Sibling relationship: How much do your brothers/sisters mean to you?

[chicagoafdb]

If siblings are not that useful why produce more kids..1 shld be good..if all it matters money..I mean current generation who is planning more than 1 kid..

[Amrita]

2 hours ago, samaja_varagamana said:

No siblings evaranna siblings unaru ante adi @Paidithalli @Amrita @MagaMaharaju n steam members anthe 

 @samaja_varagamana

[Paidithalli]

Just now, chicagoafdb said:

If siblings are not that useful why produce more kids..1 shld be good..if all it matters money..I mean current generation who is planning more than 1 kid..

Ala ante pellams eh oppukoru... okkadu ayithe ontari avthadu... at least 2 anedhi parents , in-laws andharu chepthuntaru... assal manam entha mandhi ni kanalo vallu decide cheyyadam enti anipisthadhi 

[Paidithalli]

2 hours ago, samaja_varagamana said:

No siblings evaranna siblings unaru ante adi @Paidithalli @Amrita @MagaMaharaju n steam members anthe 

Idhi prema prema ... thirigocche theeyaga

[Paidithalli]

3 minutes ago, Amrita said:

 @samaja_varagamana

Samaja zip pettukole... shame ... shame... puppy shame 

[ekunadam_enkanna]

6 minutes ago, chicagoafdb said:

If siblings are not that useful why produce more kids..1 shld be good..if all it matters money..I mean current generation who is planning more than 1 kid..

At least a generation ago, when most of Indians depended on subsistence farming, having more kids is an asset—in terms of labor(agri labor, etc) and raw power in terms of local disputes. 

Right now, it is not the case anymore for non-poor people

 

[Kootami]

54 minutes ago, ontariontari said:

Oka thammudu - flash back to current

2010 - nenu MS ki vacha 

2012 - job start chesa 

2012-14 - Thammudi MS ki velladu(CANADA) so masters yelp sesa( around 20K)!!

2019 - My situation - Married and kid with almost 25k credit cards and 50lakh house loan in India

2019 - Thammudu Situation - Finished masters in 2K14  --> got FT job in reputed company in 2K14 --> bought a home in Canada and India still single

So I don't know where i went wrong but currently anthaga maaku matalu leve other than just hi and buy now and then 

May be I am assuming too much but inka thammudiki marriage aithe hi  kuda undakapovachu 

Same story vaa.... I was on cpt h1 pick avvaka .but still paid his fees though . Eppudu anubavistunna 

[LastManStanding]

Memu bagane untam..2 weeks ki okasari kalustam..weekly twice phone lo matladatham...money transactions lekkalu calculate cheskom..personal space aite maintain chestam

[DaVinci]

My siblings mean a lot to me. They are my support system in thick and thin. 

[Biskot2]

here is my version. naku oka sister and bother. nenu chinna

nadhi student loan and vachinaka kindha medha padi, loan clear chesukoni, job kotti ippudu baney undhi position.. 

sister tho relation  baney vuntadhi kani ma anna dhe ardham kadhu naku.. 

ma anna dheggara okkasari 1L tiskunna anthey, ayana adaga ledhu, nenu ivvala ledhu, adapa dhadapa baney help chesindu naku.. intlo full responsibility thiskuntadu.. nenu akka pelli ke oka 10L echina intla. 

ippudu ma anna married and kids, i can understand his stress, pellam pillalu, job.. intlo ippudu adhana pani untey nene anduku cheyali vadu US poyi happy ga enjoy chesthundu ani complains alot..  

vachey manu, vachi chuskomanu ani antunnadu kothaga, kopam akkuva, pedha anna kabatti anni sarlu nannu em anna nenu emi ana ledhu.. recent ga oka conversation lo.. avari life valladhi, avari kastalu vallavi ani first time mouth open chesi matladina... anthey, appada nunchi matalu levu.. hi anthe.. answer to question, question to answer anthey.. 

dont  know where it went wrong.. 

 

[idibezwada]

1 hour ago, Amrita said:

I love my sister just like my parents. Ma akka ni ma amma emanna anna kuda ooo range lo arusta and always defend her. My sister was like this since our childhood too. She was more mommy type than sissy. Na hw's chesindi scrap books chesindi records rasindi and last ki engineering drawing kuda danitoney cheyincha. I used to sleep early motham time waste chesi last min lo naku nidrostondi teacher kodutundi anedanini anthe nuvvu paduko nenu rasta ani melukoni hws chesi books bag lo sardedi kuda. Na box roju marchipote class ki vachi gurthu chesi soemtimes na bag kuda mosedi. Engg lo na dresses starch petti iron cheste vesukoni college ki poyedanini. Inter lo chemistry and physics records 3 days lo rasindi navi last min varaku rayakunda tension padutunte.  I am blessed to have a sister like her.  Tana pelli taruvata kuda nothing changed we still argue and fight like in our childhood. Ma nephew to kuda cheppinchukuntam appudappudu aputara mi arguments ani. Of course general paniki malina topics lo diff of opinion. Financial transactions happened and we don't use each other . I don't know if i am a good sister but i do have a best sister in the world.   

we know

[Rajugadu]

4 hours ago, idibezwada said:

mari siggu gurinchi matladadindi pakodiki nethulu seppadam start cheydam deniko...ataniki valla brotherki edo sync undi...nuvu athani siggu ledu ani decide sesav...what an education..

teraga tinadaniki siggu undali adi nee education lo cheppaledu emo naku chepparu anna ee kada ani roju intlo unde nee lanti em telustundi le..pakodi neethulu cheppadani nenu ne laga ullipoya pakodini kadu rooi

mee bejawada lo untaru emo siggu anedi lekunda memu undamu

[Rajugadu]

3 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

In long run that is how relationships will become. Golden rule adverse situations like job loss, illness ilanti times lone free ride cheyochu siblings meedha. Other times lo it is not acceptable. Ippudu kaakapoyina mee sibling ki kaakapoyina valla spouses ki lekapothe valla pillalaki ekkado chota dissatisfaction osthe indirect ga you are the reason. 

 

thanatha chadukukunnava nuvvu pakodi neethulu cheptunnav antadu vachi

[Rajugadu]

3 hours ago, sboyr2r said:

nenu cheptunna kada I experienced two sides of the coin. But I say that’s not how you view a relationship ani nenu antunna. ala balanced ga monetary wise vuntey I don’t feel obliged to any of my relation to go out of my way and do the things for them. 

ippudu paina dB member ki valla anna Aus nundi US oste he and his wife took time off and spent with them. Ade money calculations vuntey yeah Annaya, nenu work lo vunna I will join you guys when you are in NYC or Florida mean while you travel and see the things around antundenemo. Just an example.

I don’t want to change your thought process but I see that way. Money should be the least priority in any relationship, money emundii kukkani kodithe ostadii ani @idibezwada Ankul eppudoo cheppadu. 

sare kukkani kodithe vastundi kada oka 10cr india lo unna kids ki donate cheyi.. chepandi ra ante parthodu cheppe vadu..

vallaki money avsaram raledu so adagaledu so adagakamunde neeku iche stomatha unnapudu ivvali repu vallu adigithe nee dagara lekapothe em chestav.

nenu avasaraniki ichinnav adigithe eppudu ivvatam ledu anukoda? okasari pelli iythe neeke chala responsibilities untay past appu appudu teerchalev 

[Rajugadu]

2 hours ago, ontariontari said:

Oka thammudu - flash back to current

2010 - nenu MS ki vacha 

2012 - job start chesa 

2012-14 - Thammudi MS ki velladu(CANADA) so masters yelp sesa( around 20K)!!

2019 - My situation - Married and kid with almost 25k credit cards and 50lakh house loan in India

2019 - Thammudu Situation - Finished masters in 2K14  --> got FT job in reputed company in 2K14 --> bought a home in Canada and India still single

So I don't know where i went wrong but currently anthaga maaku matalu leve other than just hi and buy now and then 

May be I am assuming too much but inka thammudiki marriage aithe hi  kuda undakapovachu 

Haha reality anthe