akka valla tho asthulu godavalu

[riashli]

8 minutes ago, AleAle said:

Gold girl ki asti son ki anthe lol

That is old saying 

but law prakaram both are equal ,equal share veltadi will rayakapote

 

And that saying still continues..

[riashli]

Am out of this thread.. bitter moments gurthu vastunnayi 

[aakathaai_new]

12 minutes ago, riashli said:

 

Husband side vallu harass chestaru most cases lo, so girls ask for their share. Oka brother responsibility tisukunnadu sisters di, thats good part, but he shldnt be comparing that aspect with property issues.. I didn't like that. 

Hindu succession act 1956 prakaram daughter ki father property lo equal right untundani vinnaanu

[Idassamed]

4 minutes ago, aakathaai_new said:

Hindu succession act 1956 prakaram daughter ki father property lo equal right untundani vinnaanu

Yes, adhe chattam.

[MRI]

7 hours ago, AleAle said:

pelli chesindi kalsi undadaniki , mari malli pelli ki karchu avvada, pelli karchulu and katnam tiskovali ichi unte

katnam teesukoni vallu , idi naku telidu  but most of them take dowry, dowry ivvani tiskoni marriage okkati kuda nenu chudledu ma familes lo.arranged marriages annitlo dowry involve ayi untundi, tiskoledu ani annadante its fake story. dowry ante lumsome cash+ property .ikda topic katnam ichi pelli cheydam, asalu families lo once katnam ichaka dani gurinchi matladaddu antaru , in my case also we didnt demand money or alimony , though my dad gave dowry to him/his mother.aa money memu tiskoledu  return and vadi papana vadu potadu ani vadilesam, yes i wanted them in jail thats it , naku money vaddu...1000 crores ichina naku jargina reputation damage podu and u cant value my life with money . It varies again families to families

ikda context veru , u r diverting topic

ikda topic brother spending money for sister, lot of brothers does if father is incapable of doing daughters marriages 

 

topic evvadu dvert cheyatledu. Mee convenience kosam pelli meeda pettina kharchu pattinchukovaddu annavu. Dani gurinchey matladutunna. Nuvvu raasina statement ney quote chestey topic diversion antaventi?

I don't care about your situation. No where did I go personal but you are going personal and getting defensive. If I respond then it will be a personal attack. Don't make it a personal argument.

mee intlo jarigina vishayaalu lokam antha avutayi anukoku. Dowry teesukoledu antey lying anta. Adey ammayilu chesey vaatini antey em antaru? victim roles modalu pedataru. Most educated decent family people nowadays believe in themselves and don't plan on dowry. Dowry is evil laaga choopistunnaru kani I don't see nothing wrong in it within limits. Oka vela dowry ichina mostly abbayiki cash chetilo pettadu. Ammayi peru meedey raasukuntaru. 

tandri chetakaanodu ayithey ani antha easy ga anesavu.. pillalani penchadamey pedda achievement.. antha penchaka kooda needi nuvvu choosukolekapovadam nee chetagaani tanam.. ela ayithey i am early in my life and cannot afford anukuni sardicheppukuntavo.. same with guy as well.. that's why people ask for dowry or financial protection if something goes wrong.. jeevithantham baabu leda mogudu petti posinchaala? ammayilu em chestaru? nagalu cheeralu cosmetics ani tirugutaara? when a woman feels rightful that his brother needs to spend money because her father is incapable, the guy also feels equivalent property is his right.. antha equal rights annollu sampadinchi valla pellillu vallu chesukondi. In this case and many cases, brother spent because they may have developed an attachment to the properties the family owns and he did not want to sell them because he has liquid cash available in hand.. 

[AleAle]

4 minutes ago, MRI said:

topic evvadu dvert cheyatledu. Mee convenience kosam pelli meeda pettina kharchu pattinchukovaddu annavu. Dani gurinchey matladutunna. Nuvvu raasina statement ney quote chestey topic diversion antaventi?

I don't care about your situation. No where did I go personal but you are going personal and getting defensive. If I respond then it will be a personal attack.

mee intlo jarigina vishayaalu lokam antha avutayi anukoku. Dowry teesukoledu antey lying anta. Adey ammayilu chesey vaatini antey em antaru? victim roles modalu pedataru. Most educated decent family people nowadays believe in themselves and don't plan on dowry. Dowry is evil laaga choopistunnaru kani I don't see nothing wrong in it within limits. Oka vela dowry ichina mostly abbayiki cash chetilo pettadu. Ammayi peru meedey raasukuntaru. 

tandri chetakaanodu ayithey ani antha easy ga anesavu.. pillalani penchadamey pedda achievement.. antha penchaka kooda needi nuvvu choosukolekapovadam nee chetagaani tanam.. ela ayithey i am early in my life and cannot afford anukuni sardicheppukuntavo.. same with guy as well.. that's why people ask for dowry or financial protection if something goes wrong.. jeevithantham baabu leda mogudu petti posinchaala? ammayilu em chestaru? nagalu cheeralu cosmetics ani tirugutaara? when a woman feels rightful that his brother needs to spend money because her father is incapable, the guy also feels equivalent property is his right.. antha equal rights annollu sampadinchi valla pellillu vallu chesukondi. In this case and many cases, brother spent because they may have developed an attachment to the properties the family owns and he did not want to sell them because he has liquid cash available in hand.. 

Ammayi brother pettali brother dabbu tinali brother money tiskovali ani expect cheyaru ,don’t generalize

nuvu cheppedani prakaram

asalu Indian paddati arranged marriages cheskokudadu ade dowry caste arranged marriage 

asalu it’s father responsibility Pelli cheydam karchupettadam,siblings ki parents ki pette money ila lekkalu veydam bagoledu

there are many ladies who spend money for their brothers too ,Ikda ada maga kadu

best freind ki sibling ki parents ki karchupedte money ani lekkalu vesi racha cheskoddu,if you need money ask straight that u r in need ante iste istaru leda ledu

Na life na circle lo katnalu leni marriages chudledu so na life ki related gane comment chestanu I didn’t generalize and nuvu ante nee experiences ki tagattu ni comments 

ikda ts pelli karchulu petta kabatti vata ki rakudadu antunte,

ts lage repoddina ma brother n sisters ni chadivincha,parents health anitiki karchupetta 2 crs karchupetta so ma father Naku asti ekuva ivvali ani lady kuda post cheyochu

ts full clarity toh post cheste teerpu cheptadi db janam sagam sagam post vesi velpoyadu

[MRI]

42 minutes ago, AleAle said:

Ammayi brother pettali brother dabbu tinali brother money tiskovali ani expect cheyaru ,don’t generalize

nuvu cheppedani prakaram

asalu Indian paddati arranged marriages cheskokudadu ade dowry caste arranged marriage 

asalu it’s father responsibility Pelli cheydam karchupettadam,siblings ki parents ki pette money ila lekkalu veydam bagoledu

there are many ladies who spend money for their brothers too ,Ikda ada maga kadu

best freind ki sibling ki parents ki karchupedte money ani lekkalu vesi racha cheskoddu,if you need money ask straight that u r in need ante iste istaru leda ledu

Na life na circle lo katnalu leni marriages chudledu so na life ki related gane comment chestanu I didn’t generalize and nuvu ante nee experiences ki tagattu ni comments 

ikda ts pelli karchulu petta kabatti vata ki rakudadu antunte,

ts lage repoddina ma brother n sisters ni chadivincha,parents health anitiki karchupetta 2 crs karchupetta so ma father Naku asti ekuva ivvali ani lady kuda post cheyochu

ts full clarity toh post cheste teerpu cheptadi db janam sagam sagam post vesi velpoyadu

katnam teesukoledu antey lying ani generalize chesindi nuvva nena? pelliki ayina kharchulu lekkeyoddu ani generalize chesedi nuvva nena?

Indian paddati marriages ani neekochina definition ichukoku. Greed for money started in the last 1-2 centuries. Indian marriages are not like this. Kottaga pellaina jantaki koncham sahayam ga vundalani istaru. and chinna vallu kada valla korikalu kooda vuntayi dabbu gurinchi alochinchakunda ani. Ichindi kooda ammayi peru meeda istaru.

gender equality antooney nanna bhadyata.. siblings and parents meeda lekkalu veyoddu antunna ivanni only males key applicable chestaru.. how many times did you see an older sister supporting her brother without asking for money back? college lo vunna poragaadiki tirugullaki pettina kharchu gurinchi matladaku.. adi chellellaki kooda istaru.. anthenduku ikkadey nanna bhadyata annavu kaani amma bhadyata ani enduku analedu? the point is both genders are not equal and I agree it should be parent's responsibility (as I see mom and dad as one).. and I hope kids get independent.. 

tanu sampadinchina dabbuni kooda adagali.. and istey istaru leka pothey leda? chandalamga anipinchatledu vere vaadi kashtam teesukovadaniki

naa experiences antava.. prati 498A case lo pelliki intha kharchu pettam ani settlement taggara adugutaru.. abbayi vallu reception ki kharchu pedataru.. ammayiki bangaram istaru.. aa topic ettaru.. prati case lo abbayidey tappu ani decide chestaru..  

ee situation gurinchi antava.. nenu em annano choodu.. it should be fair irrespective of gender.. sampadinchedey welfare kosam.. aa kharchulu pettey evvarinaina aadukovali.. maga ayina aada ayina doesn't matter..

[MRI]

21 hours ago, MRI said:

chetitho rupayi sampadinchukovadam raadu kaani.. paisal ani egabadadaaniki modata vuntaru vellu.. Bring it up with your dad dude.. godava padalsina avasaram ledu kaani.. soft ga.. intha pettanu kada nanna.. malli equal share antey naaku anyayam ga anipistundi.. malli legal godavalu lekunda meerey choodandi.. ippatikuppudu naakemi vaddu ani matladu.. tandri annaka aa maatram matladeu svecha vundaali neeku.. leda mee akkalu and baavalaki phone chesi direct cheppu.. vallu ela react avutaro choosi same vishayam mellaga mee nanna ki etti paristhitullo cheppali..

 

21 hours ago, ChinnaBhasha said:

What swecha fichakayal man? full properties rayamante rastaru ma intlo ipudu on my name. son should have that rapo with parents. 

 

21 hours ago, MRI said:

nenu annadi.. naanna taggara kutumba vishayaalu matladadaaniki sankochinchoddu ani. 

Son should have a rapo aney comment ni I don't agree. All kids should have fair stake irrespective of gender. 

 

21 hours ago, ChinnaBhasha said:

Me Not that liberal vuncle, iam bit conservative. I have more rights ani feel avta nenu. I might be wrong, but I don't want to be ideal either. 

 

20 hours ago, MRI said:

don't give tags bro.. mana culture conservative avutey women ki respect and women ni queens kaakunda slaves anetollu.. there wouldn't have been females ruling kingdoms.. a person needs to be judged by that person's potential.

you are allowed to have your opinion.. but i feel that gender is something that that perosn decides.. everyone should be treated the same.. if you are taking care of your parents, you should get a higher share.. if they are taking care, they should get a higher share..