Katnam istara for MS girls

[AndhraneedSCS]

26 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Nenu katnam tesukunevadini chesukonu. Period. 

Na opinion: Life long sampadistunte malla katnam adigi self respect lekunda ammudupovadam deniki. Be a king in your wife heart and dont bring money into equation. Life long a woman spends for husband and kids aey. Masthu selfish adavallu bayata inka evariki usually pettaru paisal. 

Katnam teesukovadam Pelli Kuthuru ki istam ledu ani neeku cheppinda?  Not everyone thinks alike. 

[Jombo0108]

14 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Ma into properties gurinchi adagaru. Jeetam kuda abbayi chepte telustundi ma nanna mundu adagaru. Abbayi to kuda ma nanna so far matladaledu they will only if boy and girl likes each other.  Adugute usually ababyi father ma nanna ki class pikutaru how can you ask salary andi ila adagakudadu adapilla tandri ani. Oka sari nenu adagamanna andaru adugutaru em info lekunda i wont talk to a guy ante reluctant ga adigi tittukunchukunnaru ma nanna. Brahmin families ki e template work out kadu.  H1b talk usually happens between girl and guy. Abbayilu most of them decent they know this template too so ammayiki cheptaru salaries and status things without asking. I tell ah conversation vaste /if they ask me too . So na varaku katnam adigite light. 

You’re being too idealistic not gonna a workout in a business transaction. 

[Scada]

Just now, karthikn said:

don't assume if katnam teeskokapothe or ammayi ni thakkuva range nunchi techukunte she will be over obidient ..king in wife's heart kinda  bullsh1t  @Amrita @Scada @samaja_varagamana

Agreed...seen live examples in polo club apartments, Wdm , IA

[Amrita]

1 hour ago, karthikn said:

don't assume if katnam teeskokapothe or ammayi ni thakkuva range nunchi techukunte she will be over obidient ..king in wife's heart kinda  bullsh1t  @Amrita @Scada @samaja_varagamana

How you know what a woman thinks sir ?  You are not right? I will def have more respect on the guy who marries me without thought of dowry. You can have your opinion though ! 

Ma akka heart lo ma family heart lo kuda  ma bava pedestal mida unnaru as he or his family didnt talk or take dowry. 

[AndhraneedSCS]

17 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Ma into properties gurinchi adagaru. Jeetam kuda abbayi chepte telustundi ma nanna mundu adagaru. Abbayi to kuda ma nanna so far matladaledu they will only if boy and girl likes each other.  Adugute usually ababyi father ma nanna ki class pikutaru how can you ask salary andi ila adagakudadu adapilla tandri ani. Oka sari nenu adagamanna andaru adugutaru em info lekunda i wont talk to a guy ante reluctant ga adigi tittukunchukunnaru ma nanna. Brahmin families ki e template work out kadu.  H1b talk usually happens between girl and guy. Abbayilu most of them decent they know this template too so ammayiki cheptaru salaries and status things without asking. I tell ah conversation vaste /if they ask me too . So na varaku katnam adigite light. 

Ennalla nundi chustunnaru sambandalu?

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, Jombo0108 said:

You’re being too idealistic not gonna a workout in a business transaction. 

It worked out in our families and it is going to work like this only if it is arranged marriage.  My family cant and wont change for me today.  I talk to guys without knowing about their career too cheppi cheppi nene compromise ayyi matladi info telusukuntunna. 

[karthikn]

2 minutes ago, Scada said:

konni cases lo untadi like show off ki kuda istaru....and other cases equal unna ammai dagara katnam tiskunte...pilla vallu feel like they own the boy.

depends on boy mindset.. cho chweet yavvaram aithe thokki padestharu.. i don't give a f. i maintain standards type unte daniki thaggattu ee thagulutharu...

[Scada]

Just now, Amrita said:

How you know what a woman thinks sir ?  You are not right? I will def have more respect on the guy who marries me without thought of dowry. You can have your opinion though ! 

Ma akka ma bava heart lo ma family heart lo kuda pedestal mida unnaru as he or his family didnt talk or take dowry. 

Matured ammailaki they know..immature ammailu they take good husband for granted

[Amrita]

5 minutes ago, AndhraneedSCS said:

Katnam teesukovadam Pelli Kuthuru ki istam ledu ani neeku cheppinda?  Not everyone thinks alike. 

Na opinion ani cheppanu ippudu eay pelli kuthuru ni adagali na pelli gurinchi ? Everyone gurinchi when did i talk ?  Clearly said My opinion.

[samaja_varagamana]

5 minutes ago, karthikn said:

don't assume if katnam teeskokapothe or ammayi ni thakkuva range nunchi techukunte she will be over obidient ..king in wife's heart kinda  bullsh1t  @Amrita @Scada @samaja_varagamana

hahahahaha 

[Somedude]

34 minutes ago, raaajaaa said:

Free ga exp tho patu Katnam kuda kavala Neku

Juice boyfriend pindaaka pippi tho vacche experience evadaki kavali ani @Staysafebro annadu indhake..

[samaja_varagamana]

4 minutes ago, Scada said:

Agreed...seen live examples in polo club apartments, Wdm , IA

vuuu denamma andaru sagam sagam postlu esthar endi vayya meeru mee jyothi lakshmi comments 

Nu inka ah @Ram51

[karthikn]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

How you know what a woman thinks sir ?  You are not right? I will def have more respect on the guy who marries me without thought of dowry. You can have your opinion though ! 

Ma akka ma bava heart lo ma family heart lo kuda pedestal mida unnaru as he or his family didnt talk or take dowry. 

depends on caste again.. konnitlo minimum istharu 

[AndhraneedSCS]

16 minutes ago, Scada said:

Basic ga indian arranged marriage anedi pakka business deal compared to tellas style of marriage

Case 1: Lets say abbai is 7 and ammai is 4( no job or proper education or beauty etc) ..katnam is that extra 3 to make ammai = abbai

Case 2: Lets say abbai is 7 and ammai is 7 ( with optimum blend of education or job or beauty or whatever ), no katnam needed

P.S In most of the cases ammailu never settle for equal ...

P.P.S Actual situations may vary slightly...no generalizations, feeling hurt cheskovaddu

Usual ga ammayilani vallakante koncham rich family abbayi ki istaru. 

Previous generation lo ayithe baga negotiate chesevaru kani ippudu aa situation ledu.

Girl ki brother unte, split assets into 3 parts and give one part to girl as dowry. remaining 2 parts split equally between brother and parents.  Pelli karchulu with liquid assets,...

[Somedude]

34 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Nenu katnam tesukunevadini chesukonu. Period. 

Na opinion: Life long sampadistunte malla katnam adigi self respect lekunda ammudupovadam deniki. Be a king in your wife heart and dont bring money into equation. Life long a woman spends for husband and kids aey. Masthu selfish adavallu bayata inka evariki usually pettaru paisal. 

Job edho vacche mogudukosam chesthanu ani cheppinattu undhi....