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Is My Sister In Law Trying To Seduce Me?


Spartan

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I have been happily married for 5 years.
First time something happened, after about 5 months marriage, my wife and others in her family was going abroad for wedding (but not Amina, or me).
We all dropped them off airport and then about 10pm at night, she called me. She spoke generally, nothing mischievous and but then her breaths started to get heavy. she did genuinely walk up the stairs and so maybe she was just out of breath. But the formal conversation finished (hi, did you get home ok, no traffic etc) and then she asked, "ok, so what else". And I could feel her breathing was very heavy. I replied and said something else and after that conversation finished, she says again, "ok, what else" and this time round, I could swear she was doing something as her voice was so slow. there wasn't much else to talk about and so the conversation ended there.

Nothing really happened after that, other than I started getting thoughts about her from that day. I'll be honest, I have fantasised about her since but wouldn't even dream of anything happening as it just wouldn't be possible. However, now, about 5 years on, I notice she looks at me times and I'll admit, I sometimes look at her when she isn't looking and every now and then we catch each other out.

One day, she blatantly brushed her **** on my arms (twice). whilst we were both trying to carry someone ill, across the room. Recently, I was standing on the corridor waiting to say goodbye to some guests who were at her house, and she walked right into my elbow, **** first! this could have been an accident but somehow I think it wasn't. Very recently, I went to her house, and she was all alone, even the kids were at school. I thought I would test what she would be like, but guess what, she did NOTHING and behaved completely normal, when the opportunity was there for her to do something.

And so im lost, am I mistaken or is she playing games and/or what should I think?
I just want to know what might be going though her head.
She herself is happily married for 15 years with 4 kids. nothing wrong in their family though her husband is a big fat guy, im guessing not very active person.

Any ladies care to share thoughts?

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Look like you have lot of fantasy about your SIL. She is behaving normal or at least trying to. What is wrong in talking or looking or smiling at her BIL. It doesn't mean she is giving any sexual invitation. Grow up man. If you look through yellow glass everything will be yellow.

She is your sister. If you are a man of integrity stop thinking this way and avoid any chance of being with her if her presence make you think this way. WE know only your version. Even if she run into your hands you should walk away. That way you can save two families.

Next time if you have this thought start thinking about your wife, kids and your life. You have lot of things to loose.

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31 minutes ago, Spartan said:

Look like you have lot of fantasy about your SIL. She is behaving normal or at least trying to. What is wrong in talking or looking or smiling at her BIL. It doesn't mean she is giving any sexual invitation. Grow up man. If you look through yellow glass everything will be yellow.

She is your sister. If you are a man of integrity stop thinking this way and avoid any chance of being with her if her presence make you think this way. WE know only your version. Even if she run into your hands you should walk away. That way you can save two families.

Next time if you have this thought start thinking about your wife, kids and your life. You have lot of things to loose.

@ARYA

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