Hyderabad lo Apartment

[krishna0125]

18 hours ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Hyderabad lo parents ki oka apartment flat konivali anukuntunnanu. Currently my parents staying in a rented apartment flat. But ippudu ma brother and his wife antunnaru.. elago nv apartment kontunnav kada.. memu parents tho vuntamu.. naku rent kattalsina avasaram ledu annaru... I didn't say anything. But wife relatives antunnaru konadam manchide kani mi brother family akkade vunte.. long run lo nve emi analevu vallake icheyali ani antunnaru...

I strongly want to give the flat to my parents and they can happily stay with out any tensions.. but ma wife relatives cheppinattu ma brother family move avuthe nijanga lakkuntada flat in the future.. I am buying by taking loan only. Suggestions please!

go ahead man, in this way you are helping your brother and parents same time. Future lo don't expect you will get them vacate and you can stay there. Just tell them you wanna sell it for finical issues and sell the property and buy somewhere else.

 

 

[BostonBullodu]

10 minutes ago, krishna0125 said:

go ahead man, in this way you are helping your brother and parents same time. Future lo don't expect you will get them vacate and you can stay there. Just tell them you wanna sell it for finical issues and sell the property and buy somewhere else.

 

 

as if they will agreee for that ain't gonna happen baaa

[JonSnowUSA]

Endi bossu.. ila jarugutunnaya bhayata? Andaru kalisi bhayapettestunnaru kada...

[krishna0125]

1 minute ago, BostonBullodu said:

as if they will agreee for that ain't gonna happen baaa

yeah. but atleast strong reason than just asking them to vacate so he can stay in that place..4-5 times cheppi. silent ga oka ruppai takkuvaki ammaisukuntama if the situation goes upto that point.

 

[Peddayana]

18 hours ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Hyderabad lo parents ki oka apartment flat konivali anukuntunnanu. Currently my parents staying in a rented apartment flat. But ippudu ma brother and his wife antunnaru.. elago nv apartment kontunnav kada.. memu parents tho vuntamu.. naku rent kattalsina avasaram ledu annaru... I didn't say anything. But wife relatives antunnaru konadam manchide kani mi brother family akkade vunte.. long run lo nve emi analevu vallake icheyali ani antunnaru...

I strongly want to give the flat to my parents and they can happily stay with out any tensions.. but ma wife relatives cheppinattu ma brother family move avuthe nijanga lakkuntada flat in the future.. I am buying by taking loan only. Suggestions please!

I have a friend , ilane illu konnadu , his brother was not earning well , after a few years valla amma nuvvu baga earning kada us lo ,  give this home to your brother ani tolded , he had to give it to him

andaru ala untaru ani chepptaledu , nuvvu ee post vesavantene your heart is not in the right place and you are not comfortable ani , antha doubt unte cheyadu , be truthful to yourself , neeku ishtam unte cheyi , lekapothe ledu

[fasak_vachadu]

4 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Endi bossu.. ila jarugutunnaya bhayata? Andaru kalisi bhayapettestunnaru kada...

bhayam ani kadu to be safe side anthe ..... evaru ela ala cheyaru ani kadu but koncham careful ga unadli e kalam lo .... anthe ........ edo antaru "akka tandina lekka manadi kadu ani" something .... so better kada chetulu kalaka akkulu pattukovtam enduku

[msp_gsp]

ee group loaa kids andharu chaala avesa padi pothunnaaru. Parents, brother tokka tholu ani..sentiment vaana kuripistunnaaru

meeru 40+ vachchaka..jeevithamu madhya loa vunna taruvaatha...appudu telusthundi evaru elaanti vaaroaa.

aasthulu panchu kunnaappudu mee parents kuda meeku modati sathruvulu avuthaaru. Idi nenu jeevithamuloaa baaga debba tinna taruvaatha cheputhunna jeevitha satyamu

help cheyyandi parents ki and other blood relatives ki. It should be very transparent and needy. Dont entertain free money and that wont have any value.

Buy apartment on your name / wife name and collect rent from your brother (give some discount). Deposit this money into separate account. Use that money for their medical or kids education purpose. Ekkadayyina tammudu gaanni pekata daggar kaadu. You should apply the same principle here

Money will kill all relations including your blood relations. Please be open than  later.  I went into mental trauma for 2 years and now I realized no relatives and no attachments. Only serving to the god will give lot of piece of mind than talking to my widow mother. Dont tell me all pravachanams to me. Every family situation is different. Good luck.

 

 

[BostonBullodu]

9 minutes ago, krishna0125 said:

yeah. but atleast strong reason than just asking them to vacate so he can stay in that place..4-5 times cheppi. silent ga oka ruppai takkuvaki ammaisukuntama if the situation goes upto that point.

 

nene konukunta antaru but you will never get the money

[Athenaa]

11 minutes ago, krishna0125 said:

yeah. but atleast strong reason than just asking them to vacate so he can stay in that place..4-5 times cheppi. silent ga oka ruppai takkuvaki ammaisukuntama if the situation goes upto that point.

 

it's not that easy ,, you have to DEAL WITH LOT OF EMOTIONAL DRAMAA ....  

[meandhrakurradu]

ivi anni chustante @JonSnowUSA  bhayya, why dont you just rent an apartment and pay that rent. this way you are still taking care of them kada 

[krishna0125]

Just now, meandhrakurradu said:

ivi anni chustante @JonSnowUSA  bhayya, why dont you just rent an apartment and pay that rent. this way you are still taking care of them kada 

lol. I was about to tell this. he can FD some amount in bank and give them monthly interest for rent.

[JonSnowUSA]

6 minutes ago, msp_gsp said:

ee group loaa kids andharu chaala avesa padi pothunnaaru. Parents, brother tokka tholu ani..sentiment vaana kuripistunnaaru

meeru 40+ vachchaka..jeevithamu madhya loa vunna taruvaatha...appudu telusthundi evaru elaanti vaaroaa.

aasthulu panchu kunnaappudu mee parents kuda meeku modati sathruvulu avuthaaru. Idi nenu jeevithamuloaa baaga debba tinna taruvaatha cheputhunna jeevitha satyamu

help cheyyandi parents ki and other blood relatives ki. It should be very transparent and needy. Dont entertain free money and that wont have any value.

Buy apartment on your name / wife name and collect rent from your brother (give some discount). Deposit this money into separate account. Use that money for their medical or kids education purpose. Ekkadayyina tammudu gaanni pekata daggar kaadu. You should apply the same principle here

Money will kill all relations including your blood relations. Please be open than  later.  I went into mental trauma for 2 years and now I realized no relatives and no attachments. Only serving to the god will give lot of piece of mind than talking to my widow mother. Dont tell me all pravachanams to me. Every family situation is different. Good luck.

 

 

Nv cheptunte edo anipistundi.. one year back oka chinna plot (ancestral property) ammamu.. parents annaru full appulu ayyayi money motham danike potundi ani... Ma brother tho casual ga matladuthunte cheppadu oka 15 lakhs varaku migilayi.. but karchulu vuntayi kada ani cheppadu... Nenu anthaga pattichukoledu. Clear expectations vundela chusta.. discussion ayithe start chesta first and then proceed avutha

[BostonBullodu]

1 minute ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Nv cheptunte edo anipistundi.. one year back oka chinna plot (ancestral property) ammamu.. parents annaru full appulu ayyayi money motham danike potundi ani... Ma brother tho casual ga matladuthunte cheppadu oka 15 lakhs varaku migilayi.. but karchulu vuntayi kada ani cheppadu... Nenu anthaga pattichukoledu. Clear expectations vundela chusta.. discussion ayithe start chesta first and then proceed avutha

at the end of day sentiment ane dantlo munigi poyi you'll end up buying home for parents..

[JonSnowUSA]

5 minutes ago, krishna0125 said:

lol. I was about to tell this. he can FD some amount in bank and give them monthly interest for rent.

Asalu idedo better option vundi... no liability nothing.. Mari kudarakapothe manchiga ma village lo vunna own house lo kuda vundachu.

[meandhrakurradu]

12 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Nv cheptunte edo anipistundi.. one year back oka chinna plot (ancestral property) ammamu.. parents annaru full appulu ayyayi money motham danike potundi ani... Ma brother tho casual ga matladuthunte cheppadu oka 15 lakhs varaku migilayi.. but karchulu vuntayi kada ani cheppadu... Nenu anthaga pattichukoledu. Clear expectations vundela chusta.. discussion ayithe start chesta first and then proceed avutha

neku already experience ayyaka kuda post esava mastaru