Man lost 100 lbs to join the US Army

[Amrita]

Just now, Quickgun_murugan said:

nee enkamma.. endi intha pedda article rasavu??

Venky asan laga peace ela vethukovalo  life lo rasanu @Quickgun_murugan . I know people will call me crazy but peace boledu undi ante vaddu vaddu ani vere path choose chesukoni edavadamela ani 

[Quickgun_murugan]

Just now, Amrita said:

Venky asan laga peace ela vethukovalo  life lo rasanu @Quickgun_murugan . I know people will call me crazy but peace boledu undi ante vaddu vaddu ani vere path choose chesukoni edavadamela ani 

[Amrita]

Just now, sboyr2r said:

Nee concept edaithe vundooo yuk vundii asalu pori toh lekapotey straight man  ki another man toh  vundalsina avasaram emundii. 

When did i say not to have a girl ? I just said dont live in with a girl ever or marry ever. Pelli is not just for mating. If a person is marryign just for that then thats more yuck !

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

Chadavaledu essay kabatti annav edi. I will be really surprised if a person from DB really say this.  

[jefferson1]

Just now, Amrita said:

Chadavaledu essay kabatti annav edi. I will be really surprised if a person from DB really say this.  

Intha vyragyam ravataniki karanam?

[LazyRohit]

Just now, Amrita said:

Chadavaledu essay kabatti annav edi. I will be really surprised if a person from DB really say this.  

ne reply iccha chudu 

[tennisluvr]

14 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Concept enti ante in general asalu abbayilu kottukoni chavaru they are very compatible with friends so why not they live with a guy who is a best friend or share same level of compatibility ? This way roju wiring different unna ammayi to padaka chavakkarledu. Vere ammayito matladina doubts gola em undadu. In general too wiring different valla expectations gola em undadu same sync lo untaru. If they really want a woman they have sources too and em sri rama chandrullu elano kadu. Jeevitam lo edanna sadhinchakapovadaniki wife aey karanam anna gola undadu like many threads posted blah blah blah. Nijam ga fatherhood aey kavali anukunte lokam lo ento mandi abandoned babies unnaru haayiga techukoni penchukovachu and can give great life to them. Punyam for giving them life and purushardham as life has a meaning for us having taking birth. Also, population to chastunnam pillani kanakunda penchukovadam is also a great contribution to society. Pelli is not just for mating mainly emotional needs though its just part of it. Eppudu whine chesi edustu pelli pelli ani chesukovadam kante live in with a compatible guy who same gender to share same thought process. Old age todu and emotional needs key ayite opp gender aey avasaram ledu. Enni benefits unna e path ni vadilesi just gender gender antu pelli chesukoni why whining ? Peace peace ani edustu peace option unna ah path choose enduku chusukoru ani.  Edi na thought ki vachindi. Pelli with opp gender is not mandatory. 

Actually men key enduku work out avutundi annnu ante men can live happily without godavalu with other men but women cant. Adollu eddaru oka roof kinda undaleru long term danikanna pelli with a guy is better option ( Inko ammayi to kanna abbayi aey less nonsense nuisance.) but its not same with men so edi enduku evaru opt cheyatledu rather than whining was my question. Vallu first navvaru but yes future lo edi bane implement avutundi desis ki time padutundi emo annaru. 

Americans are opting out of marriage in general . But nadi living with same gender concept.

Ippudu naku pelli dani upayogala gurinchi dont write essays. I know benefits of marriage too and about natural attraction process. My concept was for unhappy people who always whine about marriage/ women. 

Americans may opt out of marriages but even that's not predominant, and even then they manage to live as a couple in a committed relationship. What you described seems more like someone that is resigned to their fate as they aren't able to attract a suitable mate, and console themselves by saying "grapes are sour anyway". 

If someone were to truly want to lead a life like that, they would do that without complaining about doing it due to a lack of options or difficulty in finding a suitable partner. My 2c. 

[Quickgun_murugan]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Chadavaledu essay kabatti annav edi. I will be really surprised if a person from DB really say this.  

Nee meeda nammakamtho anna....

Nijmga chadavaledu... antha pedda essay ... tarvatha chaduvutha... 

[sboyr2r]

Just now, Amrita said:

When did i say not to have a girl ? I just said dont live in with a girl ever or marry ever. Pelli is not just for mating. If a person is marryign just for that then thats more yuck !

Nee living with men part is not justified here.

Mating/physical needs/emotional need/progeny pakkana pettu 

the very first intention of you mentioning to be living with a man (being straight) ee ardam kaley.

adoption ki— neeku teliyani vishayam entii ante it’s easy for a single woman to adopt but not single guy especially if he wants to adopt a girl. 

[tennisluvr]

Just now, sboyr2r said:

Nee living with men part is not justified here.

Mating/physical needs/emotional need/progeny pakkana pettu 

the very first intention of you mentioning to be living with a man (being straight) ee ardam kaley.

adoption ki— neeku teliyani vishayam entii ante it’s easy for a single woman to adopt but not single guy especially if he wants to adopt a girl. 

Absolutely, also not everyone wants to take parental responsibilities. That too trying to foster a kid with a parent of the same sex whom as per the author isn't in an emotionally binding relationship with. 

Chances of this happening in reality - less than 0.1%

[tennisluvr]

9 minutes ago, sboyr2r said:

Nee concept edaithe vundooo yuk vundii asalu pori toh lekapotey straight man  ki another man toh  vundalsina avasaram emundii. 

Don't worry, most men won't think about doing this. Even those men who are in their 40s and 50s and single that I know of prefer living by themselves and not sharing space with another male. 

[tennisluvr]

8 minutes ago, Amrita said:

When did i say not to have a girl ? I just said dont live in with a girl ever or marry ever. Pelli is not just for mating. If a person is marryign just for that then thats more yuck !

Pelli makes a lot of sense in a lot of ways if two people were to want to live with each other and co-exist. They will have financial, emotional, sexual support as well. 

Marrying someone for mating purpose and then establishing an emotional bond with that person over the course of their lives is the cornerstone of all arranged marriages, which most of us are a part of. 

To term that yuck is even more cringeworthy. 

[Amrita]

Just now, jefferson1 said:

Intha vyragyam ravataniki karanam?

Nakem vayaragyam raledu . I neither hate men nor against against marriage. Animals have partners too and we just do a function extra as celebration. I just don't glorify marriage as a great successful milestone.  But society lo adedo sadhinchesam ane feeling adi kuda parents ethukutu  chesukuntu especiallyy in our society inka animals ki partners ave vetukuntayi. Its just a phase of life in my opinion. But the concept i talked works for some people who think they will lose peace / progress in life with marriage. Actually e thought alochinche laga chesindi oka 2 ids who posted threads about their wives saying progress ledu life lo and another thread saying wife to kashtalu blah blah blah. 

[sboyr2r]

1 minute ago, tennisluvr said:

Absolutely, also not everyone wants to take parental responsibilities. That too trying to foster a kid with a parent of the same sex whom as per the author isn't in an emotionally binding relationship with. 

Chances of this happening in reality - less than 0.1%

Also as per original post of Amrita men do share camaraderie but only to a certain level. Not to an extent of living together rest of the life being straight. 

[tennisluvr]

1 minute ago, sboyr2r said:

Also as per original post of Amrita men do share camaraderie but only to a certain level. Not to an extent of living together rest of the life being straight.