Sadistic Behavior

[perugu_vada]

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[Anushri]

Just now, perugu_vada said:

Fevicol kakapothe bootycall, asalu matter odilesi 

.sorry...,i am feeling better after talking to all of you..even knowing everything there are times when I feel sad

I am waiting for the kids school to be over so that I can move them to different location...It’s better for us to live separate so that I will have more time to concentrate on kids than my husbands sadism 

[Anushri]

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[Anushri]

7 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

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[riashli]

3 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Take india away, as a matter of fact take asian countries away, then dating culture unna y in other countries ppl are getting married ? 

Marriage ye thappu ante i dont believe, yes, there are cases where one of the partners being the victims , remember we are talking about countless no of couples, so system ye thappu anatam may be over exaggeration, no 2 fingers or parts of human body will be alike, so a couple with 2 extreme tastes/choices/interests will take time n comprimise will lead to a happy family

U may b right but manam chusinde lokam anukuntam ga.. same with me

[perugu_vada]

1 minute ago, riashli said:

U may b right but manam chusinde lokam anukuntam ga.. same with me

Bad epudu gains more ppl’s attention, take ur deliverables at work as a prime example, u may/may not gain attention from ur upper mgmt for all the gud work u did, u screw up something, they will be all over u

reality kuda anthe, y do u think media is so interested now a days all over the world aboit controversies ? Bcos it gains ppl’s attention

so few cases chusi adhe lokam anukunte, antha ku minchi thappu inkoti undadu, 1 has to learn from one’s or other’s mistakes

[SnehamKosam]

14 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Who dont want to look attractive all the time man ? Reality is different, especially with kids, finding ME time is not easy, especially for Mom’s 

Nen bhi adhe antunna bossu. samasya parishkaram kavalante you need extra effort. Kurchoni badhapadithe kaadu kada. Being attractive is small part of the solution anna.

[riashli]

2 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Bad epudu gains more ppl’s attention, take ur deliverables at work as a prime example, u may/may not gain attention from ur upper mgmt for all the gud work u did, u screw up something, they will be all over u

reality kuda anthe, y do u think media is so interested now a days all over the world aboit controversies ? Bcos it gains ppl’s attention

so few cases chusi adhe lokam anukunte, antha ku minchi thappu inkoti undadu, 1 has to learn from one’s or other’s mistakes

What do u think can be solution then for such marriages?  May b it can help me 

[perugu_vada]

Just now, SnehamKosam said:

Nen bhi adhe antunna bossu. samasya parishkaram kavalante you need extra effort. Kurchoni badhapadithe kaadu kada. Being attractive is small part of the solution anna.

Pachi ga matladukunte, chuudani andham ah between married couple ? 

Yeah it may be an incentive, but for how long ? 

[perugu_vada]

Just now, riashli said:

What do u think can be solution then for such marriages?  May b it can help me 

Issue between couples aina, evaru aina, kuurchuni maatladukunte things will settle down, ego ki pothe who will be at loss ? Remember 1 thing always, mana kanna leni/kaani situations lo chala mandhi unnaru, ego clash ki poyi leni poni issues ni konu thechukovatam maanukunte everything will be fine

comprimise anedi undali 1st, again andhulo kuda turns petukunte just cant find the path to a successful family, time heals everything, just dont talk when there is heat around, ichina money venakki theskochu, anna maata ni u cant take it back, period

[riashli]

6 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Issue between couples aina, evaru aina, kuurchuni maatladukunte things will settle down, ego ki pothe who will be at loss ? Remember 1 thing always, mana kanna leni/kaani situations lo chala mandhi unnaru, ego clash ki poyi leni poni issues ni konu thechukovatam maanukunte everything will be fine

comprimise anedi undali 1st, again andhulo kuda turns petukunte just cant find the path to a successful family, time heals everything, just dont talk when there is heat around, ichina money venakki theskochu, anna maata ni u cant take it back, period

Emo le.. I have come to terms that nothing is gonna change.. u took time to explain 

[Rshiva]

1 hour ago, Anushri said:

How to esacape from husbands sadistic behavior like 

snapping fingers many times while driving to scare me off...even though we didn’t had any argument...don’t know what reminded him

making faces as if he hates me and giving weird expressions.....saying things like you are fit for nothing, See your face in the mirror (he looks handsome)

I told my parents and in-laws many times about his behavior....I even told him that it hurts me very much but he is the same...I know I need to take him to counseling but he will not agree...I do not want to break my marriage for kids sake 

he is seriously having some kind of psychological issue which needs to be treated but don’t know how to do that

If that is the case, try to understand in which category he falls under. May be talk to a discuss about your husband behavior with a  psychiatrist/therapist.  In that way you can get a rough idea in which spectrum he falls like NPD (huge entitlement and self obsession), BPD(impulsive moods caused  due to early child hood trauma) , Bi polar. you can also observe his personality traits. general ga psychiatrist eh cheppagalru ilanti cases lo.

[perugu_vada]

1 minute ago, riashli said:

Emo le.. I have come to terms that nothing is gonna change.. u took time to explain 

Naku Chepatam easy ,but  i dont know ur situation,

in general ga i said anthe  i am not gnaani who analysed every moving couple in this planet  

[Anushri]

1 minute ago, Rshiva said:

If that is the case, try to understand in which category he falls under. May be talk to a discuss about your husband behavior with a  psychiatrist/therapist.  In that way you can get a rough idea in which spectrum he falls like NPD (huge entitlement and self obsession), BPD(impulsive moods caused  due to early child hood trauma) , Bi polar. you can also observe his personality traits. general ga psychiatrist eh cheppagalru ilanti cases lo.

It’s really tough to take him to doctor...without him no psychiatrist will talk 

[Rshiva]

10 minutes ago, Anushri said:

It’s really tough to take him to doctor...without him no psychiatrist will talk 

oh! i see. Ala aithe koddiga kastam. But meeru individual ga meet avvochu emo kada.