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My friend valla friend oka amai.. blaming indian mindsets, what do you guys think?


Kuyya

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This is her recent post, what do you think of it? 

Back home, I never was allowed to wear sleeveless, shorts, or any clothes that showed my skin. Covering my body as much as possible is considered modest and respectful. The more skin I covered, the more respect I received. I never understood why it is so. Why should I hide my body in hot summer and sweat hard, why I cannot go swimming even though I am good at it, why I cannot let my skin breath and enjoy the freedom. Slowly I understood that it is all because of the the mindsets as tight as my dress. Just like my tight dress in which I was hardly able to breath, some mindsets around us also won’t let us breath. Being a woman, I was constantly judged for my color, weight, length of my dress, lipstick color and my friendships with opposite gender. 
I received less respect and was called names every time I wore a short dress, bright lipstick, & hanged out with men. 
I hardly met people who absolutely respected me by just looking at me. Even though I wanted to be free and do things my way, just to get the so called respect from people, I dressed in a certain way. But, with time, age, and exposure, I realized that there is no one other than myself who can respect me immensely. I slowly removed the tight mindsets and gave myself and my body the freedom to breath. Now, I enjoy my body like never before and give everything it craves. Yo ladies!!!! Let your body breath. Don’t let anyone bully you for the length of your dress. Just unbutton them, let your body breath, and hold your head high ??

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What was ur dad's answer to the same question..about his mindset about judging u wearing (uncovering ur body).?

If you havent asked, then please do and let us know his views and we will follow the same...

 

--- ani comment pettu..

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1 minute ago, Spartan said:

What was ur dad's answer to the same question..about his mindset about judging u wearing (uncovering ur body).?

If you havent asked, then please do and let us know his views and we will follow the same...

 

--- ani comment pettu..

no parent will like it, but I was so curious to know about the thoughts of peer age groups

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1 minute ago, Kuyya said:

no parent will like it, but I was so curious to know about the thoughts of peer age groups

yeah so when her parents herself dont like it..why is she worried about mindsets of other people...

let her expose her curves and deal with it....

anta matrana janala mindset decide cheseste ela...

on the reverse side..can we potray her as a Feminist...for her views..?

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6 minutes ago, Kuyya said:

This is her recent post, what do you think of it? 

Back home, I never was allowed to wear sleeveless, shorts, or any clothes that showed my skin. Covering my body as much as possible is considered modest and respectful. The more skin I covered, the more respect I received. I never understood why it is so. Why should I hide my body in hot summer and sweat hard, why I cannot go swimming even though I am good at it, why I cannot let my skin breath and enjoy the freedom. Slowly I understood that it is all because of the the mindsets as tight as my dress. Just like my tight dress in which I was hardly able to breath, some mindsets around us also won’t let us breath. Being a woman, I was constantly judged for my color, weight, length of my dress, lipstick color and my friendships with opposite gender. 
I received less respect and was called names every time I wore a short dress, bright lipstick, & hanged out with men. 
I hardly met people who absolutely respected me by just looking at me. Even though I wanted to be free and do things my way, just to get the so called respect from people, I dressed in a certain way. But, with time, age, and exposure, I realized that there is no one other than myself who can respect me immensely. I slowly removed the tight mindsets and gave myself and my body the freedom to breath. Now, I enjoy my body like never before and give everything it craves. Yo ladies!!!! Let your body breath. Don’t let anyone bully you for the length of your dress. Just unbutton them, let your body breath, and hold your head high ??

expecting respect aah by just looks aah 

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1 minute ago, Spartan said:

yeah so when her parents herself dont like it..why is she worried about mindsets of other people...

let her expose her curves and deal with it....

anta matrana janala mindset decide cheseste ela...

on the reverse side..can we potray her as a Feminist...for her views..?

Madyanam lunch lo em tinnav Ankul 

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