skype lo matrimony pilla tho video call

[fake_Bezawada]

@uttermost baa nee teppi kosi tuppalo denguttaaaru baa Db vaalu 

[uttermost]

12 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I never said i am not one of them kada i said just that saripodu emo annanu anduke

this db is full of self obsessed freaks (somewhat rich guys with very little brain), worried that other self obsessed freaks (gorgeous women with no brains) won't give them the time of the day, unless they do some mind tricks like the one Will Smith teaches in that Hollywood movie i forgot the name of.

They are still desperately finding the right tricks to impress the right people. Such a pathetic life really for most of them. Trying to find their place in the social hierarchy of status through beautiful wife or something.

[uttermost]

4 minutes ago, fake_Bezawada said:

@uttermost baa nee teppi kosi tuppalo denguttaaaru baa Db vaalu 

emi raa feel ayyava okka saari annandukey.. lol. 

next time nannu aney tappudu gurthu untadhi anukunna. but obviously too much expect chesa nee laanti dhed gaadi deggara. I know.

[Heroin]

1 minute ago, uttermost said:

this db is full of self obsessed freaks (somewhat rich guys with very little brain), worried that other self obsessed freaks (gorgeous women with no brains) won't give them the time of the day, unless they do some mind tricks like the one Will Smith teaches in that Hollywood movie i forgot the name of.

They are still desperately finding the right tricks to impress the right people. Such a pathetic life really for most of them. Trying to find their place in the social hierarchy of status through beautiful wife or something.

Email cheptunav lazy  😋

[vendettaa]

Go n meet her in person and take decision 

 

[uttermost]

16 minutes ago, Heroin said:

 Email cheptunav lazy  😋

that for people (not just in this db), the act of finding a partner is a game. A game which they think they can master by exchanging notes on how women are, and what they like to do, like virgin fcuks in this db try to.

because none of them have actually talked to women like they are a real person, and understood what they need, anyway.

So they make up either uber romantic notions of women, or utterly misogynist notions of them. Both of them conspire to keep their love lives very close to hell, until their parents feel s0rry enough for them and force them to marry.

[uttermost]

Frankly, if you think you need a gorgeous woman in your bed to get it up, I'm going to conclude that you've never actually fcuked a real woman, apart from prostitutes from backpage or craigslist, which is fine ofcourse.

just don't make statements that majority of men dont agree with. even if most of them won't say it to your face.

[fake_Bezawada]

21 minutes ago, uttermost said:

emi raa feel ayyava okka saari annandukey.. lol. 

next time nannu aney tappudu gurthu untadhi anukunna. but obviously too much expect chesa nee laanti dhed gaadi deggara. I know.

nee kosame ananu baa neeku daily 4-5 people tho DB lo rafe avvakapothe happy ga vundadu kadha 

 

[Heroin]

17 minutes ago, uttermost said:

that for people (not just in this db), the act of finding a partner is a game. A game which they think they can master by exchanging notes on how women are, and what they like to do, like virgin fcuks in this db try to.

because none of them have actually talked to women like they are a real person, and understood what they need, anyway.

So they make up either uber romantic notions of women, or utterly misogynist notions of them. Both of them conspire to keep their love lives very close to hell, until their parents feel s0rry enough for them and force them to marry.

Haha I agree with u for some extent 

[uttermost]

Just now, fake_Bezawada said:

nee kosame ananu baa neeku daily 4-5 people tho DB lo rafe avvakapothe happy ga vundadu kadha 

keyboard oka four letter word 'rafe' ani type chesinantha maatraana aynatta nee dhed prapancham lo.

reality lo ki ra. ikkada evadu peekedhi emi ledhu. meeku sarigga maatladatamey chetha raadhu. rafe daaka vellipoyaav.

[Amrita]

26 minutes ago, uttermost said:

I think you are unsure yourself.

if you find a charming funny guy, who's also kind, and likes you, you'll fall for him in a sec. I can't imagine anything else that a girl can ask for, really.

that long list of things you wrote are all afterthoughts. 

Preminchadaniki i agree but pelli chesukodaniki that's not enough ento mandi involve avutaru enno factors etc etc . 

Bold: Agreed

[rapchik]

16 hours ago, Amrita said:

Oka sari malla alochinchi cheppu .. NIjamga cheppagaligite bane undu. I can show pratapam only on my parents no one else.  

Lol. True 

[PCR_MURTY]

19 hours ago, Amrita said:

@TampaBangaram

Ages nunchi man was provider and woman was a dependent so eppudu ammayini tana kanna better ga unna abbayi key ivvadam jarigindi. Princess ni kuda antakanna pedda rajyam prince key icharu so that's general mindset in family while raising a daughter. Mana kanna manchi family loki better ga provide chese family ki potav ani expectations raise chesedi basically intlo family ney. That could be reason this is default expectation that guy should be more capable than woman. 
 

Masters girls ani generalize chesi i don't want to answer but i will tell about myself.

1.  Ekkada US ki vachi life nerchukuntam h1 mida vachina vallaki Masters chesina abbayilaki jameen asmaan difference untundi attitude lo. Nenu independent ammayini and nenu ippudu kukka ni chusi pandi anamante chala kashta padata oppukodaniki just because my husband said so. I will confront and say adi kukka not pandi but adi issue avutundi.  I am not generalizing every guy but H1 mida vachina abbayilaki ammayilu chala chala submissive ga undali and costco lo mac and cheese konukodaniki kuda permissions kavali even if woman is working alanti pathetic life nenu batakalenu. I know my limits to independence but ila mari too much submissive for 10$ permissions bharinchalenu.

2.  I am scared that i will have ego issues if i marry a guy who didn't do masters though i dont value masters degree as much. Its a piece of paper anthe. Kopam lo repu kottukunte kharma kali nuvventi naku cheppedi ani if i lose my tongue ...ayipoyindi male ego hurt ayyi next adi extreme level ki ekkadiki potundo teledu. That's something i should never ever utter in life so better don't be in that situation. 

3. Inferiority complex unte guy ki kuda chala issues vastayi. Oka ammayi endulo excel ayina own husband aey chudaledu after a point. So its always better to marry a guy who is equally educated or more educated than you. This applies to job also. Being smarter than husband if your husband is not broad minded will create problem one day,

4. I get attracted and impressed with a guy who is more smarter and intelligent than me as i have something interesting to talk or learn from him. I like to have intellectual conversations. I am totally fine to watch sports with him or even play.  Ippudu intlo kuchoni serials chuse type ammayini kadu nenu. H1 mida vachina vallaki saving concept tappa enjoy cheyadam radu but naku having quality life is important. Nenu oka trip ki veldam ante chances of MS guy taking is 90 % vs H1 guy which is 10% . Ivi chusi cheptunna observations. 

5.  Masters guys usually life lo bane kashtalu padi untaru so spouse ni kuda ardham chesukuntaru when they have issues and more understanding of women ani na feeling. DB lo ala kanapadadu kani bayata chusi thats my impression. 

6. Ikkada konni years unna vallu bane help chestaru women ki intlo unlike in India. They take care of kids and treat their wives well.  They are wonderful fathers too. I would like to have a person who is a good father to my kids, plan their education etc etc. Usually MS chesina vallu money kanna education ki value istaru and have a vision about kids future etc so lean towards them.

PS: Exceptions undachu edi na opinion.

no words

 

[Chinna_123]

On 9/24/2018 at 10:35 PM, Amrita said:

@TampaBangaram

Ages nunchi man was provider and woman was a dependent so eppudu ammayini tana kanna better ga unna abbayi key ivvadam jarigindi. Princess ni kuda antakanna pedda rajyam prince key icharu so that's general mindset in family while raising a daughter. Mana kanna manchi family loki better ga provide chese family ki potav ani expectations raise chesedi basically intlo family ney. That could be reason this is default expectation that guy should be more capable than woman. 
 

Masters girls ani generalize chesi i don't want to answer but i will tell about myself.

1.  Ekkada US ki vachi life nerchukuntam h1 mida vachina vallaki Masters chesina abbayilaki jameen asmaan difference untundi attitude lo. Nenu independent ammayini and nenu ippudu kukka ni chusi pandi anamante chala kashta padata oppukodaniki just because my husband said so. I will confront and say adi kukka not pandi but adi issue avutundi.  I am not generalizing every guy but H1 mida vachina abbayilaki ammayilu chala chala submissive ga undali and costco lo mac and cheese konukodaniki kuda permissions kavali even if woman is working alanti pathetic life nenu batakalenu. I know my limits to independence but ila mari too much submissive for 10$ permissions bharinchalenu.

2.  I am scared that i will have ego issues if i marry a guy who didn't do masters though i dont value masters degree as much. Its a piece of paper anthe. Kopam lo repu kottukunte kharma kali nuvventi naku cheppedi ani if i lose my tongue ...ayipoyindi male ego hurt ayyi next adi extreme level ki ekkadiki potundo teledu. That's something i should never ever utter in life so better don't be in that situation. 

3. Inferiority complex unte guy ki kuda chala issues vastayi. Oka ammayi endulo excel ayina own husband aey chudaledu after a point. So its always better to marry a guy who is equally educated or more educated than you. This applies to job also. Being smarter than husband if your husband is not broad minded will create problem one day,

4. I get attracted and impressed with a guy who is more smarter and intelligent than me as i have something interesting to talk or learn from him. I like to have intellectual conversations. I am totally fine to watch sports with him or even play.  Ippudu intlo kuchoni serials chuse type ammayini kadu nenu. H1 mida vachina vallaki saving concept tappa enjoy cheyadam radu but naku having quality life is important. Nenu oka trip ki veldam ante chances of MS guy taking is 90 % vs H1 guy which is 10% . Ivi chusi cheptunna observations. 

5.  Masters guys usually life lo bane kashtalu padi untaru so spouse ni kuda ardham chesukuntaru when they have issues and more understanding of women ani na feeling. DB lo ala kanapadadu kani bayata chusi thats my impression. 

6. Ikkada konni years unna vallu bane help chestaru women ki intlo unlike in India. They take care of kids and treat their wives well.  They are wonderful fathers too. I would like to have a person who is a good father to my kids, plan their education etc etc. Usually MS chesina vallu money kanna education ki value istaru and have a vision about kids future etc so lean towards them.

PS: Exceptions undachu edi na opinion.

Makes sense..

[Chinna_123]

On 9/24/2018 at 10:56 PM, Amrita said:

1.  They think India lo ammayilu pativratas and MS girls are not.

2. MS ammayila Independence ni they cant take it India ammayi ayite submssive ga untundi mold chesukovachu ani feeling. -- This is myth. Ila india ammailani  chesukoni divorce ivvaleka batakaleka edustunna friends nake unnaru. Sadistic on my part but for what they commented on MS girls i felt bagaindi.

3.  Shortage of girls. Ratio of men coming to US vs women was/is always less.

4. Most are committed so lack of availability.

5.  They lack skill to find a gf here so only option is to find from India. Ofcourse very good guys ayyundachu too that they want to do only arranged marriage but hard to believe this case.

I might be totally wrong though. 

Getting a sense from ur posts and as u said ur looking for a guy to get married. 

Since ur also in US and did not have a bf until should we also feel that u lack the basic skill to find a boy friend??