Precautions before marriage

[meri_zindagi]

5 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Is she healthy enough to have kids and not want money if there is a split loosely cheppalante. 

Why she should not ask for money... She is investing a whole lot of herself. If you are not willing to give anything to her. Why would someone be willing to give you anything ? 
 

You want someone who would stay at home and how she is gonna live after the split ?

Is this all the basis for your marriage ?

 

[DummyVariable]

11 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Why she should not ask for money... She is investing a whole lot of herself. If you are not willing to give anything to her. Why would someone be willing to give you anything ? 
 

You want someone who would stay at home and how she is gonna live after the split ?

Is this all the basis for your marriage ?

 

Ante if she works then she will not ask for money in case of a split antava?

[Balibabu]

Postpone your marriage for few years because you are not prepared for it.... forget about marriage for now and enjoy your bachelor life.

[meri_zindagi]

19 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Ante if she works then she will not ask for money in case of a split antava?

Money is a necessity right. You still don’t give if your gonna be ex wife is in need ?

We would never know how the situations going to turn in the coming days. So you can have the agreement terms to be favorable to both besides being précise.

 

[DummyVariable]

26 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Money is a necessity right. You still don’t give if your gonna be ex wife is in need ?

We would never know how the situations going to turn in the coming days. So you can have the agreement terms to be favorable to both besides being précise.

 

Ante abbayilu should part with money even if she is working antav. Educated ayyiundi job chesthu unnavallaki kooda money ivvala? Sounds very unfair. Love and attraction is real, but those things are temporary. Thinking beyond those days is important na. Agreements ante practical ga undali kada. I am a firm believer in the sharpe ratio as I have said before. The ratio of risks to rewards should be right for me to make a decision. Pelliki mundhu people say 100s of things. Avanni nammalem. If it is legal, people will be more controlled. Ippudunna laws ki very few incentives to get married oka vidhanga choosthe boys ki. Behaviors change when laws change.

[meri_zindagi]

7 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Ante abbayilu should part with money even if she is working antav. Educated ayyiundi job chesthu unnavallaki kooda money ivvala? Sounds very unfair. Love and attraction is real, but those things are temporary. Thinking beyond those days is important na. Agreements ante practical ga undali kada. I am a firm believer in the sharpe ratio as I have said before. The ratio of risks to rewards should be right for me to make a decision. Pelliki mundhu many people say 100s of things. Avanni nammalem. If it is legal, people will be more controlled. Ippudunna laws ki very few incentives to get married oka vidhanga choosthe boys ki. Behaviors change when laws change.

Will answer some other time. 

But girls also have many options these days. May be you are not seeing the actual rewards you are getting. 

 

 

[Picheshwar]

On 7/5/2018 at 12:55 PM, Hitman said:

inta tensions to pelli chesukoni emi chestav.. asalu chesukomaka.. adi better..

[DummyVariable]

32 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Will answer some other time. 

But girls also have many options these days. May be you are not seeing the actual rewards you are getting. 

Girls ki options unte undani. I only look at what comes to me. For me to make a decision, it is important to know what I am getting into. 

Rewards

1. Can have kids

Risks

1. Lose money

2. Jail because of false cases

3. Mental torture

4. Lose reputation in society

Girls are getting very few things to the table overall. 

[meri_zindagi]

9 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Girls ki options unte undani. I only look at what comes to me. For me to make a decision, it is important to know what I am getting into. 

Rewards

1. Can have kids

Risks

1. Lose money

2. Jail because of false cases

3. Mental torture

4. Lose reputation in society

Girls are getting very few things to the table overall. 

What do you want them to bring. 

[Catalpha]

19 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Girls ki options unte undani. I only look at what comes to me. For me to make a decision, it is important to know what I am getting into. 

Rewards

1. Can have kids

Risks

1. Lose money

2. Jail because of false cases

3. Mental torture

4. Lose reputation in society

Girls are getting very few things to the table overall. 

Looks like what you need is a surrogate.

[Tellugodu]

1 minute ago, Catalpha said:

Looks like what you need is a surrogate.

Are you adda ladies aa?? 

[Catalpha]

Just now, Tellugodu said:

Are you adda ladies aa?? 

No?

[DummyVariable]

39 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

What do you want them to bring. 

Not the risks obviously. Trust is a good proxxy for it may be.

[Catalpha]

2 hours ago, DummyVariable said:

Not the risks obviously. Trust is a good proxxy for it may be.

Hire a surrogate.

[Tellugodu]

2 hours ago, Catalpha said:

No?

In your earlier post you said/referred about your husband soo.