How to avoid Parents to stop chasing for marriage?

[Hydrockers]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Timing batti kakunda Manishi batti chesukunta sir . 

Amma Nanna Kosam emanna cheyagalanu but evadino Pelli chesukoni  preminxhalenu . If I am not happy they won’t be happy anyways too . Tyagalu cheyadam kashtam sir .

Iathe inka aa manishi dorakaleda

[DBgirl]

25 minutes ago, Hydrockers said:

Reason ento cheppi convince cheai

Reason yemi ledu ma friends marriage chesukuna vallu evaru happy ga leru but marriage tapadhu kada. I want to stay single for atleast 28 but parents vopukovadam ledu. 

[DBgirl]

23 minutes ago, jpismahatma said:

You can wait 2 years more.. my suggestion better get married to ms boy in ur caste. Get h4 ead and work

H4 ead apatidaka vunadhu kada 

[DBgirl]

24 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Vallaki cheppu naku pelli ayindi already ani...

Idi cinema kadu kada ala chepadaniki US lo chala mandi chutalu vunaru. Infact I am staying in my relatives house only. 

[Hydrockers]

1 minute ago, DBgirl said:

Reason yemi ledu ma friends marriage chesukuna vallu evaru happy ga leru but marriage tapadhu kada. I want to stay single for atleast 28 but parents vopukovadam ledu. 

Vallu evaro happy ga leru ani andaru ala untara sister

Financial ga koddiga strong ayyaka own income tho chesukunta ani cheppu

[MRI]

6 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Timing batti kakunda Manishi batti chesukunta sir . 

Amma Nanna Kosam emanna cheyagalanu but evadino Pelli chesukoni  preminxhalenu . If I am not happy they won’t be happy anyways too . Tyagalu cheyadam kashtam sir .

ala antey kashtam.. manishi ni batti antey ethics and morals kosam choostunna conservative laaga anipistunnaru.. ala koorchuntey eppatiki dorakaru.. meeku kavalsinavi oka padi raasukuni.. top 3 most important pakka vundela choosukuni adjust ayipondi.. ee rojullo late antey padukoni magadu adadi dorakaru.. alaney divorced people ni chesukuntaru anipinchatledu.. remember, there is no rakumarudu or rakumari.. just adjust..

[DBgirl]

24 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Dont engage in long conversations. Ah topic vaste avoid it for a while and talk anything but that topic. They will understand that you are not showing interest to talk about it. Vallake visukochi one day listening mode loki vastaru and will listen to your side of point. Appadi varaku vallu cheppede cheptaru manam cheppedi vinaru. This is my way of dealing my parents whether it be in any aspect. 

Try chesa but vallu messages email tho champaru. Phone aythy avoic cheyochu messages specially Family group lo messages irritating alot. 

[Scada]

1 minute ago, DBgirl said:

Idi cinema kadu kada ala chepadaniki US lo chala mandi chutalu vunaru. Infact I am staying in my relatives house only. 

 follow @Amrita  advice or direct chepei ipude istam ledani..after telling hold on to  your decision strong, even though daddy tittina and mummy edchina

[DBgirl]

15 minutes ago, walter18 said:

Kadupu chey or cheyinchuko e pillanaina or pillagainaina

yem picha meku

[DBgirl]

10 minutes ago, Biskot2 said:

mg 

dentlo my god yemundhi antha rare a edhi. me itnlo pelli vadhu ante agipothara 

[Scada]

Just now, DBgirl said:

Try chesa but vallu messages email tho champaru. Phone aythy avoic cheyochu messages specially Family group lo messages irritating alot. 

May be your parents are like ipudu try chesthe inko 1 or 2 years ki set avtademo match ani thinking

[Scada]

Just now, DBgirl said:

dentlo my god yemundhi antha rare a edhi. me itnlo pelli vadhu ante agipothara 

Adi my god kadu ...

[Amrita]

6 minutes ago, MRI said:

ala antey kashtam.. manishi ni batti antey ethics and morals kosam choostunna conservative laaga anipistunnaru.. ala koorchuntey eppatiki dorakaru.. meeku kavalsinavi oka padi raasukuni.. top 3 most important pakka vundela choosukuni adjust ayipondi.. ee rojullo late antey padukoni magadu adadi dorakaru.. alaney divorced people ni chesukuntaru anipinchatledu.. remember, there is no rakumarudu or rakumari.. just adjust..

I know and have clarity  about what i want in my life and i have my approach . I am not lookign for rakumarudu. I do list down, write and think a lot before i make a decision. Pakkavalla  adi online suggestions to life lead cheyalenu especially when they know nothing about me . Thanks for your suggestion though !

[Kool_SRG]

41 minutes ago, DBgirl said:

I did my MS I am currently working on OPT since 1 year. Parents are forcing me to get married. I am just 24 I dont want get married soon.How to avoid pressure from Parents and Relatives?

 

10 minutes ago, DBgirl said:

Reason yemi ledu ma friends marriage chesukuna vallu evaru happy ga leru but marriage tapadhu kada. I want to stay single for atleast 28 but parents vopukovadam ledu. 

Mee friends ki ayithe meeku kuda alage avvalani ledhu ga and more over can you guarantee if you then you will be happy ??

Cheppandi parents toh okati rendu samvatsaarla taravaata chesukunta ani,  vaallani kurchopetti matladandi nakku anni vidhalu ga nachethene chesukunta ani and more over matches vasthe chesesukovaali ani ledhu ga you can speak take time and decide...Good luck don't take tension anni sardhukuntaayi.

[MRI]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

I know and have clarity  about what i want in my life and i have my approach . I am not lookign for rakumarudu. I do list down, write and think a lot before i make a decision. Pakkavalla  adi online suggestions to life lead cheyalenu especially when they know nothing about me . Thanks for your suggestion though !

easy.. i experienced the same issues.. just sharing my experience.. that's it.. life lo todu avasaram.. late ayipothey kashtalu vastayani.. anthey.. even i had a strategy but wasn't practical for the current society..