Abusive relationships

[DaVinci]

do the person abusing his/her partner realize the trauma they are causing to their partners? Chaala generalized question ayi undochu

Chaala relationships lo one partner is more giving than the other..instead of feeling lucky, daani weakness la teesukoni partner ni abuse/harrass chesthu vaalaki narakam chupinche vaalu society lo chaala mandey unnaru. For one reason or another, inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu kuda entha mando unnaru.. barinchelaka extreme measures teesukune ammayakulu unnaru.. 

I really wish there are more avenues to come out and discuss - to heal oneself - these things; and whoever is going through such abuse and exploitation find more organic methods to deal with/come out of such relationships. 

 

 

[Biskot2]

[MagaMaharaju]

The abuser doesn't realize, they are never sorry, they are always the victim, they are narcissistic

and it's always about them. they are the least considerate human beings.

[MagaMaharaju]

every relationship has a rosy phase. people put up with the other person expecting things would go back to once they were.

But reality is different. Nothing's ever gonna change. Just time flies.

 

[Sachin200]

Just now, MagaMaharaju said:

every relationship has a rosy phase. people put up with the other person expecting things would go back to once they were.

But reality is different. Nothing's ever gonna change. Just time flies.

 

Book rayachu ga

[MagaMaharaju]

Just now, Sachin200 said:

Book rayachu ga

Book kakapoina I want to write an article about this when time comes.

I want to fill some hope in a second person.

[DaVinci]

4 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

The abuser doesn't realize, they are never sorry, they are always the victim, they are narcissistic

and it's always about them. they are the least considerate human beings.

Seen such cases. Playing with/manipulating the partner's emotions. Never letting them go. Making the other person feel insufficient. For such people, the partner's existence is just to serve their whims and fancies.  

[DaVinci]

6 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

every relationship has a rosy phase. people put up with the other person expecting things would go back to once they were.

But reality is different. Nothing's ever gonna change. Just time flies.

 

Something like Stockholm Syndrome

[MagaMaharaju]

4 minutes ago, DaVinci said:

Seen such cases. Playing with/manipulating the partner's emotions. Never letting them go. Making the other person feel insufficient. For such people, the partner's existence is just to serve their whims and fancies.  

Toxic people veellu. entha thoraga entha dooram paripothe antha best

[MagaMaharaju]

1 minute ago, DaVinci said:

Something like Stockholm Syndrome

Yes. When there is nothing else left, people adjust with something.

Adhi kind of cope up mechanism

[riashli]

Happens 

[Scada]

following 

[DaVinci]

2 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Toxic people veellu. entha thoraga entha dooram paripothe antha best

True. Paariponiyakunda emotional ga blackmail chesthaaru ilaanti cases lo. Adi partner entha tondarga realize avthe antha better

[Spartan]

[riashli]

3 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Toxic people veellu. entha thoraga entha dooram paripothe antha best

But dooram ga vellaru