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9 minutes ago, Googleyahoo said:

Do you drop the kid at the center and pick up after 6 hours ? 

My wife is a home maker.she drops and pick up my son from the ABA centre.All therapies are provided in the same centre so its like a fully day school 

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If there is little communication, boys will eventually pickup .. sending to interactive sessions like library , English classes will help. If behavior is problem, then all these so called autism sessions could help. I know a kid who turned better in communication with the interactive sessions ... try with other than you (parents) like sending for few classes where you don’t present and then evaluate. I feel if kids can talk little, eventually they will be perfect at some point. Try other ways at your end .. like making them interact with your parents or someone else and then go for regular options. Sometimes, kids feel insecure and don’t open up if we had scolded them before or had any bad experience. Try and see once.

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9 minutes ago, President said:

If there is little communication, boys will eventually pickup .. sending to interactive sessions like library , English classes will help. If behavior is problem, then all these so called autism sessions could help. I know a kid who turned better in communication with the interactive sessions ... try with other than you (parents) like sending for few classes where you don’t present and then evaluate. I feel if kids can talk little, eventually they will be perfect at some point. Try other ways at your end .. like making them interact with your parents or someone else and then go for regular options. Sometimes, kids feel insecure and don’t open up if we had scolded them before or had any bad experience. Try and see once.

I agree bro.The problem is we have to fix these issues as soon as possible .As age progresses these kids might fall behind the regular kids and it might become though to catchup

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6 hours ago, President said:

If there is little communication, boys will eventually pickup .. sending to interactive sessions like library , English classes will help. If behavior is problem, then all these so called autism sessions could help. I know a kid who turned better in communication with the interactive sessions ... try with other than you (parents) like sending for few classes where you don’t present and then evaluate. I feel if kids can talk little, eventually they will be perfect at some point. Try other ways at your end .. like making them interact with your parents or someone else and then go for regular options. Sometimes, kids feel insecure and don’t open up if we had scolded them before or had any bad experience. Try and see once.

thanks bro

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13 hours ago, infoseeker786 said:

Hi friends,

My cousin 4 year old boy not talking yet .Just speaks in words.Also recently he was  diagnosed with moderate level autism.Any suggestion in improving speech other than sending him to India?Please help

First of all I’m so sorry for the parents whose has been going through this emotional trauma ...It’s so heart breaking for them . They often blame themselves I know one couple ,mom was depressed for months . My heart goes out for those parents 

my cousins kid was late with speech by age 2 but he use to mimic and act well to rhymes that are sung to him but was unable to talk . They went to ECI speech  therapist  visited their home ( below 3 they come to u after 3 they have school ) every week and met with the kid and tried pretend play, it went well for few months but later speech  therapist  said Kid is not picking up well maybe autism and needed to attend meeting and join seperate school for autism therapy ( poor mom couldn’t able to agree that her son is autistic for months she cried every day dad too was shocked never came out for social gatherings )

Later at age 3 school district offered pre k in their area for kids with english second language they joined him there pretending themselves as kid doesn’t know speaking English ( they couldn’t able to agree  that kid has autism very  heart breaking ) later school diagnosed him with autism so he didn’t attend seperate school he goes to school like normal kids but weekly once he has been offered speech theraphy , occupational in same school . He is 10 now, he has been out of therapy few years ago and is normal as any other kid 

I would suggest spend time with kid , get an electric toothbrush for kids and start brushing him with that , play blowing bubbles , throw ball 🎾 play  tag , make him ride a bicycle, tea ️ time games , play dough games ( give him some chapathi dough and ask to roll ) let  kid walk on grass , pebbles, splash in water , get a trampoline and make him jump on it 

also cut out stupid dairy , less wheat , maida 

try feeding him probiotics not yogurt try probiotics supplements for kids ( all problems start in gut ) fruits , less soda 

i would suggest all southindian breakfasts , lunches and dinners 

ante idli , dosa , sambar , rice lantive , all Curries, fruits organic nothing from box 

dont run away from therapy many of school districts offer amazing services , don’t lose hope everything is gonna be alright god bless 

No kid is perfect , no human is perfect 

just imagine ur kid has some sort of allergies and taking medications same thing he is taking therapy 

i know it easy to give all these advise but I can relate how parents might be feeling 

normal peer pressure lo kids ki marks takkuva vasthe ne edho guilty feeling lo untaru chala  mandi parents alantidhi ika ilantivi ante very heart breaking very depressing 

some videos to make u feel better 

Plz don’t run away from theraphy ... interact with ur kid all the time 

wen u want to answer ur kid bend on ur knees and be with eye level while talking to them 

also plz throw away all electronics install landline and after mom / dad gets home from work switch off mobiles if any one wants to call they will call on 📞 landline 

eat dinner together no tv , read bed time stories , try calming massages search in local groupons for kids adhd/ autism massage theraphy , acupuncture too 

everything is gonna be alright ! Good luck 

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13 hours ago, LordOfMud said:

Sending to a third world county like India is a dumb idea

if,  US citizen (kid),  ASAP approach respective county board of social services for all free specialist therapies and special schooling needs & also free baby sitting for the kid & some financial and medical benefits to parents too .......+-

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On 6/30/2019 at 10:22 AM, whatsapp said:

send India specially mysore 

Send india is correct way ani naa feeling 

 

US lo manaku weekdays lo matladu vadu undadu so better send him now 

 

90% people got changed I saw it 

 

its a big concern for parents if your wife is working ask her to stop working and spend lot of time with kid and you also start taking care of your child

 

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On 6/30/2019 at 11:33 PM, Unicorn_mansion said:

First of all I’m so sorry for the parents whose has been going through this emotional trauma ...It’s so heart breaking for them . They often blame themselves I know one couple ,mom was depressed for months . My heart goes out for those parents 

my cousins kid was late with speech by age 2 but he use to mimic and act well to rhymes that are sung to him but was unable to talk . They went to ECI speech  therapist  visited their home ( below 3 they come to u after 3 they have school ) every week and met with the kid and tried pretend play, it went well for few months but later speech  therapist  said Kid is not picking up well maybe autism and needed to attend meeting and join seperate school for autism therapy ( poor mom couldn’t able to agree that her son is autistic for months she cried every day dad too was shocked never came out for social gatherings )

Later at age 3 school district offered pre k in their area for kids with english second language they joined him there pretending themselves as kid doesn’t know speaking English ( they couldn’t able to agree  that kid has autism very  heart breaking ) later school diagnosed him with autism so he didn’t attend seperate school he goes to school like normal kids but weekly once he has been offered speech theraphy , occupational in same school . He is 10 now, he has been out of therapy few years ago and is normal as any other kid 

I would suggest spend time with kid , get an electric toothbrush for kids and start brushing him with that , play blowing bubbles , throw ball 🎾 play  tag , make him ride a bicycle, tea ️ time games , play dough games ( give him some chapathi dough and ask to roll ) let  kid walk on grass , pebbles, splash in water , get a trampoline and make him jump on it 

also cut out stupid dairy , less wheat , maida 

try feeding him probiotics not yogurt try probiotics supplements for kids ( all problems start in gut ) fruits , less soda 

i would suggest all southindian breakfasts , lunches and dinners 

ante idli , dosa , sambar , rice lantive , all Curries, fruits organic nothing from box 

dont run away from therapy many of school districts offer amazing services , don’t lose hope everything is gonna be alright god bless 

No kid is perfect , no human is perfect 

just imagine ur kid has some sort of allergies and taking medications same thing he is taking therapy 

i know it easy to give all these advise but I can relate how parents might be feeling 

normal peer pressure lo kids ki marks takkuva vasthe ne edho guilty feeling lo untaru chala  mandi parents alantidhi ika ilantivi ante very heart breaking very depressing 

some videos to make u feel better 

Plz don’t run away from theraphy ... interact with ur kid all the time 

wen u want to answer ur kid bend on ur knees and be with eye level while talking to them 

also plz throw away all electronics install landline and after mom / dad gets home from work switch off mobiles if any one wants to call they will call on 📞 landline 

eat dinner together no tv , read bed time stories , try calming massages search in local groupons for kids adhd/ autism massage theraphy , acupuncture too 

everything is gonna be alright ! Good luck 

Good reply bro chala opika ga undali results will not fall in overnight you have to keep doing repeated tasks multiple times without hesitation 

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Ma friend son US lo unnapudu ASD identify at 2nd yr  chesaru high level. India ki vellipoyaru.India lo therapy chepincharu now he is 7yrs old he goes to special care but not to regular school.He is writing now ABC’s and slowly talking but my friend said India resources thakkuva unnai and now he is planning to come to US.

evari personal choice but India pampithey andaru pick kaleru.

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