Sending kid to India

[chicagosubbu]

Just now, Merabharathmahan said:

India ki send chesedunte definite ga Mother ni kooda send cheyali kid tho patu. Father dooram unna nadustadi babies ki but mother touch matram miss avvoddu especially small kids ki. Asalu Mother ela vidichi petti untadi man chinna kids ni vadilesi. husband edi chebithe adi chestara ladies? roju roju ki okanni chusi inkokaru tayaravutunnaru ee culture ki.  

If wife is career oriented or from rich family (more dowry ) . then big NO

[chicagosubbu]

2 minutes ago, Merabharathmahan said:

India ki send chesedunte definite ga Mother ni kooda send cheyali kid tho patu. Father dooram unna nadustadi babies ki but mother touch matram miss avvoddu especially small kids ki. Asalu Mother ela vidichi petti untadi man chinna kids ni vadilesi. husband edi chebithe adi chestara ladies? roju roju ki okanni chusi inkokaru tayaravutunnaru ee culture ki.  

One american nurse told me same thing , They feel more confident if the mom is around ani ...

[chicagosubbu]

9 minutes ago, user789 said:

+111111111 ...the only reason why they are sending is to save more money as some can't work while they raise kids..

If that is true, Our generation is hitting new low's

[user789]

6 minutes ago, chicagosubbu said:

Read the question kaka...

If women is careen oriented, Is it good idea to send kid to india ( meaning kid will grow with relatives) or Send them to day care.

 

if your wife is carrier oriented then both you learn to mange job and kids...she doesn't need to work all the year..or take 1 year break and work for a while...she can take few breaks and put them in day care..atleast u can spend time with kid in eve and weekends...

the only reason ppl are sending to relatives is to save money from day care...

[user789]

2 minutes ago, user789 said:

if your wife is carrier oriented then both you should learn to mange job and kids...she doesn't need to work all the year..or take 1 year break and work for a while...she can take few breaks and put them in day care while she's working.....atleast u can spend time with kid in eve and weekends...

the only reason ppl are sending to relatives is to save money from day care...

People have  left parents back home for money and now leaving kids. back home.Ppl can adopt a kid after 5-10 yrs..that way both parents must have saved a lot of money while upbringing in the first 5-10 yrs...you are doing a good thing by adopting too...

[Balibabu]

Neeku nachindi cheyy man

[user789]

1 hour ago, chicagosubbu said:

We can save eggs but we can not save age....

Wanted to have a debate about , How kids attitude will effect if the child grown away from parents ?

I have seen so many parents are doing it, No matter how worst your are but as a parent you always want to give best life to your kids.

Just trying to understand "why are they doing it?"

 

You will be his uncle and not dad...

[ennnna chata]

1 hour ago, chicagosubbu said:

Job vs Taking care of kids

Pls tell me pros and cons.

 

 

Don’t do kids are precious every moment is valuable nuvvu 1 month miss iethe you will miss many events in there life they grow very fast never ever send your kid away from you . Take physical pain and max ask parents to come 1 or 2 months and get some relief anthe kani dont send 

[Merabharathmahan]

1 hour ago, whatsapp said:

World is turning competitive, cash is king, H1B yentha kalam vuntundho telidu, Keep yourself the target of some amount, 

once you achieved that dont be greedy and enjoy with family either in 2 years or 3 years and spend rest of money with family. 

Eppudu emavutundo teliyadu brother. ilage okatanu first 10 years (after kid born), wife & husband iddaru full work chesi full sampadiddam ani kid ni 6 months ke india ki sent but after 5 years athaniki stroke ochi papam chanipoyadu. money and life ni balance chesi unnanni rojulu happy ga family tho spend cheyali. kids vs. wife job annappudu kids ke priority ivvali. 

[chicagosubbu]

17 minutes ago, Balibabu said:

Neeku nachindi cheyy man

Wow entha goppaka chepav kaka

[chicagosubbu]

1 minute ago, Merabharathmahan said:

Eppudu emavutundo teliyadu brother. ilage okatanu first 10 years (after kid born), wife husband iddaru full work chesi kid ni 6 months ke india ki sent but after 5 years athaniki stroke ochi papam chanipoyadu. money and life ni balance chesi unnanni rojulu happy ga family tho spend cheyali. kids vs. wife job annappudu kids ke priority ivvali. 

I am sure you are a good parent, Good luck 

[chicagosubbu]

 

17 minutes ago, ennnna chata said:

Don’t do kids are precious every moment is valuable nuvvu 1 month miss iethe you will miss many events in there life they grow very fast never ever send your kid away from you . Take physical pain and max ask parents to come 1 or 2 months and get some relief anthe kani dont send 

Agree...

[pahelwan]

Please don’t send kid to India they are innocent souls as a dad, I just can’t imagine my life with out my kid. You won’t get back the time if you want money then just. You will surely regret your decision 

[TOM_BHAYYA]

1 hour ago, Spartan said:

single day kuda kashtame nenaite..

Same here.. idhharu kids Intlo ne undalsindhe .. no sending India 

[chicagosubbu]

5 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Same here.. idhharu kids Intlo ne undalsindhe .. no sending India 

Not even Indian vacation to kids ?