Hyderabad lo Apartment

[msp_gsp]

naaku adhe anipinchindi. Ithanu telivayyina vaado...tingarodoaa..artamu gaavatlaa..

[argadorn]

1 hour ago, Rajugadu said:

Haha, thats true. As i said parents ahh age lo vallani evvaru chuskunte valla side teesukuntaru.. no matter who did what in the last.. same cases chala chusa...

edhi 100 percent correct 

[problem]

Thumb rule......he is your own brother, if your bro is not earning big, help in his kids education, ledha edhina gifts ala pettanu ala cheyyi.....if you allow him into your apt and once he stay for few years, even though he is good person, mind lo konni alochanalu vastayi.....why not stay here permanently ani

[argadorn]

40 minutes ago, problem said:

Thumb rule......he is your own brother, if your bro is not earning big, help in his kids education, ledha edhina gifts ala pettanu ala cheyyi.....if you allow him into your apt and once he stay for few years, even though he is good person, mind lo konni alochanalu vastayi.....why not stay here permanently ani

karchulu chestahy enka permannet ye ... ma family lo  oka cousin us since 2000 bought apartment and gave it to his own brother sons to stay until tehor education for free ... valla brother chanipoyadu kabatti .... konni years tahrvtha job kosam ani almost 15 years uanru ah apartment lo himayatnagar lo ,, eppudu kali cheyandi antay move ayyaru but these kids who stayed for 15 year not talking to his uncle.... endhukantay mamalni vellu annaru partment nunchi ma edha prema ledhu thokka ani .. ala undhi sir evala repu manchithanam 

[nokia123]

On 5/13/2019 at 3:22 PM, JonSnowUSA said:

Hyderabad lo parents ki oka apartment flat konivali anukuntunnanu. Currently my parents staying in a rented apartment flat. But ippudu ma brother and his wife antunnaru.. elago nv apartment kontunnav kada.. memu parents tho vuntamu.. naku rent kattalsina avasaram ledu annaru... I didn't say anything. But wife relatives antunnaru konadam manchide kani mi brother family akkade vunte.. long run lo nve emi analevu vallake icheyali ani antunnaru...

I strongly want to give the flat to my parents and they can happily stay with out any tensions.. but ma wife relatives cheppinattu ma brother family move avuthe nijanga lakkuntada flat in the future.. I am buying by taking loan only. Suggestions please!

wife relatives chepparu anedhi idisey..what do you think matters most..

nuvvu mee parents undatam kosam illu konatunnavu, mee anna vallu ela fix ayyipoyaru vallu kooda kalisi untaru ani? emi chestharu mee anna vadina lu? where are they staying now?

highlighted point ikkati chalu...future lo vallu illu vadhalaru ani cheppataniki...nuvve, meeru kooda undandi ani chepthe adhi oka la undedhi...valle voluntary gaa memu kooda untamu appudu rent save avuthundhi ani fix ayipovatam is not a good sign...long run lo vallanthata vallu bayata rent ki theeskoni pothara? ala velle vallu ithe ippudu ila vacchi settle avuthara? highly doubtful... vellakapothe nuvvu slient gaa oorukovalsi vacchina, or nuvve vacate cheyyalsi vacchina relations guarantee gaa strain avuthayi...

neeku india poye plan lekapothe illu konatam pedda use emi kaadhu...better oka posh ilakhala lo gated community like My Home apprtment  lanti dhanla rent ki theesukoni andhulo pettu mee parents ni...manchi car koni icchi baaga  enjoy cheyyamanu..

 

[Rajugadu]

10 hours ago, msp_gsp said:

naaku adhe anipinchindi. Ithanu telivayyina vaado...tingarodoaa..artamu gaavatlaa..

[nokia123]

11 hours ago, Athenaa said:

I agree!  REAL CASE  Scenario      : parents kosam  illu kattinchi  ( though registration in on his name  with the  bank loan )with furniture everything setup chesaka  2 yrs ki brother ki marr ki ayyi  akkade unnaru  parents ni takecare chesukuntamu ani .. Ok good kadha ani  em  analedhu .. Ippudu 7 yrs ayyindhi loan ayipoyindhi .. ippudu court ki velli aa house vallake kavali ani flight chestunnaru .. case is still in hyd  LB nagar court .. parents kuda valla borther ki support cheyadam tho emotional breakdown ,Stress etc .. 

registration ne name medha unna.. parents ni takecare chesamu illu maintenance chesam .. ma saving anni dhanike spend chesam we dont have anything now ani arguechestunnaru ..  

 

MONEY CHANGES EVERYTHING - these days sibling relationship too

elagaina start avvani.....99% cases anni ilage end avuthayi..thats the reality

[nokia123]

11 hours ago, krishna0125 said:

go ahead man, in this way you are helping your brother and parents same time. Future lo don't expect you will get them vacate and you can stay there. Just tell them you wanna sell it for finical issues and sell the property and buy somewhere else.

 

 

ha ha ha.....US lo untunnaru..iddharu rendu chethula sampadisthunnaru ani already fix ayyi untaru...financial issues ante assla nammaru.....oka vela nijam gane unna vallani namminchalevu...

[nokia123]

11 hours ago, Peddayana said:

I have a friend , ilane illu konnadu , his brother was not earning well , after a few years valla amma nuvvu baga earning kada us lo ,  give this home to your brother ani tolded , he had to give it to him

andaru ala untaru ani chepptaledu , nuvvu ee post vesavantene your heart is not in the right place and you are not comfortable ani , antha doubt unte cheyadu , be truthful to yourself , neeku ishtam unte cheyi , lekapothe ledu

bocchedu cases unnayi gisuntivi,..parents ki kooda ee america lo undetollu venakki raaru..eeda unna pillale manalni choosedhi ani fix ayipotharu..

so nuvvu US lo baagane settle ayyavu..eeda ni siblings financial gaa ibbandhi paduthunru..nuvvu help cheyyi...idhi neeku emi peddha lekka kaadhu ani feel avutharu..

ekkuvu matladithe..nuvvu aadane poyi koosunnavu..ikkada vallu maa resposibility theesukoni choosukunatunnaru..you have to compensate for that ani kooda antaru

[Peddayana]

1 hour ago, nokia123 said:

bocchedu cases unnayi gisuntivi,..parents ki kooda ee america lo undetollu venakki raaru..eeda unna pillale manalni choosedhi ani fix ayipotharu..

so nuvvu US lo baagane settle ayyavu..eeda ni siblings financial gaa ibbandhi paduthunru..nuvvu help cheyyi...idhi neeku emi peddha lekka kaadhu ani feel avutharu..

ekkuvu matladithe..nuvvu aadane poyi koosunnavu..ikkada vallu maa resposibility theesukoni choosukunatunnaru..you have to compensate for that ani kooda antaru

yeah , assalu parents ni choodatam kids responsibility ela avutadi man? ee mata adigithe chala mandiki kopam ravochu but parents are not kids responsibility 

ikkada lekka undali , best 

mana desam lo antha athi , parents prathi chinna visham lo salahalu ivvatam , kids daily phone chesi matladatam , pinnesu konna , hair band konna ani chepptam , vallu emo blue color konuko anatam , itla untayi  , sagam marraiges sanka nakataniki ide karanam