Did any one married without dowry?

[Amrita]

On 12/31/2018 at 11:22 AM, summer27 said:

How do u felt when you need to stay in poor in laws home?

There are not poor. Like I said they are lower middle class. Velithe kadupu nindi tindi pettagalaru. Oka 1 (hall + room+kitchen) bedroom own house undi chinnadi, chinna town lo. Evaru vellina maryada ga matladataru. Good people. Nenu allunni kabatti konchem maryada ekkuva istaru.. They have two cots. I let elders sleep on them. I gnereally prefer to sleep on floor. My dad too sleeps on floor (folding bed) at his age, 70. So my mom or anyone else who has knee pains, etc, we let them sleep on cot. Rest sleep on floor with folding bed, nice blanket etc.,

E pandako pabaniko oka 5 days vundalsi vasthay

Full ga tindi pedataru, saradaga matladukuntam. Ekkadikina gullu, gopuralaki, cinema ko, park ko velatam.. What else are you expecting?

and and your kids enjoy chesara?

What do you mean by this? Kids enjoy cheyyataniki dabbuki enti relation? Kids ki manchi food petti,  oka bat, ball isthe chalu njoy cheyyataniki, kids adukotaniki other kids or parents, grand parents unte chalu kada.. why do they need money?

Btw me wife intlo ne respect perigindhi

Enduku perugutundi? enduku peragali? Normal gaa alludiki entha maryada istaro anthe..ekkuva respect, takkuva respect undadu. 

what abour her respect in your family?

Again, why woudn't my family respect her. I like her, and they know it. She takes care of them well, What has it got to do with money. 

Looking at these questions - I believe you are completely confused between, money, respect and happiness. These are not related to each other. 

 

[Peddayana]

On 12/31/2018 at 1:22 PM, summer27 said:

How do u felt when you need to stay in poor in laws home?

There are not poor. Like I said they are lower middle class. Velithe kadupu nindi tindi pettagalaru. Oka 1 (hall + room+kitchen) bedroom own house undi chinnadi, chinna town lo. Evaru vellina maryada ga matladataru. Good people. Nenu allunni kabatti konchem maryada ekkuva istaru.. They have two cots. I let elders sleep on them. I gnereally prefer to sleep on floor. My dad too sleeps on floor (folding bed) at his age, 70. So my mom or anyone else who has knee pains, etc, we let them sleep on cot. Rest sleep on floor with folding bed, nice blanket etc.,

E pandako pabaniko oka 5 days vundalsi vasthay

Full ga tindi pedataru, saradaga matladukuntam. Ekkadikina gullu, gopuralaki, cinema ko, park ko velatam.. What else are you expecting?

and and your kids enjoy chesara?

What do you mean by this? Kids enjoy cheyyataniki dabbuki enti relation? Kids ki manchi food petti,  oka bat, ball isthe chalu njoy cheyyataniki, kids adukotaniki other kids or parents, grand parents unte chalu kada.. why do they need money?

Btw me wife intlo ne respect perigindhi

Enduku perugutundi? enduku peragali? Normal gaa alludiki entha maryada istaro anthe..ekkuva respect, takkuva respect undadu. 

what abour her respect in your family?

Again, why woudn't my family respect her. I like her, and they know it. She takes care of them well, What has it got to do with money. 

Looking at these questions - I believe you are completely confused between, money, respect and happiness. These are not related to each other. 

 

chala similarities unnayi bro naa story ki nee story ki , my inlaws are middle class , I didn't take dowry , they have a small home , akkada enni rojulu unna baga choose varu

[vendettaa]

pelli annaka katnalu tappavu

[Thanos]

Just now, vendettaa said:

pelli annaka katnalu tappavu

not always

[vendettaa]

1 minute ago, Thanos said:

not always

adagakapoyna istaru but adigi cheap cheskokudadu

[Thanos]

Just now, vendettaa said:

adagakapoyna istaru but adigi cheap cheskokudadu

correct , if they give its ok , but adukkovatam kante cheap pani ledu

[The_One_Above_All]

6 minutes ago, Thanos said:

correct , if they give its ok , but adukkovatam kante cheap pani ledu

agree ba , my philosophy too

[summer27]

21 hours ago, vendettaa said:

adagakapoyna istaru but adigi cheap cheskokudadu

 

21 hours ago, Thanos said:

correct , if they give its ok , but adukkovatam kante cheap pani ledu

It is about time, people to stop taking it, even if in-laws offer without asking, at least at marriage time.

Pelli ayyi, 5-10 years taruvata ivvadam OR in-laws aasthi pamakallo ichinappudu ok kaani, dowry laaga marriage time lo teesukovadam aapali. Lekapothe ee system eppatiki podu. 

[Spartan]

teskole..and didnt expect..

 

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39 minutes ago, summer27 said:

 

It is about time, people to stop taking it, even if in-laws offer without asking, at least at marriage time.

Pelli ayyi, 5-10 years taruvata ivvadam OR in-laws aasthi pamakallo ichinappudu ok kaani, dowry laaga marriage time lo teesukovadam aapali. Lekapothe ee system eppatiki podu. 

Well said true !! Amayilu koda pedavani chesukovali...atha mamma asthi medha kannu padakodadhu...

Anadamulu koda pellala mata vini asthi kosam godava pertukokodhadhu

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9 minutes ago, Spartan said:

teskole..and didnt expect..

 

Yem papam😆

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22 hours ago, vendettaa said:

adagakapoyna istaru but adigi cheap cheskokudadu

Yenduku adugutharu mediator ki ichinapudu anni chebutharu ga yem ivagalamo.. ila katnala concept lekapothay nalla ga andavihinanga vunna amayiki pellilu kavu brothe

[Spartan]

Just now, whatsapp said:

Yem papam😆

ammai nachindi cheskunna...dabbu enduku malli.

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27 minutes ago, Spartan said:

ammai nachindi cheskunna...dabbu enduku malli.

Ne andam kosam amayi...ne pillalu manavalla andam kosam dabbu

[Undavalli]

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