Katnam istara for MS girls

[Scada]

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[BostonBullodu]

Just now, Scada said:

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Inthaki isthara ivvara cheppaneledu

[ekunadam_enkanna]

4 minutes ago, Rshiva said:

Oho! Good to know. Good for them.Ne analogy super bro where rich and the poor are marrying without difficulty and producing kids. It is the avg upper middle class and english who is facing trouble.

Yes, if you open any Indian newspaper, you see suicides due to debts, accidents, etc. Most of these people are poor, and they have sons and daughters. When people are poor, they use traditional networks: same caste, relatives of relatives, etc. In that network, they will find another poor guy/girl and marry them off. Poor girls get married by 18/19/20 years old.  There is no wait time for them, nor do they have a choice. Anyway, what is choice? Just because I can test drive a Ferrari, it doesn't mean that I have a choice to buy that Ferrari. To have a choice entails that one has means to pick among those choices. 

[samaja_varagamana]

2 hours ago, Scada said:

Basic ga indian arranged marriage anedi pakka business deal compared to tellas style of marriage

Case 1: Lets say abbai is 7 and ammai is 4( no job or proper education or beauty etc) ..katnam is that extra 3 to make ammai = abbai

Case 2: Lets say abbai is 7 and ammai is 7 ( with optimum blend of education or job or beauty or whatever ), no katnam needed

P.S In most of the cases ammailu never settle for equal ...

P.P.S Actual situations may vary slightly...no generalizations, feeling hurt cheskovaddu

only cases ah baa

case 3 : abbayi lower caste ammai upper caste no katnam by ammai so abaai=ammai

case 4 : ammai lower caste abbai upper caste ammai give more money then ammai= abbai lantivi leva ani

@uttermost asking

[uyghur12]

18 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

only cases ah baa

case 3 : abbayi lower caste ammai upper caste no katnam by ammai so abaai=ammai

case 4 : ammai lower caste abbai upper caste ammai give more money then ammai= abbai lantivi leva ani

@uttermost asking

mine case 4 no transaction still ammai=abbai

[Gaali_Gottam_Govinda]

4 hours ago, Amrita said:

Nenu katnam tesukunevadini chesukonu. Period. 

Na opinion: Life long sampadistunte malla katnam adigi self respect lekunda ammudupovadam deniki. Be a king in your wife heart and dont bring money into equation. Life long a woman spends for husband and kids aey. Masthu selfish adavallu bayata inka evariki usually pettaru paisal. 

 

Aa spending Husband paycheck nundi ani direct gaa cheppochu gaa........ Naa family and friends circle lone majority are living at the expense of their husband.

 

Katnam adigithe you backward village idiots neeku pelli endukuraa ani abuse chestaru.......... poni katnam lekunda pelli cheskunte.......... kastapadi chadivi job chesi husband ki help chestara ante in many cases adhi ledu........ poni oka vela job chesina 1-3 years muchatta ye....... tarvata Kids ani reason cheppi intlo kurchuni......... husband ni sankanakinchestaru. 

 

After working 30 years with single paycheck........ 65 retirement age ki vachi chooste bank lo $100K kooda undadu......... I have seen many cases like this.

[Amrita]

11 minutes ago, Gaali_Gottam_Govinda said:

 

Aa spending Husband paycheck nundi ani direct gaa cheppochu gaa........ Naa family and friends circle lone majority are living at the expense of their husband.

 

Katnam adigithe you backward village idiots neeku pelli endukuraa ani abuse chestaru.......... poni katnam lekunda pelli cheskunte.......... kastapadi chadivi job chesi husband ki help chestara ante in many cases adhi ledu........ poni oka vela job chesina 1-3 years muchatta ye....... tarvata Kids ani reason cheppi intlo kurchuni......... husband ni sankanakinchestaru. 

 

After working 30 years with single paycheck........ 65 retirement age ki vachi chooste bank lo $100K kooda undadu......... I have seen many cases like this.

MS ammayilu husband pay check spend chestara? Chaduvu leda? MS ante nishani anatta ? Thanks for the enligthment. Topic is about MS girls. Malla 1st nunchi chaduvukuntu ra. They work and contribute ani you forgot.  MS chesi work chesaka mogudu maneyamanna maneyaru no one wants to lose their financial independence. Title chadavakunda avesam to posted anukunta.  

[perugu_vada]

Ok so final ga pellilla perayya laga chesthe maku commission istara ani adugutuna @Idassamed uncle, e IT jobs cheyalekunda unna antuna @LastManStanding U cle

[JollyBoy]

3 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Ok so final ga pellilla perayya laga chesthe maku commission istara ani adugutuna @Idassamed uncle, e IT jobs cheyalekunda unna antuna @LastManStanding U cle

Ee businness baguntundi man.. nannu kuda join chesukondi

[tom bhayya]

4 hours ago, Amrita said:

It worked out in our families and it is going to work like this only if it is arranged marriage.  My family cant and wont change for me today.  I talk to guys without knowing about their career too cheppi cheppi nene compromise ayyi matladi info telusukuntunna. 

Mee daggara workout ayyindhi emo, katnam adagakapothey abbayi lo edho lopam undhi anukuntunnaru andharu these days. Inkondharu ammayi la parents aithey manam range ki ee mathram katnam ivvvakapothey mana paruvu em kaavali aney type lo unnaru. Demanding is wrong 

[Amrita]

1 hour ago, tom bhayya said:

Mee daggara workout ayyindhi emo, katnam adagakapothey abbayi lo edho lopam undhi anukuntunnaru andharu these days. Inkondharu ammayi la parents aithey manam range ki ee mathram katnam ivvvakapothey mana paruvu em kaavali aney type lo unnaru. Demanding is wrong 

It’s different in different communities . I told the same thing asking is wrong ani in previous pages . Prema to Vallu emanna pedite without discussion that’s not called dowry . Anything asked is called dowry only . Also I wasn’t talking about prev generation mentioned that too in prev posts . I am talking about current generation. Aey Ammayi Dowry adagaledu ani lopam anukodu she would be happy that she is not a burden to her father . Some brides cry after match getting fixed . I saw some crying too Nanna ki burden ani . 

Aey kututu or koduku oka 2 crores parents ki istunnara? Lede ? Mari parents ela valla kashta jeetam istaru not thinking about their old age? Pelli kadedmo ani istaru anthe. Ishtam ga evadu ivvadu and aey manchi kuturu nanna paisal moguduku ivvali or tanaki ivvali anukodu. Ishtam ga iche paisal em kavu but people dont just talk it that way as relations strain. Way too diplomatic untaru for their own child. Simple things if u think with heart. 

Btw athagaru mamagaru valla pellam pregnancy vastene karchu anukune batch valla pillala diapers suvasana chustunte ney tindi ki karchu anukune batch in laws matuku kotlu oorike happy ga istaru antaru valla paisal paisal kavu mari. This joke is epic.

Also, koduku family support cheyadam kosam father asthulu rayadu during marriage or  paisal ivvadu ammayi tandri ivvali antaru ante vellaki mari prema leda son mida ? Prema to enduku em ivvatledu? 

 

PS: Mimalni anatledu @tom bhayya

 

[shamsher_007]

4 hours ago, BostonBullodu said:

2019 girls ki adi varthinchadu lee lite teesuko baaa 

ohh my balio 

[Amrita]

Katnam iste tesukuntunnam ane vallu 1980's lo katnam kosam kodallani champina statistics and female foeticide statistics chusukondi. Paisalu unte chachevallu kadu leka ivvalekaney chachipoyaru . Ah roju ala undakunda unte e roju male : female ratio ela undedi kadu. Valla chavulaki respect ichi ayina alochinchandi dowry enta goppa sampradayamooo. Evanni kashtam ga unte just oka movie chudandi a rojullovi mike ardham avutundi oka father ki katnam ivvadam enta kashtamo. MS kadu BS kadu aey S ki ayina katnam tesukovadam wrong. It's illegal ani law ney cheptondi. Forget about parents generation miru alochinchandi . Thinking should be progressive not regressive.

 

[Satakarni_bali]

6 hours ago, Arey_enti_ra_idi said:

MS girls katnam istara asalu 

[kevinUsa]

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