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2 minutes ago, har_D_ick said:

I was in same situation and my little one is now 9 months. Snanam chepiyadam okkate problem

make sure u give very proper family time, usually office nundi rangane malli laptop on chesi timepass chestham try to avoid and help as much as you can . After 2 months day care. Trust me it will be best feeling in ur life

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1 minute ago, har_D_ick said:

I was in same situation and my little one is now 9 months. Snanam chepiyadam okkate problem

make sure u give very proper family time, usually office nundi rangane malli laptop on chesi timepass chestham try to avoid and help as much as you can . After 2 months day care. Trust me it will be best feeling in ur life

Congrats 

Yes. For bathing purpose , we  will use indian nanny service for sure atleast  2 months. for us, it is very difficult task.

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3 minutes ago, har_D_ick said:

I was in same situation and my little one is now 9 months. Snanam chepiyadam okkate problem

make sure u give very proper family time, usually office nundi rangane malli laptop on chesi timepass chestham try to avoid and help as much as you can . After 2 months day care. Trust me it will be best feeling in ur life

Congrats 

Hey bro after long time, how is baby doing and how is family ? 

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@Eswar_Eswar  congratulaitons..

dont worry...ikkada hospital lo mottam guide chetaru nurses..

how do u think women here manage...and learn without parents....

Nurses and hospital are very caring unlike India..

neeku 2-3 weeks WFH undi kabatti manage the home work..and let mother take care of baby...

everything should be fine...

dont listen to crap..where people say it will be tough and ...

u r the parents..and u will learn better...

off course peddalu unte baguntadi...but there are lot many people who dont have support...

 

ex @Pokiri_21  recent parent..

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1 minute ago, Spartan said:

@Eswar_Eswar  congratulaitons..

dont worry...ikkada hospital lo mottam guide chetaru nurses..

how do u think women here manage...and learn without parents....

Nurses and hospital are very caring unlike India..

neeku 2-3 weeks WFH undi kabatti manage the home work..and let mother take care of baby...

everything should be fine...

dont listen to crap..where people say it will be tough and ...

u r the parents..and u will learn better...

off course peddalu unte baguntadi...but there are lot many people who dont have support...

Thanks a lot bro. 

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1 hour ago, tacobell fan said:

House wife aithe problem undadhu its challenging to adopt to new life but alavatu ayyipodhi ani maa veterans @perugu_vada @Spartan  @psycopk uncles cheppamannaru

House wife aina kashtame ;) parents or in-laws unte atleast time ki food untundi, afternoon mom ki nap theskune chance untundi

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send her after delivery if needed -  after she gets better and you utilize your leaves. passport and visa ki oka 1.5 months padthundi if you expedite.

but i suggest you to spend as much time with baby in the first 1 or 2 years. they grow really fast and you will miss few phases.

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1 hour ago, Eswar_Eswar said:

Hi Friends,  wife delivery date is  on end of April  and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues.  

Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby.  

planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts

 

also if you are afraid get the services of a doula. they help mother with delivery and will take care of her

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Congrats. Wife not working ayithe manage cheseyachu. But u need to help her alot. Nenu work chesthunna motham mee wife chusukovali ante kashtam nee support unte no need to send them to india. Cook chei diapers change ofc nunchi vachaka mee wife ni rest thesukomanu 3-4hrs. Ask her to pump milk and keep it refrigerated so that thanu rest thesukunnapudu nuvve feed chesoyochu thanani disturb cheyakunda.and nu ft ayithe paternity leave untadi adhi baga use chesuko.

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2 hours ago, Eswar_Eswar said:

Hi Friends,  wife delivery date is  on end of April  and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues.  

Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby.  

planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts

 

don't send india for delivery. send mom & kid to india after delivery

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Easy kaadu bro. Mee relatives evarina vunte ask for help for 2 to 3 weeks. Bathing cheyinchadam difficult and initial gaa chaala doubts vuntayi first time parents ithe and mana parents easy gaa handle chestaru avi. Ask your friends help if needed.

2 weeks off and 3 weeks wfh antunnavu kaabatti konchem better. If it’s normal delivery then she can recover in a month to a position where she can start taking care of the baby. 

Nenu similar position lo vunna few months back and job changed around same time so naku Narakam anipinchindhi but it’s worth it. Don’t send to India now. Health wise ippudu pampadam risky 20 hours sitting ante and meeru entha warm chesi ichinaa baby ki it’s not same as US citizenship ani naa strong feeing. you can take her to India 3 months after delivery. 

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8 hours ago, Eswar_Eswar said:

Hi Friends,  wife delivery date is  on end of April  and parent-in laws visa rejected. Parents cant come due to health issues.  

Is it good idea to drop wife at home place India for delivery is good idea or not? If not going to India, how to handle new baby.  

planning to use indian nanny service. but don't know how reliable good in work . please share your thoughts

 

oKa 3 months brO..then u should be set

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