Chinna dharma sadheham

[samaja_varagamana]

Just now, Amrita said:

Ni mata vinte ante inka govindarpanam. 

nenu geetha govindham anukunane 

[Amrita]

Just now, Paidithalli said:

Naku ee 💔 malli thattukodam ishtam ledhu ..

Adhe main reason .. bayapadadaniki ayina .. vodhalakunda undadaniki ayina .. August lo  father retirement . So happiness ni ivvakapoyina parledhu kani ... na valla badha padadam endhuku ani anthe .. nenu match cancel chesthe close relatives e kadha ... meedha padtharu. Actually I don’t have any options also 

Option lenappudu dont think and do your best to make it work. Asalu oka manishi nachakapovadam em undadu preminchadaniki oka point chalu unless they are people who dont give a  to you. Try Paidi. 

[Staysafebro]

2 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Naku ee 💔 malli thattukodam ishtam ledhu ..

Adhe main reason .. bayapadadaniki ayina .. vodhalakunda undadaniki ayina .. August lo  father retirement . So happiness ni ivvakapoyina parledhu kani ... na valla badha padadam endhuku ani anthe .. nenu match cancel chesthe close relatives e kadha ... meedha padtharu. Actually I don’t have any options also 

She has already judged you on your previous relationship bro. Move on.

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, samaja_varagamana said:

nenu geetha govindham anukunane 

Ayite tappu anukunnav 

[Paidithalli]

9 minutes ago, Amrita said:

1 week kaledu ex gurinchi thread padi thammi. Evariki cheppakkarledu but be honest to yourself and your heart . 1st lo sync kanidi eppadiki kadu usually.  Pelli ayite we value marriage and stay but its never a compatible relationship . Manushulu pelli ayinantha matrana mararu ah expectation tappu. we should accept the other person as they are and compromise mutually  to make it work. Its a continuous on going effort all life.  Think and enter wed lock.  My two cents !

Present relationship bagunte Ex call chesthe endhuku lift chestha akka ...

ethics , values manaki undali ante dhaniki antha strong ga nilabade reasons undali . Prema anedhi ekkada dhorikithe akkada nenu pakshila valipotha... aa chettu modibarindhi ayithe kokila la kusthu vasanthanni ahwanistha...Anthekani sahaja siddhamayina premani  champukoni mugabonu

[Paidithalli]

4 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Option lenappudu dont think and do your best to make it work. Asalu oka manishi nachakapovadam em undadu preminchadaniki oka point chalu unless they are people who dont give a  to you. Try Paidi. 

Kani ala chikkukupoyi inka depression Loki pothanemo ani bayam . Anthe

iddharu different kind of ppl kalisi lifelong pelli cheskoni happy ga untaro ledho teliyadhu kani .. best friends la untaremo. Thanantho nenem ayina share cheskunta.. thanu kuda anthe .. kani 

aa friendzone dhati evaram mundhukellakapoyam

[Amrita]

6 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Present relationship bagunte Ex call chesthe endhuku lift chestha akka ...

ethics , values manaki undali ante dhaniki antha strong ga nilabade reasons undali . Prema anedhi ekkada dhorikithe akkada nenu pakshila valipotha... aa chettu modibarindhi ayithe kokila la kusthu vasanthanni ahwanistha...Anthekani sahaja siddhamayina premani  champukoni mugabonu

Correct but you are not in right state of mind.  These are two different things. Ni present relationship balekapote ex to matladadam is not justified. Thats cheating. Call off present marriage then or cut ex and try to mend this relationship. Pelli ayyaka balekapote kuda inko ammayi deggariki velthava prema kosam? Chala tappu paidi ela thinking. You are just passing time postponing your issues. Man up and solve them. Enta postpone cheste problems anta worst situation and pressure nike create avutundi. Think make a decision and stand by it. Amma akka nanna kosam pellillu chesukoni kapuralu cheyadam practically kashtam. Manasu ki nachakunda next 40-50 yrs oka manishito batakaleru. External factors kadu first realize what you want and go for it.  Sorry if i hurt you. 

[Paidithalli]

7 minutes ago, Staysafebro said:

She has already judged you on your previous relationship bro. Move on.

🤔 nenu Cheppi thappu chesa ankunta kani ... aa pillani em anali ? Ammaile anthe ankunta .. few  don’t take it as lil thing ? 

[Paidithalli]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Correct but you are not in right state of mind.  These are two different things. Ni present relationship balekapote ex to matladadam is not justified. Thats cheating. Call off present marriage then or cut ex and try to mend this relationship. Pelli ayyaka balekapote kuda inko ammayi deggariki velthava prema kosam? Chala tappu paidi ela thinking. You are just passing time postponing your issues. Man up and solve them. Enta postpone cheste problems anta worst situation and pressure nike create avutundi. Think make a decision and stand by it. Amma akka nanna kosam pellillu chesukoni kapuralu cheyadam practically kashtam. Manasu ki nachakunda next 40-50 yrs oka manishito batakaleru. External factors kadu first realize what you want and go for it.  Sorry if i hurt you. 

Ex tho matladanu correct e .. but ipudu na alochanallo kuda thanu ledhu . Na only intention entante “andhari mundhu nenu drohi la nilabadakudadhu” ani anthe..

present dhi call off chesi .. Ex ni divorce theeskomani.. intlo vallani lite theeskoni.. Ex ni pelli cheskoni  US LO NENU. Happy gaa untanemo kani 4 families konni years patu chasthu bathakali.  Society ni nenu change cheyyalenu kadha .. small town adhi .. nannu entha bad ga ankunna parledhu kani .. families disturb avvadam ishtam ledhu . I don’t even have any second thought.. chala badha padina.. kumili poyina .. korivocchina premani kuda kadhanukunna.. endhukante samajam lo kondhari viluva natho poyedhi unte alantidhi naku voddhu ani 

 

[Amy99]

10 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Present relationship bagunte Ex call chesthe endhuku lift chestha akka ...

ethics , values manaki undali ante dhaniki antha strong ga nilabade reasons undali . Prema anedhi ekkada dhorikithe akkada nenu pakshila valipotha... aa chettu modibarindhi ayithe kokila la kusthu vasanthanni ahwanistha...Anthekani sahaja siddhamayina premani  champukoni mugabonu

ante...repu neku pelli ayipoyi...ne ex oh or new anmayi oh prema ani ninnu approach aythe vsalipothava ?  🙄

what is this ya...

em decide cheskunna pelli avvakamundhe decide avvu ( if pelli avvakapothe..) 

iddari lives spoil cheyaku...

[Staysafebro]

3 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

🤔 nenu Cheppi thappu chesa ankunta kani ... aa pillani em anali ? Ammaile anthe ankunta .. few  don’t take it as lil thing ? 

Was she in a relationship before? If not, it is an uphill battle right there. People who have not been in relationships are not oriented to accept people who were in relationships. 

Ammayilane kaadhu, abbayilu kooda.. mana culture lone ala undhi.. 

[tacobell fan]

essay writing contest pettukunnara? Google number okati register chesi conference call pettukondi. Matter 10 mins lo decide avvudhi. ikkada keyboards screw cheyyadam endhuku ado dabbulu bokka

[Amrita]

2 minutes ago, Paidithalli said:

Ex tho matladanu correct e .. but ipudu na alochanallo kuda thanu ledhu . Na only intention entante “andhari mundhu nenu drohi la nilabadakudadhu” ani anthe..

present dhi call off chesi .. Ex ni divorce theeskomani.. intlo vallani lite theeskoni.. Ex ni pelli cheskoni  US LO NENU. Happy gaa untanemo kani 4 families konni years patu chasthu bathakali.  Society ni nenu change cheyyalenu kadha .. small town adhi .. nannu entha bad ga ankunna parledhu kani .. families disturb avvadam ishtam ledhu . I don’t even have any second thought.. chala badha padina.. kumili poyina .. korivocchina premani kuda kadhanukunna.. endhukante samajam lo kondhari viluva natho poyedhi unte alantidhi naku voddhu ani 

 

Ex ni first out of equation pettu. Inko kapuram ni kulustava a ammayiki divorce ippinchi. She is someone's wife. Forget that she exists.

Na suggestion is call of this marriage if she is not in your heart. You are ruining her life too. Inka late cheyaku a ammayi hopes raise chesukunte chala chala badha padutundi . Give her a chance to move on too. 

Take an year break clear all the mess emotionally be ready for marriage and then look for another girl and marry.  Ippduu families tittina life long andaru badha padaru. Pelli chesukoni miru happy ga lekapote andaru life long badhapadataru including your kids .  Jeevitam baga alochinchukoni decision tesuko. Enni threads padina salahalu vastayi decisions nuvve tesukovali ni life lo. Pillala ata kadu few jeevitalaki sambandhinchindi. Nuvvu pelli ki not ready paidi iMO.

[Paidithalli]

Just now, Paidithalli said:

Ex tho matladanu correct e .. but ipudu na alochanallo kuda thanu ledhu . Na only intention entante “andhari mundhu nenu drohi la nilabadakudadhu” ani anthe..

present dhi call off chesi .. Ex ni divorce theeskomani.. intlo vallani lite theeskoni.. Ex ni pelli cheskoni  US LO NENU. Happy gaa untanemo kani 4 families konni years patu chasthu bathakali.  Society ni nenu change cheyyalenu kadha .. small town adhi .. nannu entha bad ga ankunna parledhu kani .. families disturb avvadam ishtam ledhu . I don’t even have any second thought.. chala badha padina.. kumili poyina .. korivocchina premani kuda kadhanukunna.. endhukante samajam lo kondhari viluva natho poyedhi unte alantidhi naku voddhu ani 

 

Inka current matter ki voddham ...

nenu chala sarlu cheppanu . First of all , ma madhya jarigina incidents memu bayataki cheppukokudadhu ani chala sarlu cheppina .. thanu dhaniki value ivvakudna babai family ki , valla parents ki ... idhi raccha ayyi ma parents ilage avthundhi . Godavalu endhuku ani konni months matladanu nenu .. thanaki same level lo ego .. thanu matladadhu. Naku assal ala thappulu etthi chupi.. discuss cheyyadam kuda ishtam undadhu .. kani em cheddham .. entha penta avvalo antha avthundhi . Nenu current ki value icchanu kabatti I stopped drinking. Manishi pakkana ledhu kadha ..  .. ayina nenu thagatledhu .. thaganu kuda... inka ye alavatlu lev.. doubts padadaniki .. 

manushulu bayata padaru akka .. alanti manushulu thagilithe rojuko cinema kanipisthadhi. Pelli cheskunnaka nuvvu korukune prema dhorkunthundhi ante ..nenu chala peddha risk chesthunnatte lekka kadha ? 

One n half year lo dhorakanidhedho pelli anedhi jarigithe dhorkuthundha ? 

Nakem ardham kadhu. Yes or No .. aa ammai turn theeskoni cheppali .. nenu endhuku cheppalenante .. na valla already chala mandhi badha paddaru.. foolish ga anipinchocchemo kani ..

60s lo unna parents ki nenu gnapakalu ivvakapoyina parledhu kani ... gayalu migalchakudadhu

[Paidithalli]

10 minutes ago, Amy99 said:

ante...repu neku pelli ayipoyi...ne ex oh or new anmayi oh prema ani ninnu approach aythe vsalipothava ?  🙄

what is this ya...

em decide cheskunna pelli avvakamundhe decide avvu ( if pelli avvakapothe..) 

iddari lives spoil cheyaku...

Naa uddhesham adhi kadhu le ... okari dhaggara love anedhi dhorikithe Vere vallu ane thought kuda radhu ... Assal akkada love anedhi pakkanapettu minimum concern kuda undadhu ..