Staysafebro Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 1 minute ago, Amrita said: Still it doesn’t mean it is rare. Many girls themselves sometimes slowly ask for property details after one or two calls. You probably don’t know it. one or two communities lo common kaka po vachi but other communities lo pakka. It is for long term security of the family. Money may not make you happy but it will solve material problems. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amrita Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 6 minutes ago, dakumangalsingh said: Tokkem kaadu bapanese antha caste peeling vunna ppl ni ekkada chudaledu inka mani minded sanagti antava evariki tochinattu vallu behave chestaru pilla ni ichchetappudu calculations lekunda chesukoru adi matram for sure. Just ujjogam chusi aithe cheyaru ekkadiki kavali ante akkadiki ochchi special ga pot pagalakotti mari chepthe ee muchata not just girls boys too. Subconscious lo anna ee calculations chesukuntar if they aren’t vocal Caste feeling is different from katnam and i do agree they are very concerned about caste but that has nothing to do with katnam. Brahmins lo abbayi chaduvu is most important thing for them to look for calculations ki asalu property talk they wont do. Adugute abbayi parents will back off from the alliance itself. I agree if it was the case but it is not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amrita Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 1 minute ago, Staysafebro said: Still it doesn’t mean it is rare. Many girls themselves sometimes slowly ask for property details after one or two calls. You probably don’t know it. one or two communities lo common kaka po vachi but other communities lo pakka. It is for long term security of the family. Money may not make you happy but it will solve material problems. My point was don't generalize andaru ani anthe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dakumangalsingh Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 1 minute ago, Amrita said: Caste feeling is different from katnam and i do agree they are very concerned about caste but that has nothing to do with katnam. Brahmins lo abbayi chaduvu is most important thing for them to look for calculations ki asalu property talk they wont do. Adugute abbayi parents will back off from the alliance itself. I agree if it was the case but it is not. Ante ante aaasthi calculations vundavu antav bottom line chusta anni observe chesta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amrita Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 Just now, dakumangalsingh said: Ante ante aaasthi calculations vundavu antav bottom line chusta anni observe chesta Chudu nike telustundi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuciferMorningStar Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 18 hours ago, karthikn said: Adhi idhi sollu badhulu I don't give single paisa ante aipodhi ga Okadu teeskunta ani fix ayyadu. Don't tolerate him. Wait for a match who takes no dowry. One of my friends who's a Brah says that they don't get dowry Rs 100,000 is max for "Laanchanalu" it seems Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushabhi Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 1 hour ago, panipoori said: oh my rare animuthyams.....please give those girls contact to db people..bcz all people here want good girls ANtha rare emundi? Capabilities choosthe inka aasthulu choodalsina avasaram enti? Abbayi capable kaakapothe aasthi unna em labham? Naa case lo nenu choosindi I was working he will work (appudu studying ). Maa iddariki kalipi baane sampadinchukuntam. And maa side parledhu aasthi. So idantha cheppi parents ni oppincha. Initially oppukoledhu job ledhu aasthi ledhu ani. But he ditched me after one year. But sources nunchi telisindi entante he got a good job and is generally happy. So naa anchanaa tappu kaledhu. A point to note here nenu kooda zero person ni choodaledhu. I thought about future too. Future here is his earning capabilities. Not aasthi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeemaLekka Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 mari movies lo ammailyu enduku auto drivers ni bewarse gallani love chestharu ani troll pages aadaramga @karthikn adagadalsukunadu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
panipoori Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 2 minutes ago, SeemaLekka said: mari movies lo ammailyu enduku auto drivers ni bewarse gallani love chestharu ani troll pages aadaramga @karthikn adagadalsukunadu Those are all RX100's ... auto driver ni who's gonna marry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karthikn Posted September 6, 2018 Author Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 13 minutes ago, LuciferMorningStar said: One of my friends who's a Brah says that they don't get dowry Rs 100,000 is max for "Laanchanalu" it seems Bapans give zero.. So community matters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuciferMorningStar Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 14 minutes ago, dakumangalsingh said: Tokkem kaadu bapanese antha caste peeling vunna ppl ni ekkada chudaledu inka mani minded sanagti antava evariki tochinattu vallu behave chestaru pilla ni ichchetappudu calculations lekunda chesukoru adi matram for sure. Just ujjogam chusi aithe cheyaru ekkadiki kavali ante akkadiki ochchi special ga pot pagalakotti mari chepthe ee muchata not just girls boys too. Subconscious lo anna ee calculations chesukuntar if they aren’t vocal I've never seen Brahs riding Motorcycles with "Choudhary" "NTR" symbols Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
9Krishna Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 atleast Abbayi chaduvu n job gurunchi choosturugaaa? nuvvu yetu choosukonna ends with money only Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuciferMorningStar Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 Just now, karthikn said: Bapans give zero.. So community matters agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amrita Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 Just now, karthikn said: Bapans give zero.. So community matters Perfect !! mothaniki ardham ayyindi. Asthule istaru share but not at time of marriage alludu manchode ane nammakam vachaka after few yrs ..usually grand kids peru mida rastaru Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staysafebro Posted September 6, 2018 Report Share Posted September 6, 2018 1 minute ago, Rushabhi said: ANtha rare emundi? Capabilities choosthe inka aasthulu choodalsina avasaram enti? Abbayi capable kaakapothe aasthi unna em labham? Naa case lo nenu choosindi I was working he will work (appudu studying ). Maa iddariki kalipi baane sampadinchukuntam. And maa side parledhu aasthi. So idantha cheppi parents ni oppincha. Initially oppukoledhu job ledhu aasthi ledhu ani. But he ditched me after one year. But sources nunchi telisindi entante he got a good job and is generally happy. So naa anchanaa tappu kaledhu. A point to note here nenu kooda zero person ni choodaledhu. I thought about future too. Future here is his earning capabilities. Not aasthi. The idea is still monetary benefit in the long term. There is a well known sociology example of “Beauty status exchange”. It rings true for 95% of the population. The boy’s earning potential gives status to a beautiful girl. This is a damning truth if ever there was one. In fact a girl’s beauty is actually measured by how rich the boy is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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