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6 minutes ago, Meow said:

Well, @uttermost is definitely more liberal, but you're not just conservative...sometimes you take it to the extreme especially when you make chauvanistic claims about how women can never be as smart as men.

Oh btw, women don't need your protection, what they need is respect for their worth. 

 

Respect and protection are two different concepts. They are not mutually exclusive. 

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37 minutes ago, Staysafebro said:

Respect and protection are two different concepts. They are not mutually exclusive. 

How can you respect something when you you think of it as fragile enough to need protection? So, what you respect is the idea of a woman, but not her ideals. I have a feeling you think that women need protection with their body or dignity as you call it (which any chauvanistic man would feel like). But what a woman really needs protection with is her thoughts, ideals and aspirations, not necessarily with her body. Trust me I myself am very conservative, but I wouldn't ever want to be with someone who thinks that women can't be as good as men at what they do. That's just so lame. 

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Just now, Meow said:

How can you respect something when you you think of it as fragile enough to need protection? So, what you respect is the idea of a woman, but not her ideals. I have a feeling you think that women need protection is with their body or dignity as you call it (which any chauvanistic man would feel like). But what a woman really needs protection with is her thoughts, ideals and aspirations, not necessarily with her body. Trust me I myself am very conservative, but I wouldn't ever want to be with someone that thinks that women can't be as good as men at what they do. That's just so lame. 

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13 minutes ago, Meow said:

How can you respect something when you you think of it as fragile enough to need protection? So, what you respect is the idea of a woman, but not her ideals. I have a feeling you think that women need protection with their body or dignity as you call it (which any chauvanistic man would feel like). But what a woman really needs protection with is her thoughts, ideals and aspirations, not necessarily with her body. Trust me I myself am very conservative, but I wouldn't ever want to be with someone that thinks that women can't be as good as men at what they do. That's just so lame. 

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Anyway..papam ekuvagane fire ayyya ladies meda. Inka lite teskunta. Peace :)

Emanukoku ra @Daaarling ga. Ninnu ekkuve target chesa. Kani patience tho control lo undi ekkada reverse counter veyakunda bane control lo unav. Good job my boy. Nee manobhavalu hurt chesunte manninchu. No personal grudge. :)

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1 minute ago, ChinnaBhasha said:

rey, night padkune mundu start aindi ee thread. Inka disco sestunnaru. Endi vayya idi. 

Naa die hard fans velantha..kulasaga kaburlu chepukuntunam

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5 hours ago, Meow said:

How can you respect something when you you think of it as fragile enough to need protection? So, what you respect is the idea of a woman, but not her ideals. I have a feeling you think that women need protection with their body or dignity as you call it (which any chauvanistic man would feel like). But what a woman really needs protection with is her thoughts, ideals and aspirations, not necessarily with her body. Trust me I myself am very conservative, but I wouldn't ever want to be with someone that thinks that women can't be as good as men at what they do. That's just so lame. 

Ideals change. Heck they are not even constant in the general population. They are just merely opinions that have been fed into the psyche of the general population for nefarious reasons. Why do ideals need protection btw? Will people stop following their ideals if you don’t protect them?

Imo women are good at doing certain things such as raising children/ taking care of the house. They should be doing things what they are naturally capable of doing. There are many women who do just that. So should they break what they have right now and do whatever you want them to do? 

Your idea of respect for women is also laughable FYI. You just said woman should be respected for what “they are worth”. So what is the definition of an unworthy woman?  The ones that are not as educated as the women who are? The ones who don’t make as much money? The ones who have conservative values? You are not conservative btw. Let us not willy-nilly throw that term around. You have said that men should choose women who are smart. Guess what? Not all women are smart. Who chooses them? Everything lies in a spectrum. Someone needs to make a choice. You talk from your own context without considering the fact that there are women who don't think like you and want to maintain the invisible status quo. Some exclusively want to raise children, some want to take care of their home. What is wrong in that? It is just the way things are.

Notelast post, not in the mood to take conversations like this further.

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17 minutes ago, Staysafebro said:

Ideals change. Heck they are not even constant in the general population. They are just merely opinions that have been fed into the psyche of the general population for nefarious reasons. Why do ideals need protection btw? Will people stop following their ideals if you don’t protect them?

Imo women are good at doing certain things such as raising children/ taking care of the house. They should be doing things what they are naturally capable of doing. There are many women who do just that. So should they break what they have right now and do whatever they want? 

Your idea of respect for women is also laughable FYI. You just said woman should be respected for what “they are worth”. So what is the definition an unworthy woman?  The ones that are not as educated as the women who are? The ones who don’t make as much money? The ones who have conservative values? You are not conservative btw. Let us not willy-nilly throw that term around. You have said that men should choose woman who are smart. Guess what? Not all women are smart. Who chooses them? Everything lies in a spectrum. Someone needs to make a choice. You talk from your own context without considering the fact that there are women who don't think like you and want to maintain the invisible status quo. Some exclusively want to raise children, some want to take care of their home. What is wrong in that? It is just the way things are.

First off, you don't get to decide if I am conservative or not. You don't know me enough to say that. What defines being conservative? You tell me.

Putting that aside, I never said education is what determines your worth, it can be anything, as long as you respect them for their worth. I don't think anyone is unworthy, you will only find their worth once you know them. Besides, not every woman is good at taking care of the household and shouldn't be asked to do that as if it's their "defined role". 

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