He doesnt talk about things happening around us, things in his family, household, about travelling, eating out or future plans.

My husband is not romantic, caring or loving. I dont know if its a rare quality in men. He doesnt care about his health or mine. He doesnt have any friends. He doesnt like to go shopping, its waste of time according to him. Only thing he likes to do is watching movie. We dont have the same taste for movies.

My husband doesn’t care if i go out alone at night. He wants me to do everything on my own. I can do things on my own , I am an independent lady but i prefer not taking risks. We stay alone and I have to manage things from shopping to gas.

He had no hobbies. Before marriage he said he has many and even said hes very talented at painting. I never saw a single painting till now. Most of his friends play football or cricket. He is interested in none.
He hates reading , though he was advised to improve his vocabulary .


My life is so mechanical. We both work.
We are like roommates. He is not emotionally available. Are most men like this? What am I doing wrong? Is life just work and money?

 

 

నువ్వు  మీ  husband కి  క్లియర్ గా చెప్పు  ఏమని  అంటే  నువ్వు  ఆలా  చేస్తే  నేను  లోన్లీ  గా  ఫీల్  అవుతున్నాను  నువ్వు  కూడ  రెస్పాన్సిబిలిటీ  తీసుకోవాలి, ఎప్పుడు  TV కాదు అని.
మీ ఇద్దరి మధ్యలో వున్నది మిరే క్లియర్ చేసుకోవాలి!
నీ ఫీలింగ్ అన్ని చెప్పు వినకపోతే 4 or 5 chances ఇవ్వు. లేకపోతే it is waste of time(ni valuable life waste ayipotundi, go for divorce)

నేను  చాల  మందిని  ఎస్పెషల్లీ  తెలుగు  వాళ్ళని  చూస్తున్నాను  even గెస్ట్స్  వచ్చినప్పుడు  కూడా  - ఎప్పుడు  ఫోన్లు  చూసుకోవడం , లేకపోతే  TV చూడటం  చేస్తున్నారు .
ఒక్కొక్కసారి  నాకు  అనిపిస్తుంది  నేను  తేడా  అని  ఏమో !