Katnam istara for MS girls

[Scada]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

Exactly my point. Some one who is exactly same as me ki em kommulu unnayi ani paisal ivvali dowry laga adi kuda ma parents kashta padi sampadinchina money? 

Na kanna 10 times thopu ayite yes i will think about throwing money for having a life with him.  -- Serious ga cheppanu anukuneru arrogance to dowry ane concept ante irritation to attitude toney cheppa. Even in this case guy doesnt have open mindedness to not ask dowry and ask my hand so till not thope than me and rejected . 

 

31 minutes ago, Scada said:

Basic ga indian arranged marriage anedi pakka business deal compared to tellas style of marriage

Case 1: Lets say abbai is 7 and ammai is 4( no job or proper education or beauty etc) ..katnam is that extra 3 to make ammai = abbai

Case 2: Lets say abbai is 7 and ammai is 7 ( with optimum blend of education or job or beauty or whatever ), no katnam needed

P.S In most of the cases ammailu never settle for equal ...

P.P.S Actual situations may vary slightly...no generalizations, feeling hurt cheskovaddu

[LazyRohit]

arey TS nu admin a thread esi eto 10gsav

[Amrita]

12 minutes ago, shamsher_007 said:

anthe antava vaunty?

 

Na case yes my parents never took a penny. Adapilla sommu tinaddu anedi valla concept. They return even money for US flight tickets and also for what i spend for them here in states.  Lekkal katti ichestundi ma amma including food and godava avutundi always. More over she says she will show transactions to my future husband as she doesnt want a bad name from him too. They wont change .   I am tired and gave up too. Na paisal is for me my husband and my kids.  My parents are too independent vallaki mata padatam ishtam ledu valla self respect ki bhangam if i feed them for a day.

[Amrita]

9 minutes ago, Scada said:

 

Not convinced abba. Repu pelli chesukoni vadiki accident ayyi bed ridden ayite valla amma vallu nakem istaru as compensation ? Vadi job chuse ga chesukunna ? Kanya sulkam compensation istara? 

Abbayi ki proper job leka transparent lekunda pelli chesukunte andamaina ammayini what compensation will guys parents pay ?

Both cases lo  guy pay cheste kudarad husband money is amamyidey already ..his parents only should pay just like girls parents pay dowry !!

[meri_zindagi]

I will give 100 crores dowry. IF I HAVE. 

 Dowry is still not the same as in school days where we debated against it. These days parents ammailani, abbayilani equal ga ne chadivistunnaru. And almost properties Koda equal ga ne istunnaru, may be a little more for sons. Evariki entha untey antha istaru. 

Education takkuva undi, looks baledu ani Leni money ekkada nundi techistaru. First place lone money untey, they would get better education and also easy to groom themselves better looks wise. 

Matches chusetappudu no one is asking dowry entha ivvagalaru ani. They are asking wat all properties u have.

 

[Amrita]

10 minutes ago, Somedude said:

Aina ninnu evaru katanam adugutharu le. Unna dhantlo neeku ..mee sis half/half. So oka 100Crs veasy ga vasthunnappudu...inka dowry ani special ga peru petti aduguthara?

Its same case with everyone in this generation no? Taruvata iche varaku enduku agaleru ? Parents that way okay generation gap but what happened to guys of this generation ? Amma adagaddu katnam ani enduku cheppaleru? Annitiki noru vastundi edi matuku parents affair ani oorukuntaru? This concept is terrible. Atleast e generation vallu accept cheyandi. But cheyaru ley inka DB lo e expectation is insane on my part.

[Scada]

5 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Not convinced abba. Repu pelli chesukoni vadiki accident ayyi bed ridden ayite valla amma vallu nakem istaru as compensation ? Vadi job chuse ga chesukunna ? Kanya sulkam compensation istara? 

Abbayi ki proper job leka transparent lekunda pelli chesukunte andamaina ammayini what compensation will guys parents pay ? Btw guy pay cheste kudarad husband money is mine already his parents only should pay just like girls parents pay dowry !!

Women point of view chudale..ipudu chusa ...agree with you

[Jombo0108]

10 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Exactly my point. Some one who is exactly same as me ki em kommulu unnayi ani paisal ivvali dowry laga adi kuda ma parents kashta padi sampadinchina money? 

Na kanna 10 times thopu ayite yes i will think about throwing money for having a life with him.  -- Serious ga cheppanu anukuneru arrogance to dowry ane concept ante irritation to attitude toney cheppa. Even in this case guy doesnt have open mindedness to not ask dowry and ask my hand so till not thope than me and rejected . 

Fake feminist mentality

[LazyRohit]

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Its same case with everyone in this generation no? Taruvata iche varaku enduku agaleru ? Parents that way okay generation gap but what happened to guys of this generation ? Amma adagaddu amma katnam ani enduku cheppaleru? Annitiki noru vastundi edi matuku parents affair ani oorukuntaru? This concept is terrible. Atleast e generation vallu accept cheyandi. But cheyaru ley inka DB lo e expectation is insane on my part.

Life is short they don't want to wait until next generation

[uyghur12]

5 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Its same case with everyone in this generation no? Taruvata iche varaku enduku agaleru ? Parents that way okay generation gap but what happened to guys of this generation ? Amma adagaddu katnam ani enduku cheppaleru? Annitiki noru vastundi edi matuku parents affair ani oorukuntaru? This concept is terrible. Atleast e generation vallu accept cheyandi. But cheyaru ley inka DB lo e expectation is insane on my part.

nen pelliki mundu strict warning ma amma ki katnam gaani nak telvakunda adigithe nen asal raanu ani....

[Amrita]

4 minutes ago, Jombo0108 said:

Fake feminist mentality

You are free to have your opinion.  This is society evadishtam vachinattu vadu anukovachu. 

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, uyghur12 said:

nen pelliki mundu strict warning ma amma ki katnam gaani nak telvakunda adigithe nen asal raanu ani....

[Jombo0108]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

You are free to have your opinion.  This is society evadishtam vachinattu vadu anukovachu. 

Peace out 

[Amrita]

6 minutes ago, Scada said:

Women point of view chudale..ipudu chusa ...agree with you

[JohnSnow]

18 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Exactly my point. Some one who is exactly same as me ki em kommulu unnayi ani paisal ivvali dowry laga adi kuda ma parents kashta padi sampadinchina money? 

Na kanna 10 times thopu ayite yes i will think about throwing money for having a life with him.  -- Serious ga cheppanu anukuneru arrogance to dowry ane concept ante irritation to attitude toney cheppa. Even in this case guy doesnt have open mindedness to not ask dowry and ask my hand so still not thope than me and rejected . 

If you are not giving dowry, you and your parents also wont have a right to ask the guy how much property he has. 

If he wants to marry just by seeing you, you should also marry him just by seeing his qualities. But girl parents never do that, they always care about how good the guy's job is and how many properties he own etc. 

So, if the girl parents are being selfish, its not wrong for a guy to be selfish too.