disadvantages in getting married to green card holder

[Amy99]

8 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Hey chilipi, pasi gattesaav le

endhi ninnu thega aadukuntunnaru ne frnds....

[LastManStanding]

Just now, kevinUsa said:

cheputaru ante 

I really feel that he is not worth giving father of nation title 

 

Mana @perugu_vada uncle ki ivvali antava

[ekunadam_enkanna]

8 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

inka hypothesis lo ne unnara ??

Hypothesis generation takes 10 times more time than evaluating that hypothesis.

[Amy99]

5 minutes ago, tacobell fan said:

Nee pichi kakpothe, @perugu_vada uncle and peta bros okate ela avutharu? Ayina age enti maa age enti. Maa @BOT head @Idassamed chusthe inkemaina unda

em aythadhi? champesthara?

[kevinUsa]

2 minutes ago, ekunadam_enkanna said:

Hypothesis generation takes 10 times more time than evaluating that hypothesis.

oh!!!

[LastManStanding]

3 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

cheputaru ante 

I really feel that he is not worth giving father of nation title 

 

Bro..nuvvu top conservative vi ani na abhiprayam..nenu panikiranu nee mundu aite pakkaga

[tokkalogola]

2 hours ago, The_One_Above_All said:

@vendettaa

any resources to learn Hadoop in 2 days ? can study only on weekend , need to have some knowledge by Monday morning

udemy

[tacobell fan]

5 minutes ago, Amy99 said:

em aythadhi? champesthara?

Julai Rajendra prasad gif please 

[kevinUsa]

So, what are the (potential) issues with late marriages?
I realise this is looks like a "survey type" question - I only ask because I will be 36 and I am being arranged - have been for some time. Now, I do not have any experience with romantic relationships and now, i am a little worried about our future together, when I do find my better half. I am a little unequipped here.
I understand that with late marriages- you do not get a lot of time to know your spouse/ you aren't growing with him as an adult, people are already set in their ways, there are physical challenges as you may not have a lot of energy (this may be different for everyone - I personally feel I have a lot more social energy now, but I was physically more active in my late twenties), there is pressure to make babies as the clock is ticking, etc. 
What more would you add to the list? 

Not all of these are necessarily bad, I think I am a better version of ME at 35 and I am a lot more comfortable being myself.
I just think that I will be able risk mitigate better if I know what else to look out for?
 
 

[kevinUsa]

Reading a few of your posts from earlier, I understand that you are financially an asset to a marital household.
1. What if a merger with you is considered for its financial (cost sharing) advantages, and you get civility rather than affection from an arranged marriage ? Would you be OK with that ?
2. What if you are advised to ignore the ticking clock, and all of the consequential mess, expense, and heartaches that follow in raising a child, and that advice happens after the marriage ? i.e. How important is having a child in your life? Arranged marriages often involve trap and switch schemes. 
3. You mention "no experience with romantic relationships". I took it to mean not having any experience in "relationships that include routine physical intimacy". In such a case, would it bother you a lot if the arranged prospects have had some/more/considerable experience on that score ? 
4. I'd add that it is best to expect a scheming/calculating/pragmatic merger, and therefore do a thorough due diligence on the matter. Sorry for the businesslike M&A terminology; however, that is just what would happen in an arranged marriage at any age.

 

 

[kevinUsa]

 am big time anti arranged marriage.
I have seen so many stuck in arranged marriage wishing they had known this person, their family before hand. 

At 36 its better to date for a year and see wavelength match, physical intimacy, habits, balancing work and spouse, planning finance/trips/events etc, conflict resolving mechanisms, how both bounce back and strengthen bond etc

In arranged marriage both show best behavior and always surrounded by family who cover up negatives. One on one time will show maturity also

[kevinUsa]

The only major problem I noticed in late marriages are..Infact it is not necessarily a bad thing..

You both are evolved and have your own sense of who you are and might not be flexible and more stubborn.

At the same time,you both are more matured minded and be more of support to each other ,not being too dependent and be more of friends.

As for kids,I think physical,patience,emotional and financial depends from person to person.I feel I have more patience after 30 and more focus also as a mother.

[tacobell fan]

3 minutes ago, LastManStanding said:

Bro..nuvvu top conservative vi ani na abhiprayam..nenu panikiranu nee mundu aite pakkaga

Desi’s andharu ade ga 

[Amy99]

1 minute ago, tacobell fan said:

Julai Rajendra prasad gif please 

[LastManStanding]

2 minutes ago, tacobell fan said:

Desi’s andharu ade ga 

True. Kani US vachaka liberals ga marataru ga bro chala mandi sudden ga...visas kosam ani