How to get divorce from wife if both live in USA

[BetaCat]

5 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Arey ma side vallatho oka msg chesina call chesina thana permission kavali.. godava enduku ley ani .. prati sari evarina call cheste.. matladala ani adugutha bhayya.. still ila godava cheste etla.. I used to have so much short temper and rude ga vundevadini before marriage..after marriage anni thagginchi vunte mari slave la treat chestundi.. ika navalla kavatle.. India veldam ani anukunna prati sari godava.. 5 years ayindi velli. Ma Parents call chesi edustunte... vekki vekki edavatam thappinchi emi ledu 😪.. suicide chesukoni chavali ani vundi.. papa gurinchi aganu..

Ma parents are getting old and they are calm.. Ilanti valla mida enduku antha hatred. Vallu manushule kada. 

It's better if you tell your parents what's going on, and not talk with them until it gets better. 

[lovemystate]

2 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Arey ma side vallatho oka msg chesina call chesina thana permission kavali.. godava enduku ley ani .. prati sari evarina call cheste.. matladala ani adugutha bhayya.. still ila godava cheste etla.. I used to have so much short temper and rude ga vundevadini before marriage..after marriage anni thagginchi vunte mari slave la treat chestundi.. ika navalla kavatle.. India veldam ani anukunna prati sari godava.. 5 years ayindi velli. Ma Parents call chesi edustunte... vekki vekki edavatam thappinchi emi ledu 😪.. suicide chesukoni chavali ani vundi.. papa gurinchi aganu..

Ma parents are getting old and they are calm.. Ilanti valla mida enduku antha hatred. Vallu manushule kada. 

Arey ..if you show such weakness even your mother will stop respecting you. Learn to have an aath care attitude. First seperate bedroom. Second cut her off from your life other than minimum needed to work as a family for few months then see if it changes her. Dont make the mistake of praising or showing love especially when she treates with you such contempt. She will have even more contempt for you. finally if it is divorce so be it. but usually most women dont go for divorce they just threaten if they think the threat works.

[xano917]

1 minute ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Eppudu thanani bhaga pogudutune vuntanu.. nilaga evaru vundaru.. you are good and have somuch patience adi idi ani.. ala ayina maraledu.. Therapy ki veltham adhe better.

close dukanam in DB and go to therapy dude.

bazaar lo yevvaram pettaku 

[BetaCat]

Just now, lovemystate said:

Arey ..if you show such weakness even your mother will stop respecting you. Learn to have an aath care attitude. First seperate bedroom. Second cut her off from your life other than minimum needed to work as a family for few months then see if it changes her. Dont make the mistake of praising or showing love especially when she treates with you such contempt. She will have even more contempt for you. finally if it is divorce so be it. but usually most women dont go for divorce they just threaten if they think the threat works.

You don't think straight if you're suffering from depression. That's the problem here.

[JonSnowUSA]

Just now, quirky said:

Pelli ayyina kothalo ela undedi?ila permission la varaku endukuvochindi

Sorry for your situation.How did you let this happen?Eppudu open ga discuss chesukoleda? 

 

Emo ala ayipoyindi. Edo india lo function lpo thanani ma side relatives pattinchukoledanta.. bhaga ego thanaki.. ma relatives evaru matladaru thanatho.. andaritho edo oka godava eppudu. Nenu chala jolly ga free ga vundevadini.. devudu naku ilanti wife istadu ani expect cheyale.

[BetaCat]

Is your wife working? If she is not working, get her to do a job or college ASAP,  it will help get her mind off other things and feel more confident about herself. 

[JonSnowUSA]

2 minutes ago, BetaCat said:

It's better if you tell your parents what's going on, and not talk with them until it gets better. 

I never told about my situation to anyone... Ma amma ki cheptha thanu manchiga artham chesukogaladu.. Ila emi cheppakapothe na heart break ayi chastanemo.

[LazyRohit]

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[JonSnowUSA]

5 minutes ago, lovemystate said:

Arey ..if you show such weakness even your mother will stop respecting you. Learn to have an aath care attitude. First seperate bedroom. Second cut her off from your life other than minimum needed to work as a family for few months then see if it changes her. Dont make the mistake of praising or showing love especially when she treates with you such contempt. She will have even more contempt for you. finally if it is divorce so be it. but usually most women dont go for divorce they just threaten if they think the threat works.

Thanks bro.. Alane chesta.

[JonSnowUSA]

2 minutes ago, LazyRohit said:

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[DaVinci]

33 minutes ago, JonSnowUSA said:

Adhe anipinchindi.. I had gone through alot.. Ma wife full money oriented.. na phone chudatam.. na bank alert message chudatam.. thanaku doubt vaste gola gola chesi transactions chudatam. Parents ki birthday and anniversary ki chinna chinna gifts koniste kuda vorchukoledu. Ila cheppukuntu pothe 4 years ani godavale vuntayi... Ma parents ayithe na wife gurinchi single word (I quote) okkati kuda analedu naku telisi. but ma wife ki enduku antha hatred vundo asalu artham kadu. Evari influence vundo artham kavatledu.

Do you know if she was in an abusive relationship in the past?

[Scada]

 @kathanayaka 

[JonSnowUSA]

5 minutes ago, BetaCat said:

Is your wife working? If she is not working, get her to do a job or college ASAP,  it will help get her mind off other things and feel more confident about herself. 

No she doesn't work. I too felt that.. 

[BetaCat]

Just now, JonSnowUSA said:

No she doesn't work. I too felt that.. 

Get her to college or work immediately. Don't think about visa and other stuff in this situation. 

[Scada]

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