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Is it good to have 1 kid or 2 kids with moderate Income?


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24 minutes ago, Amrita said:

16/18 is chala expectation. Ikkada High school kids ala matladutunnaro chudu halwa oka sari. 

Also pillalu chustaru chestaru ani pillalni evaru kanaru parents have kids because they want to experience the motherhood and fatherhood. Vallaki kavalani a happiness kantaru. Parents moham chudani pillalu mundu generations lo kuda bane examples unnayi percentages takkuva anthe. 

Ayina next generation enduku manam em chustunnam mana parents ni? Visitors visa mida teppinchukoni phone calls lo manage aey ga chestunnam? Manam cheyanidi manaki ala chestarani expect chestam at the first place? Parents ni chudadam ante vallu poye 1 yr mundu velli cheyadam chudadam kadu valla old age lo support ga extended period of time undadam. We already show ourselves as worst examples for our kids. 

16/18 is the maximum age. I have seen with many desi parents that they still expect a lot out of their kids. It was a phenomenan while we wer egrowing up but its a different society and a different time...ipatiki kdua edo expect chesi pillalni ni kante kastame....

kids and while they are growing up, is a beautiful phase. 

Indian parents in USA, kastha realise ayyi...they should provide the kids with what they want the most, basic sense of living and realisation of dangers...edo pillal kosam ani 500k jama chesi pettadam, college fees ki ani 250k savings cheyadam...pillalu chaduvu kuni successful avadam, adi parents anukunattu...lekapothey feel avadam, badhapadadam....ivi kastha taggichukovali...\thinsg have changed...alavatlu maripoinayi...acharalu maripoinayi...kani parents expectations matram maradam ledu....

a clarity vunte, 2 or 3 kids dosent make any difference..

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kids drugs etc. joliki pokunda unte adhe ekkuva.. doctor avvali inkedo avvali ante vallani torture cheyadam thappa em undadhu..

please stop hanging out with GC uncles..also who caem before 2006 ..valla advice vinte pichi ekudhi..brahmilaughing.gif

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Just now, Android_Halwa said:

16/18 is the maximum age. I have seen with many desi parents that they still expect a lot out of their kids. It was a phenomenan while we wer egrowing up but its a different society and a different time...ipatiki kdua edo expect chesi pillalni ni kante kastame....

kids and while they are growing up, is a beautiful phase. 

Indian parents in USA, kastha realise ayyi...they should provide the kids with what they want the most, basic sense of living and realisation of dangers...edo pillal kosam ani 500k jama chesi pettadam, college fees ki ani 250k savings cheyadam...pillalu chaduvu kuni successful avadam, adi parents anukunattu...lekapothey feel avadam, badhapadadam....ivi kastha taggichukovali...\thinsg have changed...alavatlu maripoinayi...acharalu maripoinayi...kani parents expectations matram maradam ledu....

a clarity vunte, 2 or 3 kids dosent make any difference..

 

Just now, karthikn said:

kids drugs etc. joliki pokunda unte adhe ekkuva.. doctor avvali inkedo avvali ante vallani torture cheyadam thappa em undadhu..

please stop hanging out with GC uncles..also who caem before 2006 ..valla advice vinte pichi ekudhi..brahmilaughing.gif

ippudu puttina kids ki already university lo bachelors credits konadam.. aallaki dooranga undali 

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29 minutes ago, karthikn said:

 

ippudu puttina kids ki already university lo bachelors credits konadam.. aallaki dooranga undali 

I have actually seen couple of such cases...one vuncle working very hard and buying homes so that his 3 year old kid can grow up and have good money so that the kid can go to good university and get good grades...

its a good thing...but it doesn’t match the society they are in..

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37 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

16/18 is the maximum age. I have seen with many desi parents that they still expect a lot out of their kids. It was a phenomenan while we wer egrowing up but its a different society and a different time...ipatiki kdua edo expect chesi pillalni ni kante kastame....

kids and while they are growing up, is a beautiful phase. 

Indian parents in USA, kastha realise ayyi...they should provide the kids with what they want the most, basic sense of living and realisation of dangers...edo pillal kosam ani 500k jama chesi pettadam, college fees ki ani 250k savings cheyadam...pillalu chaduvu kuni successful avadam, adi parents anukunattu...lekapothey feel avadam, badhapadadam....ivi kastha taggichukovali...\thinsg have changed...alavatlu maripoinayi...acharalu maripoinayi...kani parents expectations matram maradam ledu....

a clarity vunte, 2 or 3 kids dosent make any difference..

Agree to rest but bold.  clarity leka kanaru ishtam undi kantaru.  I will have 3 kids with no expectation that they will see me but i still want to have that fun of having three kids and gola at home. Anni pagalakodutu kottukuntu adukuntu.. i want to experience that sandadi at home till they are at least in middle school though it might get challenging after that.

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6 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Agree to rest but bold.  clarity leka kanaru ishtam undi kantaru.  I will have 3 kids with no expectation that they will see me but i still want to have that fun of having three kids and gola at home. Anni pagalakodutu kottukuntu adukuntu.. i want to experience that sandadi at home till they are at least in middle school though it might get challenging after that.

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Min 2 vundali vayya; pillalaki calculations, planning,budget endi. Alanti mahanubhavulni chooste jaalestundi.

Manathopate tintaru vuntaru. Basic education good food and manners nerpisthe chaalu. Edo peekalani Stanford lo chadavalani manam expect chesi, chaala dabbulu dachi...vaadilo vunna talent ni champesi, enduko asalu ee jeevitham. No calculations Just enjoy happily

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