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14 hours ago, eleven11 said:

Hi everybody,

 

want to share my story. I come from a pretty low income family, kashtapadi engg chadukunna, I got married this year , I was excited to begin a new life. Wanted to be this perfect wife/partner/friend with my  husband but all those dreams came to an end.  maa Madhya prema ledhu,  very unresponsive, disoriented asalu marriage life meeda interest unda ledha telidu. annitiki discourage chesthadu,  ye pani lo help cheyadu, maa intlo vallani thidthadu, inka ila chala issues unnayeee

Nenu maa pelli kosam naa campus placement vadileskoni ikkadiki vacha( chepputho kottukovali nannu, Akkada career ledhu, ikkada US lo em cheyalo telidhu) bothiga alochinchaledhu. I have this bad habit of running away from things, Now im paying. entho bathimalithe EAD apply chesadu, I want to separate from him, nenu ilanti life bathakalenu , 2019 December varaku naa visa valid undhi, I want to work , earn some money and go back, financial ga independent ga undali ankuntunna.

 Please daya chesi , ikkada unna experts naaku guidance isthara? I want to learn java,  nenu oka 2 months lo job ready undali ( I will work hard), oka plan / recommended videos/ tutorials emyna unte please cheppandi.

I cry everyday kani ika chalu ankunna, edo okati earn chesi , parents ni take care cheyali, india vellipoyi kuda job cheskunta, elagolaga job techukovali. gundelo baadha undhi, kopam undhi, depress avakunda life sarina margam lo pettali ankuntunna.

thank you for your help every1

financial ga independent ga undaali anukuntunna...this thought is enough or root cause of your evils..

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13 hours ago, eleven11 said:

Hi everybody,

 

want to share my story. I come from a pretty low income family, kashtapadi engg chadukunna, I got married this year , I was excited to begin a new life. Wanted to be this perfect wife/partner/friend with my  husband but all those dreams came to an end.  maa Madhya prema ledhu,  very unresponsive, disoriented asalu marriage life meeda interest unda ledha telidu. annitiki discourage chesthadu,  ye pani lo help cheyadu, maa intlo vallani thidthadu, inka ila chala issues unnayeee

Nenu maa pelli kosam naa campus placement vadileskoni ikkadiki vacha( chepputho kottukovali nannu, Akkada career ledhu, ikkada US lo em cheyalo telidhu) bothiga alochinchaledhu. I have this bad habit of running away from things, Now im paying. entho bathimalithe EAD apply chesadu, I want to separate from him, nenu ilanti life bathakalenu , 2019 December varaku naa visa valid undhi, I want to work , earn some money and go back, financial ga independent ga undali ankuntunna.

 Please daya chesi , ikkada unna experts naaku guidance isthara? I want to learn java,  nenu oka 2 months lo job ready undali ( I will work hard), oka plan / recommended videos/ tutorials emyna unte please cheppandi.

I cry everyday kani ika chalu ankunna, edo okati earn chesi , parents ni take care cheyali, india vellipoyi kuda job cheskunta, elagolaga job techukovali. gundelo baadha undhi, kopam undhi, depress avakunda life sarina margam lo pettali ankuntunna.

thank you for your help every1

Emey Donga Munda... nee musali kaneellatho janala sympathy gain chestunava...  aadallotha jagrattaga undali... asalu naadaniki ledu le.  If you have guts, talk the about it with your husband, be 100% in marriage or get divorce... and do all your bs acts. 

 

Anni telise vachi untav ga USA ki. You know you have to leave your career in India if you move to USA. If you didn’t want it why did you agree for the marriage proposal on the first place. USA tiriginv tinnava ... Ipudu USA bore kottinanka kathal dobbutunnava sympathy words lower middle class, no love etc. unless there is GC, everybody’s life in USA is uncertain and this is your husband’s case too. Nee mogudi case kuda vinnaka gani cheppalem nuvvu entha Kanthri danivo. Nee mogidini tho vachina eas tho pysal sampadinchi new parents ki petti... nuvvu USA nundi dobbesthe, nee mogudu vp laga chustu kurchovala. Nuvvu ilanti donga mundavi Ani mee husband ki artham ayyo neeku ead apply chesi undadu. Was apply cheyagane nee asalu rangu bayatapadindi. 

nee husband kukka laga pani chestuntadu to lead a decent family life. Nuvvu Intlo kusoni, ikkada internet lo nee plan b workout chestunav. Emanale ninnu. 

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14 hours ago, eleven11 said:

Hi everybody,

 

want to share my story. I come from a pretty low income family, kashtapadi engg chadukunna, I got married this year , I was excited to begin a new life. Wanted to be this perfect wife/partner/friend with my  husband but all those dreams came to an end.  maa Madhya prema ledhu,  very unresponsive, disoriented asalu marriage life meeda interest unda ledha telidu. annitiki discourage chesthadu,  ye pani lo help cheyadu, maa intlo vallani thidthadu, inka ila chala issues unnayeee

Nenu maa pelli kosam naa campus placement vadileskoni ikkadiki vacha( chepputho kottukovali nannu, Akkada career ledhu, ikkada US lo em cheyalo telidhu) bothiga alochinchaledhu. I have this bad habit of running away from things, Now im paying. entho bathimalithe EAD apply chesadu, I want to separate from him, nenu ilanti life bathakalenu , 2019 December varaku naa visa valid undhi, I want to work , earn some money and go back, financial ga independent ga undali ankuntunna.

 Please daya chesi , ikkada unna experts naaku guidance isthara? I want to learn java,  nenu oka 2 months lo job ready undali ( I will work hard), oka plan / recommended videos/ tutorials emyna unte please cheppandi.

I cry everyday kani ika chalu ankunna, edo okati earn chesi , parents ni take care cheyali, india vellipoyi kuda job cheskunta, elagolaga job techukovali. gundelo baadha undhi, kopam undhi, depress avakunda life sarina margam lo pettali ankuntunna.

thank you for your help every1

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1 minute ago, AppatloBhutto said:

Emey Donga Munda... nee musali kaneellatho janala sympathy gain chestunava...  aadallotha jagrattaga undali... asalu naadaniki ledu le.  If you have guts, talk the about it with your husband, be 100% in marriage or get divorce... and do all your bs acts. 

 

Anni telise vachi untav ga USA ki. You know you have to leave your career in India if you move to USA. If you didn’t want it why did you agree for the marriage proposal on the first place. USA tiriginv tinnava ... Ipudu USA bore kottinanka kathal dobbutunnava sympathy words lower middle class, no love etc. unless there is GC, everybody’s life in USA is uncertain and this is your husband’s case too. Nee mogudi case kuda vinnaka gani cheppalem nuvvu entha Kanthri danivo. Nee mogidini tho vachina eas tho pysal sampadinchi new parents ki petti... nuvvu USA nundi dobbesthe, nee mogudu vp laga chustu kurchovala. Nuvvu ilanti donga mundavi Ani mee husband ki artham ayyo neeku ead apply chesi undadu. Was apply cheyagane nee asalu rangu bayatapadindi. 

nee husband kukka laga pani chestuntadu to lead a decent family life. Nuvvu Intlo kusoni, ikkada internet lo nee plan b workout chestunav. Emanale ninnu. 

litle harsh but what you said is true

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5 minutes ago, Veeraveera said:

Baga violent fellow vi brah nuvvu. Konchem flowers ni, comedy ni chudu. 

Okay baa. 

Nee pellam epudaina nee venaka  ilanti plan B lu workout chestunte nuvvu kuda realize avtav. 

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43 minutes ago, Android_Halwa said:

@eleven11

EAD vunna...vuntado peekutado telvadu..anavasaramina kotlatalu petukuni, EAD tarvata, 2019 tarvata work chese option lekapothey inka worst situation lo vuntav.....

Go with an average...ipudu dukan teristhe, nuv sadivi , EAD apply chesi, adi vachi, jeetham ekkke varaku 6 months...ante mid 2019 esuko...atarvata niku entha time vundi...h1b evarana sponsor chestara...EAD peeki dobbithe situation endi...

avann idisey.,..mee ayina ki 2019 varaku vunatu vundi h1b...extension emana kirkiri aithe endi katha ?

possibilities endi...anavasaramaina women empowerment chusi rechipothe, neeke talkaya noppi ekuvaitadi...jara susuko,a agey peeche dekho...

vuuu.  fire the fire 

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Aadadi help adaggane nijaali telsukokunda sollu kaarchukuntu help cheyadaniki egabade maga vedhavalu unnathakalam ee aadollu ilanti dongamunda evvaraalu nadipisthane untaru. 

 

Every body out there who advised her, imagine your wife was doing this plan b. Tell me your reactions. I really want to hear   

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Just now, AppatloBhutto said:

Aadadi help adaggane nijaali telsukokunda sollu kaarchukuntu help cheyadaniki egabade maga vedhavalu unnathakalam ee aadollu ilanti dongamunda evvaraalu nadipisthane untaru. 

 

Every body out there who advised her, imagine your wife was doing this plan b. Tell me your reactions. I really want to hear   

okkadu kuda itu side tirigi kuda chudadu...

free ga advice iyandi vaa ante egurukuntu vachestaru...

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14 hours ago, eleven11 said:

Hi everybody,

 

want to share my story. I come from a pretty low income family, kashtapadi engg chadukunna, I got married this year , I was excited to begin a new life. Wanted to be this perfect wife/partner/friend with my  husband but all those dreams came to an end.  maa Madhya prema ledhu,  very unresponsive, disoriented asalu marriage life meeda interest unda ledha telidu. annitiki discourage chesthadu,  ye pani lo help cheyadu, maa intlo vallani thidthadu, inka ila chala issues unnayeee

Nenu maa pelli kosam naa campus placement vadileskoni ikkadiki vacha( chepputho kottukovali nannu, Akkada career ledhu, ikkada US lo em cheyalo telidhu) bothiga alochinchaledhu. I have this bad habit of running away from things, Now im paying. entho bathimalithe EAD apply chesadu, I want to separate from him, nenu ilanti life bathakalenu , 2019 December varaku naa visa valid undhi, I want to work , earn some money and go back, financial ga independent ga undali ankuntunna.

 Please daya chesi , ikkada unna experts naaku guidance isthara? I want to learn java,  nenu oka 2 months lo job ready undali ( I will work hard), oka plan / recommended videos/ tutorials emyna unte please cheppandi.

I cry everyday kani ika chalu ankunna, edo okati earn chesi , parents ni take care cheyali, india vellipoyi kuda job cheskunta, elagolaga job techukovali. gundelo baadha undhi, kopam undhi, depress avakunda life sarina margam lo pettali ankuntunna.

thank you for your help every1

pelli aai one year kaledu... appude compalint vidipovatam... aa vidpovatam kuda full ga nakesi vidpodam ani planning... nee lanti danini tatukuntunaduku.. vadiki danda vesi dandam petali..

if you really have any selfrespect.. just take divorce and get the fucck  out of his life..

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19 minutes ago, soodhilodaaram said:

financial ga independent ga undaali anukuntunna...this thought is enough or root cause of your evils..

Idi pakka donga Munda. Why? Because she is getting dad with husband help and giving a middle finger to him. 

 

Slow claps to you donga Munda. You don’t deserve that marriage. Pass on My sympathies to your husband. If you can. 

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