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  On 4/29/2019 at 3:44 AM, SnehamKosam said:

Agree with this.

I think you should try to appreciate any small help /compliment your husband gives you and ignore his sadistic comments.

If you are really not attractive to him, may be you can work on it, I mean getting in shape.

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Day 1 of marriage nundi I am trying to grab his attention but I couldn’t....over the years he broke my confidence so much that now I tell my friends that I am not beautiful and they scold me

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  On 4/29/2019 at 3:42 AM, Skates said:

And  yet u have a checklist in ur pocket..lol.jk.

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I don't have a check list in my pocket neither very keen on getting married. I may though if i meet a guy who meet my expectations  @3$%

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  On 4/29/2019 at 2:59 AM, Anushri said:

How to esacape from husbands sadistic behavior like 

snapping fingers many times while driving to scare me off...even though we didn’t had any argument...don’t know what reminded him

making faces as if he hates me and giving weird expressions.....saying things like you are fit for nothing, See your face in the mirror (he looks handsome)

I told my parents and in-laws many times about his behavior....I even told him that it hurts me very much but he is the same...I know I need to take him to counseling but he will not agree...I do not want to break my marriage for kids sake 

he is seriously having some kind of psychological issue which needs to be treated but don’t know how to do that

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I don't know who's having 'psychological issue' here

no sane person will stay in an abusive relationship.

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  On 4/29/2019 at 2:59 AM, Anushri said:

How to esacape from husbands sadistic behavior like 

snapping fingers many times while driving to scare me off...even though we didn’t had any argument...don’t know what reminded him

making faces as if he hates me and giving weird expressions.....saying things like you are fit for nothing, See your face in the mirror (he looks handsome)

I told my parents and in-laws many times about his behavior....I even told him that it hurts me very much but he is the same...I know I need to take him to counseling but he will not agree...I do not want to break my marriage for kids sake 

he is seriously having some kind of psychological issue which needs to be treated but don’t know how to do that

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  On 4/29/2019 at 2:59 AM, Anushri said:

How to esacape from husbands sadistic behavior like 

snapping fingers many times while driving to scare me off...even though we didn’t had any argument...don’t know what reminded him

making faces as if he hates me and giving weird expressions.....saying things like you are fit for nothing, See your face in the mirror (he looks handsome)

I told my parents and in-laws many times about his behavior....I even told him that it hurts me very much but he is the same...I know I need to take him to counseling but he will not agree...I do not want to break my marriage for kids sake 

he is seriously having some kind of psychological issue which needs to be treated but don’t know how to do that

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Doesn't look right in many ways and definitely you should not be in it out of pity/empathy or for kids. I believe kids would better off with separated parents as compared to people in an unhealthy marriage. But is he like this with others too or specifically you? Does he have any specific issues with you?

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  On 4/29/2019 at 3:49 AM, Anushri said:

Day 1 of marriage nundi I am trying to grab his attention but I couldn’t....over the years he broke my confidence so much that now I tell my friends that I am not beautiful and they scold me

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thanaki edhina painful past undha? Have you ever tried to talk?

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  On 4/29/2019 at 3:49 AM, Amrita said:

I don't have a check list in my pocket neither very keen on getting married. I may though if i meet a guy who meet my expectations  @3$%

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you should meet xeqtr for a coffee. who knows

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  On 4/29/2019 at 3:44 AM, SnehamKosam said:

Agree with this.

I think you should try to appreciate any small help /compliment your husband gives you and ignore his sadistic comments.

If you are really not attractive to him, may be you can work on it, I mean getting in shape.

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Haha.. attractive leka pothe husband's sadism justified?? 

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  On 4/29/2019 at 3:50 AM, E111 said:

I don't know who's having 'psychological issue' here

no sane person will stay in an abusive relationship.

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If it’s only me I would have got out but now I need to think about the impact it has on my kids 

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  On 4/29/2019 at 3:51 AM, xeqtr said:

Doesn't look right in many ways and definitely you should not be in it out of pity/empathy or for kids. I believe kids would better off with separated parents as compared to people in an unhealthy marriage. But is he like this with others too or specifically you? Does he have any specific issues with you?

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He has anger issues...sometimes he shouts on other people...not only me and kids 

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