skype lo matrimony pilla tho video call

[Heroin]

2 hours ago, Paidithalli said:

🐒

🐵🏻

[coca-cola]

3 hours ago, Amrita said:

@TampaBangaram

Ages nunchi man was provider and woman was a dependent so eppudu ammayini tana kanna better ga unna abbayi key ivvadam jarigindi. Princess ni kuda antakanna pedda rajyam prince key icharu so that's general mindset in family while raising a daughter. Mana kanna manchi family loki better ga provide chese family ki potav ani expectations raise chesedi basically intlo family ney. That could be reason this is default expectation that guy should be more capable than woman. 
 

Masters girls ani generalize chesi i don't want to answer but i will tell about myself.

1.  Ekkada US ki vachi life nerchukuntam h1 mida vachina vallaki Masters chesina abbayilaki jameen asmaan difference untundi attitude lo. Nenu independent ammayini and nenu ippudu kukka ni chusi pandi anamante chala kashta padata oppukodaniki just because my husband said so. I will confront and say adi kukka not pandi but adi issue avutundi.  I am not generalizing every guy but H1 mida vachina abbayilaki ammayilu chala chala submissive ga undali and costco lo mac and cheese konukodaniki kuda permissions kavali even if woman is working alanti pathetic life nenu batakalenu. I know my limits to independence but ila mari too much submissive for 10$ permissions bharinchalenu.

2.  I am scared that i will have ego issues if i marry a guy who didn't do masters though i dont value masters degree as much. Its a piece of paper anthe. Kopam lo repu kottukunte kharma kali nuvventi naku cheppedi ani if i lose my tongue ...ayipoyindi male ego hurt ayyi next adi extreme level ki ekkadiki potundo teledu. That's something i should never ever utter in life so better don't be in that situation. 

3. Inferiority complex unte guy ki kuda chala issues vastayi. Oka ammayi endulo excel ayina own husband aey chudaledu after a point. So its always better to marry a guy who is equally educated or more educated than you. This applies to job also. Being smarter than husband if your husband is not broad minded will create problem one day,

4. I get attracted and impressed with a guy who is more smarter and intelligent than me as i have something interesting to talk or learn from him. I like to have intellectual conversations. I am totally fine to watch sports with him or even play.  Ippudu intlo kuchoni serials chuse type ammayini kadu nenu. H1 mida vachina vallaki saving concept tappa enjoy cheyadam radu but naku having quality life is important. Nenu oka trip ki veldam ante chances of MS guy taking is 90 % vs H1 guy which is 10% . Ivi chusi cheptunna observations. 

5.  Masters guys usually life lo bane kashtalu padi untaru so spouse ni kuda ardham chesukuntaru when they have issues and more understanding of women ani na feeling. DB lo ala kanapadadu kani bayata chusi thats my impression. 

6. Ikkada konni years unna vallu bane help chestaru women ki intlo unlike in India. They take care of kids and treat their wives well.  They are wonderful fathers too. I would like to have a person who is a good father to my kids, plan their education etc etc. Usually MS chesina vallu money kanna education ki value istaru and have a vision about kids future etc so lean towards them.

PS: Exceptions undachu edi na opinion

Enthaku akkka married as kada ?

[Ashtavakra]

2 hours ago, Amrita said:

Yeah but beautiful kanna manchi ammayi ah mi parents oka 6 months vaste undanistunda cheyanistunda relations ki value istunda ivi chusuko. Andam emundi? Roju chuste valle andam ga kanipistaru. Wrong person ayite you will loose peace in your life. Think of parents too just not urself. All they want is appudappudu vachi your kids to adukovadam a scope kuda lekapote inka andam unna em labham. A person who comes into your life should be addition to family ammayi or abbayi.  Just an advice. 

entha amaayakanga unnav akka.

oka abbayi/ammayi ki kaavalsindhi manchi sense of humour, avthalolla ni manishi laa treat cheysey attitude. ivi untey chaalu, vaallatho padukotaaniki line kattukoni vastharu janalu. andham aasthi, ivaantha sollu. nijam cheppu akka.. ninnu manchi ga treat chesthey, nuvvu evevo point lanni raasaav indaaka, avanni pattinchukuntaava. evaru pattinchukoru.

pelli, life ani edhedho chepthunnav. db pulse inka catch cheyyaley nuvvu. ikkada ammayilu dorakka frustration batch idhi.

ammayilni rank chesthey, vaalla andham ni pogidithey, vaalla gurinchi chettha ga vaagithey padipothaaru aney brahma lo unnaru. 

[TampaBangaram]

5 hours ago, Amrita said:

@TampaBangaram

Ages nunchi man was provider and woman was a dependent so eppudu ammayini tana kanna better ga unna abbayi key ivvadam jarigindi. Princess ni kuda antakanna pedda rajyam prince key icharu so that's general mindset in family while raising a daughter. Mana kanna manchi family loki better ga provide chese family ki potav ani expectations raise chesedi basically intlo family ney. That could be reason this is default expectation that guy should be more capable than woman. 
 

Masters girls ani generalize chesi i don't want to answer but i will tell about myself.

1.  Ekkada US ki vachi life nerchukuntam h1 mida vachina vallaki Masters chesina abbayilaki jameen asmaan difference untundi attitude lo. Nenu independent ammayini and nenu ippudu kukka ni chusi pandi anamante chala kashta padata oppukodaniki just because my husband said so. I will confront and say adi kukka not pandi but adi issue avutundi.  I am not generalizing every guy but H1 mida vachina abbayilaki ammayilu chala chala submissive ga undali and costco lo mac and cheese konukodaniki kuda permissions kavali even if woman is working alanti pathetic life nenu batakalenu. I know my limits to independence but ila mari too much submissive for 10$ permissions bharinchalenu.

2.  I am scared that i will have ego issues if i marry a guy who didn't do masters though i dont value masters degree as much. Its a piece of paper anthe. Kopam lo repu kottukunte kharma kali nuvventi naku cheppedi ani if i lose my tongue ...ayipoyindi male ego hurt ayyi next adi extreme level ki ekkadiki potundo teledu. That's something i should never ever utter in life so better don't be in that situation. 

3. Inferiority complex unte guy ki kuda chala issues vastayi. Oka ammayi endulo excel ayina own husband aey chudaledu after a point. So its always better to marry a guy who is equally educated or more educated than you. This applies to job also. Being smarter than husband if your husband is not broad minded will create problem one day,

4. I get attracted and impressed with a guy who is more smarter and intelligent than me as i have something interesting to talk or learn from him. I like to have intellectual conversations. I am totally fine to watch sports with him or even play.  Ippudu intlo kuchoni serials chuse type ammayini kadu nenu. H1 mida vachina vallaki saving concept tappa enjoy cheyadam radu but naku having quality life is important. Nenu oka trip ki veldam ante chances of MS guy taking is 90 % vs H1 guy which is 10% . Ivi chusi cheptunna observations. 

5.  Masters guys usually life lo bane kashtalu padi untaru so spouse ni kuda ardham chesukuntaru when they have issues and more understanding of women ani na feeling. DB lo ala kanapadadu kani bayata chusi thats my impression. 

6. Ikkada konni years unna vallu bane help chestaru women ki intlo unlike in India. They take care of kids and treat their wives well.  They are wonderful fathers too. I would like to have a person who is a good father to my kids, plan their education etc etc. Usually MS chesina vallu money kanna education ki value istaru and have a vision about kids future etc so lean towards them.

PS: Exceptions undachu edi na opinion.

@Amrita ... first of all ... thank you so much intha detailed ga answer chesinanduku😊 ... nenu 2 marks question isthe ..... 14 marks answer chesaru  ... 

I agree to most of your points but nenu konni exceptions kuda chusanu ... both H1 bots  and  ms guys lo ... end of the day it’s the couple and the understanding between them 👍

[Bahu]

essay writing 

[Biskot]

vuu

[MagaMaharaju]

Monna ne edho sangeeth annav. Inka neku pelli fix aipoindhi anukunna. Inka skype lo chupula daggare aagipoyava. Hatha vidhi

[uttermost]

5 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Monna ne edho sangeeth annav. Inka neku pelli fix aipoindhi anukunna. Inka skype lo chupula daggare aagipoyava. Hatha vidhi

elanti ammayi/abbayi kaavaali ani ooriki vinipinche la public broadcast chesey vaallaki antha easy ga pellillu avvavu.

too many calculations come into the picture, and they fail to actually enjoy another person's company. matter over.

the entire process of matchmaking itself is primitive, inspite of HQ video calling technologies.

see what your akka @Amrita has written. Anni conditions pedithey etla. mana TS ki kooda undi untaayi anni conditions.

normal ga aithey ammayi/abbayi chooskovaali.. koddi rojula friendship taravatha pelli kaavaala odda ani decide cheyyali.

ikkada direct ga pelli gurinchi talking. so late avuddi. no worries.

[raj123456]

njoy

[Amrita]

5 hours ago, Ashtavakra said:

entha amaayakanga unnav akka.

oka abbayi/ammayi ki kaavalsindhi manchi sense of humour, avthalolla ni manishi laa treat cheysey attitude. ivi untey chaalu, vaallatho padukotaaniki line kattukoni vastharu janalu. andham aasthi, ivaantha sollu. nijam cheppu akka.. ninnu manchi ga treat chesthey, nuvvu evevo point lanni raasaav indaaka, avanni pattinchukuntaava. evaru pattinchukoru.

pelli, life ani edhedho chepthunnav. db pulse inka catch cheyyaley nuvvu. ikkada ammayilu dorakka frustration batch idhi.

ammayilni rank chesthey, vaalla andham ni pogidithey, vaalla gurinchi chettha ga vaagithey padipothaaru aney brahma lo unnaru. 

Every person has their requirements naku just humor/manishila treat cheste saripodu emo and yeah nenu pattinchukunna and pattinchukunta other things. Every person is different. Just saying. 

Emanna edavani Db lo abbayilu nakenduku valla pulse. I don't care because i live in world and not DB.  

[uttermost]

9 hours ago, Amrita said:

@TampaBangaram

Ages nunchi man was provider and woman was a dependent so eppudu ammayini tana kanna better ga unna abbayi key ivvadam jarigindi. Princess ni kuda antakanna pedda rajyam prince key icharu so that's general mindset in family while raising a daughter. Mana kanna manchi family loki better ga provide chese family ki potav ani expectations raise chesedi basically intlo family ney. That could be reason this is default expectation that guy should be more capable than woman. 
 

Masters girls ani generalize chesi i don't want to answer but i will tell about myself.

1.  Ekkada US ki vachi life nerchukuntam h1 mida vachina vallaki Masters chesina abbayilaki jameen asmaan difference untundi attitude lo. Nenu independent ammayini and nenu ippudu kukka ni chusi pandi anamante chala kashta padata oppukodaniki just because my husband said so. I will confront and say adi kukka not pandi but adi issue avutundi.  I am not generalizing every guy but H1 mida vachina abbayilaki ammayilu chala chala submissive ga undali and costco lo mac and cheese konukodaniki kuda permissions kavali even if woman is working alanti pathetic life nenu batakalenu. I know my limits to independence but ila mari too much submissive for 10$ permissions bharinchalenu.

2.  I am scared that i will have ego issues if i marry a guy who didn't do masters though i dont value masters degree as much. Its a piece of paper anthe. Kopam lo repu kottukunte kharma kali nuvventi naku cheppedi ani if i lose my tongue ...ayipoyindi male ego hurt ayyi next adi extreme level ki ekkadiki potundo teledu. That's something i should never ever utter in life so better don't be in that situation. 

3. Inferiority complex unte guy ki kuda chala issues vastayi. Oka ammayi endulo excel ayina own husband aey chudaledu after a point. So its always better to marry a guy who is equally educated or more educated than you. This applies to job also. Being smarter than husband if your husband is not broad minded will create problem one day,

4. I get attracted and impressed with a guy who is more smarter and intelligent than me as i have something interesting to talk or learn from him. I like to have intellectual conversations. I am totally fine to watch sports with him or even play.  Ippudu intlo kuchoni serials chuse type ammayini kadu nenu. H1 mida vachina vallaki saving concept tappa enjoy cheyadam radu but naku having quality life is important. Nenu oka trip ki veldam ante chances of MS guy taking is 90 % vs H1 guy which is 10% . Ivi chusi cheptunna observations. 

5.  Masters guys usually life lo bane kashtalu padi untaru so spouse ni kuda ardham chesukuntaru when they have issues and more understanding of women ani na feeling. DB lo ala kanapadadu kani bayata chusi thats my impression. 

6. Ikkada konni years unna vallu bane help chestaru women ki intlo unlike in India. They take care of kids and treat their wives well.  They are wonderful fathers too. I would like to have a person who is a good father to my kids, plan their education etc etc. Usually MS chesina vallu money kanna education ki value istaru and have a vision about kids future etc so lean towards them.

PS: Exceptions undachu edi na opinion.

so many things wrong with this. don't know where to start.

I'll simply say you are insulting guys by saying that they can't handle women more successful than themselves. And insulting to women too, by implying that women happily submit to someone more successful than they are.

I suggest you make lots and lots of boyfriends (stay away from people who take themselves too seriously - like in this db), and test your own theory of how rigid gender relations are.

 

[Amrita]

Just now, uttermost said:

so many things wrong with this. don't know where to start.

I'll simply say you are insulting guys by saying that they can't handle women more successful than themselves. And insulting to women too, by implying that women happily submit to someone more successful than they are.

I suggest you make lots and lots of boyfriends (stay away from people who take themselves too seriously - like in this db), and test your own theory of how rigid gender relations are.

 

I never said that but people have opinions based on situations they are exposed to i said those are my observations. 

[uttermost]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Every person has their requirements naku just humor/manishila treat cheste saripodu emo and yeah nenu pattinchukunna and pattinchukunta other things. Every person is different. Just saying. 

 Emanna edavani Db lo abbayilu nakenduku valla pulse. I don't care because i live in world and not DB.  

But Ash is right that most people (especially women) will fall for someone who makes them laugh, and treats them well. May be you are not 'most' people. But being a decent human being and clever one at that is enough to impress a girl, even if one looks ugly.

 

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, uttermost said:

But Ash is right that most people (especially women) will fall for someone who makes them laugh, and treats them well. May be you are not 'most' people. But being a decent human being and clever one at that is enough to impress a girl, even if one looks ugly.

 

I never said i am not one of them kada i said just that saripodu emo annanu anduke

[uttermost]

11 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I never said i am not one of them kada i said just that saripodu emo annanu anduke

I think you are unsure yourself.

if you find a charming funny guy, who's also kind, and likes you, you'll fall for him in a sec. I can't imagine anything else that a girl can ask for, really.

that long list of things you wrote are all afterthoughts.