My friend is going to get GC

[kevinUsa]

1 minute ago, Paidithalli said:

anthakanna thakkuva lo pani ayipothadha  

2016  lo 5k  kuda chance vachinidi

 naku telisina ammayi  manchidi she needed money for medical issues     bhayam vesindi or I would have married her

 

[ekunadam_enkanna]

17 minutes ago, uyghur12 said:

na close friend bro......

nen vadu b'lore  lo together worked

he came for masters in 2014 me in 2015

vadiki 2016 lo manchi job one year lo illu anni set cheskunadu.....

2018 jan lo pelli ... 2018 summer semester lo masters ki join chepinchindu ( tamil valla lo aacharam anta pelli aithe mogude sadivipinchokovali anta adi baagane undi)

2018 spring semester lo fall break ki mem tour plan chesnam appati nunchi pilla behaviour change .... spring semester ending lo exams time lo assignments ani exams ani calls lift chesedi kadu anta....

monna 2019 fall sem lo matter antha leaked....... at&t account lo anni log aitay ani telsukoledo endo papa aina vadu behavior change aina tarvatane call logs chudadam started..... monna feb lo divorce teeskunaru.... papa ni new person ipudu dekadam ledu.... aa papa malli na frd tho patch up ki tried  lyt teeskunadu...... vadini console cheyadanki 5 months pattindi......

 

alternate ga b'lore lo before marriage stories ilantivi chaala chusna.....

 

This is going to be the new normal, since every one uses every other one for some purpose.  Once used, people get dumped. Good for humanity, as we need population control.

 

[uyghur12]

7 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

java .net

devops

tappa

database side ee job anna ok

chusta bro.... database vi untay indianapolis lo..... salesforce lo positions unte cheppu

[uyghur12]

1 minute ago, ekunadam_enkanna said:

This is going to be the new normal, since every one uses every other one for some purpose.  Once used, people get dumped. Good for humanity, as we need population control.

 

Care to explain ?

[ekunadam_enkanna]

26 minutes ago, uyghur12 said:

Care to explain ?

in old days, relatives and extended relatives, even folks from one's caste used to help each other. Even neighbors from other castes used to help. That's how people used to find partners. Even people from other castes used to find a match for neighbor belonging to another caste, since this neighbor's relative lived in another village, and that relative's neighbor had a daughter, etc.  Basically, that model worked, when people lived off of subsistence farming. People remembered those who helped, and sought to pay back in whatever little ways they can: a merchant could sell u at cost; a neighbor would loan you without interest; others could come to till your hand with their two oxen; a relative could bring his cart to carry your millet hay; etc. They never had double entry book keeping  in order to help back.

This used to be case till 70's; then came reservoirs, commercial crops, crops every four months. More money, one didn't need other people's help:  now everything can be bought and sold. In this process, the good ol habits died off; in those place, we see how to use others without paying back either by helping or by paying for their work.  

Isn't how we desis schmooze each other? If a guy becomes an IAS officer, every distant relative, every guy in 30 kms radius from your village comes to seek some or another help. Imagine this officer is strict, never took a bribe, lived modestly. One day, he dies in an accident. Now, his son is struggling to get a job. No one would help him, because what is there one can gain by helping him.

Whenever we schmooze, we are sizing up each other. Adding to the queue people who can help you , deleting from the queue who needs your help. Everyone is selfish in their own way. This attitude has even spread to the institution of marriage: just to marry to come to the states, dump the spouse to marry some one else; a girl who can't afford a Toyota wants to marry a Lamborghini; test drive all cars (date all possible people) from all show rooms (dil mil, shaadi, telugu matrimony, elite matrimony), thereby reaching 40 years old; etc

In the end, this has lead many guys in the West to not have kids. And this has spread to many educated people who have jobs. This reduces human population. Let the poor have more kids, and lets educate the kids of these poor people, so that in a few generations they won't have kids too.

Add global warming, climate change. Even if one won't believe the former, at least see what people are facing: droughts, water crises. If oceans rise by few inches, if weather patterns change, many parts of humanity is screwed because of population (think of how civilizations disappeared due to desertification or weather changes).

Whatever these women do, it is good. Btw, I am not defending men, who abuse women for dowry, etc. 

 

[Staysafebro]

44 minutes ago, uyghur12 said:

 

monna 2019 fall sem lo matter antha leaked....... at&t account lo anni log aitay ani telsukoledo endo papa aina vadu behavior change aina tarvatane call logs chudadam started..... monna feb lo divorce teeskunaru.... papa ni new person ipudu dekadam ledu.... aa papa malli na frd tho patch up ki tried  lyt teeskunadu...... vadini console cheyadanki 5 months pattindi......

 

alternate ga b'lore lo before marriage stories ilantivi chaala chusna.....

 

Already pelli ayina/ relationship lo unna ammayilaku mostly adhegathi. Boys may show interest initially, but in the long term there is a good chance that they will move away. Women like that also should be ready for such scenarios. Known fact that interest wanes after the first act. Finding true love after the first relationship is all that more difficult. After all who wants seconds for long term. 

[Anta Assamey]

[Sucker]

1 hour ago, kevinUsa said:

2016  lo 5k  kuda chance vachinidi

 naku telisina ammayi  manchidi she needed money for medical issues     bhayam vesindi or I would have married her

 

[Staysafebro]

2 hours ago, ekunadam_enkanna said:

in old days, relatives and extended relatives, even folks from one's caste used to help each other. Even neighbors from other castes used to help. That's how people used to find partners. Even people from other castes used to find a match for neighbor belonging to another caste, since this neighbor's relative lived in another village, and that relative's neighbor had a daughter, etc.  Basically, that model worked, when people lived off of subsistence farming. People remembered those who helped, and sought to pay back in whatever little ways they can: a merchant could sell u at cost; a neighbor would loan you without interest; others could come to till your hand with their two oxen; a relative could bring his cart to carry your millet hay; etc. They never had double entry book keeping  in order to help back.

This used to be case till 70's; then came reservoirs, commercial crops, crops every four months. More money, one didn't need other people's help:  now everything can be bought and sold. In this process, the good ol habits died off; in those place, we see how to use others without paying back either by helping or by paying for their work.  

Isn't how we desis schmooze each other? If a guy becomes an IAS officer, every distant relative, every guy in 30 kms radius from your village comes to seek some or another help. Imagine this officer is strict, never took a bribe, lived modestly. One day, he dies in an accident. Now, his son is struggling to get a job. No one would help him, because what is there one can gain by helping him.

Whenever we schmooze, we are sizing up each other. Adding to the queue people who can help you , deleting from the queue who needs your help. Everyone is selfish in their own way. This attitude has even spread to the institution of marriage: just to marry to come to the states, dump the spouse to marry some one else; a girl who can't afford a Toyota wants to marry a Lamborghini; test drive all cars (date all possible people) from all show rooms (dil mil, shaadi, telugu matrimony, elite matrimony), thereby reaching 40 years old; etc

In the end, this has lead many guys in the West to not have kids. And this has spread to many educated people who have jobs. This reduces human population. Let the poor have more kids, and lets educate the kids of these poor people, so that in a few generations they won't have kids too.

Add global warming, climate change. Even if one won't believe the former, at least see what people are facing: droughts, water crises. If oceans rise by few inches, if weather patterns change, many parts of humanity is screwed because of population (think of how civilizations disappeared due to desertification or weather changes).

Whatever these women do, it is good. Btw, I am not defending men, who abuse women for dowry, etc. 

 

The reality is that men stay fertile for longer and can have kids at a much later age. Women who wait and marry late have dwindling chances of having kids-mostly ugly ones. These kinds of women will be eliminated from the gene pool. This is good in a way as mostly these women have bad attitude in abundance. 

[r2d2]

13 minutes ago, Anta Assamey said:

you mean the thread has taken the train   ?

[bramhacharimogudu]

 

[pittagoda]

6 hours ago, JohnSnow said:

He has a full time job in h1b and got married recently to a telugu girl who is born here and she is working as well.

Applying for citizenship now, simple. 

Ila plan chesukondi vayya DB yuvatha who are aspiring for green cards and American life, rather than ee h1b kashtalu.

Good luck in your matrimonial search 😎

Nenu applied may 3rd.. EAD and travel ki unko 5 months or 6 months ee.. GC light le.. 

[Sucker]

8 minutes ago, pittagoda said:

Nenu applied may 3rd.. EAD and travel ki unko 5 months or 6 months ee.. GC light le.. 

 Ho Dora nuvvena. Nenu @LastManStanding burra badhalu kottukintunnam yevara apply chesindi ani. 

[uyghur12]

1 minute ago, Sucker said:

 Ho Dora nuvvena. Nenu @LastManStanding burra badhalu kottukintunnam yevara apply chesindi ani. 

ante taatha aa okkadni bond paper meeda raasi ikkade undochu ani anna ivvara GC

[raaajaaa]

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