skype lo matrimony pilla tho video call

[Run]

5 minutes ago, Staysafebro said:

Very few masters girls go for bachelors degree guys. Evaru doraka nappudu they may consider or if the guys is proper thopu. Vallakentante they should atleast match them in all aspects. Be it in education, physical features (height, weight), job, financial status etc. There are some unwritten rules like boys should marry a girl who is of a lower financial standing than them. Ivanni kaakunda just Btech okkate unte, they see you as someone who is out of sync with the lifestyle here. Mana direct h1 uncles have some nasty nela ticket behavior. Aa behavior andhari mundu paruvu thesundhi.  Plus h1 uncles don’t have manners and are stuck with Indian mentality. Ammayilanu kottadam, thittadam, vedhinche behaviors vallalo ekkuva untayi. Masters guys know how to enjoy life. Konchem present life tho sync ayyi vuntaru.

bro ..u direct h1 right?

[Amrita]

2 hours ago, TampaBangaram said:

@Amrita ... why masters chesina girls always look for masters chesina guys ... we masters guys are okay with bachelors or masters girls know ... any reason ? ... throw some light pls ...

@TampaBangaram

Ages nunchi man was provider and woman was a dependent so eppudu ammayini tana kanna better ga unna abbayi key ivvadam jarigindi. Princess ni kuda antakanna pedda rajyam prince key icharu so that's general mindset in family while raising a daughter. Mana kanna manchi family loki better ga provide chese family ki potav ani expectations raise chesedi basically intlo family ney. That could be reason this is default expectation that guy should be more capable than woman. 
 

Masters girls ani generalize chesi i don't want to answer but i will tell about myself.

1.  Ekkada US ki vachi life nerchukuntam h1 mida vachina vallaki Masters chesina abbayilaki jameen asmaan difference untundi attitude lo. Nenu independent ammayini and nenu ippudu kukka ni chusi pandi anamante chala kashta padata oppukodaniki just because my husband said so. I will confront and say adi kukka not pandi but adi issue avutundi.  I am not generalizing every guy but H1 mida vachina abbayilaki ammayilu chala chala submissive ga undali and costco lo mac and cheese konukodaniki kuda permissions kavali even if woman is working alanti pathetic life nenu batakalenu. I know my limits to independence but ila mari too much submissive for 10$ permissions bharinchalenu.

2.  I am scared that i will have ego issues if i marry a guy who didn't do masters though i dont value masters degree as much. Its a piece of paper anthe. Kopam lo repu kottukunte kharma kali nuvventi naku cheppedi ani if i lose my tongue ...ayipoyindi male ego hurt ayyi next adi extreme level ki ekkadiki potundo teledu. That's something i should never ever utter in life so better don't be in that situation. 

3. Inferiority complex unte guy ki kuda chala issues vastayi. Oka ammayi endulo excel ayina own husband aey chudaledu after a point. So its always better to marry a guy who is equally educated or more educated than you. This applies to job also. Being smarter than husband if your husband is not broad minded will create problem one day,

4. I get attracted and impressed with a guy who is more smarter and intelligent than me as i have something interesting to talk or learn from him. I like to have intellectual conversations. I am totally fine to watch sports with him or even play.  Ippudu intlo kuchoni serials chuse type ammayini kadu nenu. H1 mida vachina vallaki saving concept tappa enjoy cheyadam radu but naku having quality life is important. Nenu oka trip ki veldam ante chances of MS guy taking is 90 % vs H1 guy which is 10% . Ivi chusi cheptunna observations. 

5.  Masters guys usually life lo bane kashtalu padi untaru so spouse ni kuda ardham chesukuntaru when they have issues and more understanding of women ani na feeling. DB lo ala kanapadadu kani bayata chusi thats my impression. 

6. Ikkada konni years unna vallu bane help chestaru women ki intlo unlike in India. They take care of kids and treat their wives well.  They are wonderful fathers too. I would like to have a person who is a good father to my kids, plan their education etc etc. Usually MS chesina vallu money kanna education ki value istaru and have a vision about kids future etc so lean towards them.

PS: Exceptions undachu edi na opinion.

[Unityunity]

 

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Ages nunchi man was provider and woman was a dependent so eppudu ammayini tana kanna better ga unna abbayi key ivvadam jarigindi. Princess ni kuda antakanna pedda rajyam prince key icharu so that's general mindset in family while raising a daughter. Mana kanna manchi family loki better ga provide chese family ki potav ani expectations raise chesedi basically intlo family ney. That could be reason this is default expectation that guy should be more capable than woman. 
 

Masters girls ani generalize chesi i don't want to answer but i tell about myself.

1.  Ekkada US ki vachi life nerchukuntam h1 mida vachina vallaki Masters chesina abbayilaki jameen asmaan difference untundi attitude lo. Nenu independent ammayini and nenu ippudu kukka ni chusi pandi anamante chala kashta padata oppukodaniki just because my husband said so. I will confront and say adi kukka not pandi but adi issue avutundi.  I am not generalizing every guy but H1 mida vachina abbayilaki ammayilu chala chala submissive ga undali and costco lo mac and cheese konukodaniki kuda permissions kavali even if woman is working alanti pathetic life nenu batakalenu. I know my limits to independence but ila mari too much submissive for 10$ permissions bharinchalenu.

2.  I am scared that i will have ego issues if i marry a guy who didn't do masters though i dont value masters degree as much. Its a piece of paper anthe. Kopam lo repu kottukunte kharma kali nuvventi naku cheppedi ani if i lose my tongue ...ayipoyindi male ego hurt ayyi next adi extreme level ki ekkadiki potundo teledu. That's something i should never ever utter in life so better don't be in that situation. 

3. Inferiority complex unte guy ki kuda chala issues vastayi. Oka ammayi endulo excel ayina own husband aey chudaledu after a point. So its always better to marry a guy who is equally educated or more educated than you.

4. I get attracted and impressed to a guy who is more smarter and intelligent than me as i have something interesting to talk or learn from him. I am totally fine to watch sports with him or even play.  Ippudu intlo kuchoni serials chuse type ammayini kadu nenu. H1 mida vachina vallaki saving concept tappa enjoy cheyadam radu but naku having quality life is important.

5.  Masters guys usually life lo bane kashtalu padi untaru so spouse ni kuda ardham chesukuntaru when they have issues and more understanding of women ani na feeling. DB lo ala kanapadadu kani bayata chusi thats my impression. 

6. Ikkada konni years unna vallu bane help chestaru women ki intlo unlike in India. They take care of kids and treat their wives well. 

 

PS: Exceptions undachu edi na opinion.

Inta pedda ga type chesavu chudu ni patience ki hats off 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[Amrita]

3 minutes ago, Unityunity said:

 

Inta pedda ga type chesavu chudu ni patience ki hats off 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Inka chala points unnayi only 6 aey rasa as i don't want to offend non masters guys and also inka pedda essay ki ilanti responses vastayi ani 

[Staysafebro]

18 minutes ago, Run said:

bro ..u direct h1 right?

insult aa? Banthitho balls meeda kottinchukovadam is better than being H1 uncle.

[Heroin]

Nuvvu  nachaledemo 😂

[Run]

1 minute ago, Staysafebro said:

insult aa? Banthitho balls meeda kottinchukovadam is better than being H1 uncle.

no offence bro.. chill   ...you gave some points though 

[Run]

5 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Inka chala points unnayi only 6 aey rasa as i don't want to offend non masters guys and also inka pedda essay ki ilanti responses vastayi ani 

me view lo why ms abbayilu  don't mind marrying  btech girls from back home

[Staysafebro]

4 minutes ago, Run said:

me view lo why ms abbayilu  don't mind marrying  btech girls from back home

Mostly they chase beauty and want to have a controllable wife. Ikkada beautiful ammayilu dorakapothe they will go to India and get them. Most boys want control in their family. Indian btech batch ayithe they will not know much about this country and are always lagging behind with respect to lifestyle here. That can be used to control them mostly.

[Run]

Just now, Staysafebro said:

Mostly they chase beauty and want to have a controllable wife. Ikkada beautiful ammayilu dorakapothe they will go to India and get them. Most boys want control in their family. Indian btech batch ayithe they will not know much about this country and are always lagging behind with respect to lifestyle here. That can be used to control them mostly.

heard the same reason from lot of guys 

[Amrita]

17 minutes ago, Run said:

me view lo why ms abbayilu  don't mind marrying  btech girls from back home

1.  They think India lo ammayilu pativratas and MS girls are not.

2. MS ammayila Independence ni they cant take it India ammayi ayite submssive ga untundi mold chesukovachu ani feeling. -- This is myth. Ila india ammailani  chesukoni divorce ivvaleka batakaleka edustunna friends nake unnaru. Sadistic on my part but for what they commented on MS girls i felt bagaindi.

3.  Shortage of girls. Ratio of men coming to US vs women was/is always less.

4. Most are committed so lack of availability.

5.  They lack skill to find a gf here so only option is to find from India. Ofcourse very good guys ayyundachu too that they want to do only arranged marriage but hard to believe this case.

I might be totally wrong though. 

[Staysafebro]

7 minutes ago, Heroin said:

Nuvvu  nachaledemo 😂

@karthikn right now

[karthikn]

7 minutes ago, Staysafebro said:

@karthikn right now

 

18 minutes ago, Heroin said:

Nuvvu  nachaledemo 😂

nannu nenu mahesh babu la vuhinchukune flower ni kaadu,   i know i am average joe   

munde dobbey mante time bokka undadhu ga iddariki.. 

[Paidithalli]

21 minutes ago, Heroin said:

Nuvvu  nachaledemo 😂

🐒

[Run]

9 minutes ago, Amrita said:

1.  They think India lo ammayilu pativratas and MS girls are not.

2. MS ammayila Independence ni they cant take it India ammayi ayite submssive ga untundi mold chesukovachu ani feeling. -- This is myth. Ila india ammailani  chesukoni divorce ivvaleka batakaleka edustunna friends nake unnaru. 

3.  Shortage of girls. Ratio of men coming to US vs women was/is always less.

4. Most are committed so lack of availability.

5.  They lack skill to find a gf here so only option is to find from India. Ofcourse very good guys ayyundachu too that they want to do only arranged marriage but hard to believe this case.

I might be totally wrong though. 

agree on most pf those....nenu chusa. MS lo na senior gadu... MS ammyini ni chesukoni.. 1 year ke..ego issues tho divorce ivvaleka..separate ga uuntunnaru...