Mom about pregnant daughter

[Deadp0ol2]

My 17 yo daughter (youngest and we had her late) is 7 weeks pregnant (she will be 18 by the time she gives birth) She is not in a relationship with the father. He reeaallyyy, I can't stress this enough, does not want a baby. I honestly don't even think he'll show up for the birth or anything.

She has decided to continue with the pregnancy against all advice from practically every adult in her life. After she insisted on not only continuing with the pregnancy but raising the baby I asked her how she is going to manage that? This was the jist of the convo:

Her: I'll get a job. Me: who's going to watch baby while you're at work? Her: I thought you and dad could. Me: absolutely not, I'm not raising another baby.

Pretty much a back and forth for a bit that lead me to believe that if she has this baby in this house, I'm practically going to be its mother. I'm very recently retired and my husband is retiring in exactly 11 months (there's a countdown) and this is not how I want to spend my retirement years. It's not fair to us. So I told her that she has until baby is born to find a place to live. Husband has always been wrapped around her finger (which normally is endearing, I love how much he loves our children) so he is not fully on board with that but I feel like we need to be united on this. I just want to know if I'm in the wrong here.

 

Indian parents also same crying ani parents association president @psycopk telling  ...poor parents 

 

 

[psycopk]

nice happened to 17yrs old.... where is kid's dad? what r his plans besides making her pergnant..

[Deadp0ol2]

3 minutes ago, psycopk said:

nice happened to 17yrs old.... where is kid's dad? what r his plans besides making her pergnant..

 

11 minutes ago, Deadp0ol2 said:

My 17 yo daughter (youngest and we had her late) is 7 weeks pregnant (she will be 18 by the time she gives birth) She is not in a relationship with the father. He reeaallyyy, I can't stress this enough, does not want a baby. I honestly don't even think he'll show up for the birth or anything.

She has decided to continue with the pregnancy against all advice from practically every adult in her life. After she insisted on not only continuing with the pregnancy but raising the baby I asked her how she is going to manage that? This was the jist of the convo:

Her: I'll get a job. Me: who's going to watch baby while you're at work? Her: I thought you and dad could. Me: absolutely not, I'm not raising another baby.

Pretty much a back and forth for a bit that lead me to believe that if she has this baby in this house, I'm practically going to be its mother. I'm very recently retired and my husband is retiring in exactly 11 months (there's a countdown) and this is not how I want to spend my retirement years. It's not fair to us. So I told her that she has until baby is born to find a place to live. Husband has always been wrapped around her finger (which normally is endearing, I love how much he loves our children) so he is not fully on board with that but I feel like we need to be united on this. I just want to know if I'm in the wrong here.

 

Indian parents also same crying ani parents association president @psycopk telling  ...poor parents 

 

 

 

[psycopk]

2 minutes ago, Deadp0ol2 said:

 

 

oh..i thought she is not in relationship with her father... good... she will have hell of a ride... 

[Aryaa]

3 minutes ago, psycopk said:

oh..i thought she is not in relationship with her father... good... she will have hell of a ride... 

Do you want to take care of her uncle 

[psycopk]

Just now, Aryaa said:

Do you want to take care of her uncle 

I go with her mother's thoughts..

[Ram51]

16 yrs ki driving license tho paatu kandoms kuda ivvali ikkada janalaki 

[johnydanylee]

Case vesi padeyamanu...chattam daani pani adi chestundi