Abusive relationships

[DaVinci]

51 minutes ago, Scada said:

1. One person love ni other person all cases lo appreciate cheyali ani rule unda ? without any effort love  and attention free ga ostunte inka partner ni enduku appreciate chestaru chpu !!! Manam deni kosam ina effort pedithe ne kadha dani result ni appreciate chesedi .

2. Society lo ila harass chesthu narakam chupinche vallu ekuvaga leru,  self worth teliyaka a abuse ni barinche vallu ekuva. courage  a unte M lo di nuv oddu appreciation less relation ship oddu ani elpotaru.

3. inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu inka valla bad luck anukovale. Papam valaki a devude help cheyale

4. Avenues and organic endi ankul. 😀

1. Agree. Basic thing but not many realize it. 

2. Statistical ga evaru entha unnaro naaku teliyadu. Recent incidents chusi abuse gurinchi post chedaam anukunna. Initial post lo chaala mandi ani mention chesina.. statistical ga kaadu. 

2.3.4, courage anedi andariki undakapovochu, aa bad luck category vaalu bayataku ochi cheppukovadam  kuda kastame.. vaala kosam genuine ga support chese support mechanism kaavali.. and motivation/self-help laanti vaati valla trauma nundi bayataku osthaaru anedi temporary thing.. trauma related mood swings anedi oka vicious cycle.. daani nundi bayataku raavali ante professional support teesukovaali ani chepthunaanu

[MagaMaharaju]

1 minute ago, DaVinci said:

1. Agree. Basic thing but not many realize it. 

2. Statistical ga evaru entha unnaro naaku teliyadu. 

2.3.4, courage anedi andariki undakapovochu, aa bad luck category vaalu bayataku ochi cheppukovadam  kuda kastame.. vaala kosam genuine ga support chese support mechanism kaavali.. and motivation/self-help laanti vaati valla trauma nundi bayataku osthaaru anedi temporary thing.. trauma related mood swings anedi oka vicious cycle.. daani nundi bayataku raavali ante professional support teesukovaali ani chepthunaanu

yea family friends support undali. lekapothe chala kashtam. Daily matlade vallu undali US lo specially. Unfortunately antha time attention second person kosam pettevallu thakkuva.

Luck undali to have such friends. Therapist daggarki velli athaniki dabbulu kattedhi just to share and talk all about it.

telsina vallaki enduku cheppam ante judge cheyakunda vine vallu thakkuva.

 

[DaVinci]

11 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

yea family friends support undali. lekapothe chala kashtam. Daily matlade vallu undali US lo specially. Unfortunately antha time attention second person kosam pettevallu thakkuva.

Luck undali to have such friends. Therapist daggarki velli athaniki dabbulu kattedhi just to share and talk all about it.

telsina vallaki enduku cheppam ante judge cheyakunda vine vallu thakkuva.

 

US sangathi teliyadu kaani.. India lo aithe konni dabbulu teesukokunda help chese organizations unnayi. 

@anyone who need the info, please pm me. I can share the details

 

[MagaMaharaju]

2 minutes ago, DaVinci said:

US sangathi teliyadu kaani.. India lo aithe konni dabbulu teesukokunda help chese organizations unnayi. 

@anyone who need the info, please pm me. I can share the details

 

yea great.

 

[Sachin200]

14 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

yea great.

 

Consulting nuvvu  cheyachu ga , 200$/hr or 300$/hr

[jua_java]

1 hour ago, DaVinci said:

do the person abusing his/her partner realize the trauma they are causing to their partners? Chaala generalized question ayi undochu

Chaala relationships lo one partner is more giving than the other..instead of feeling lucky, daani weakness la teesukoni partner ni abuse/harrass chesthu vaalaki narakam chupinche vaalu society lo chaala mandey unnaru. For one reason or another, inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu kuda entha mando unnaru.. barinchelaka extreme measures teesukune ammayakulu unnaru.. 

I really wish there are more avenues to come out and discuss - to heal oneself - these things; and whoever is going through such abuse and exploitation find more organic methods to deal with/come out of such relationships. 

 

 

Very true ! One of the worst situations to be in ! 

[jua_java]

49 minutes ago, Scada said:

1. One person love ni other person all cases lo appreciate cheyali ani rule unda ? without any effort love  and attention free ga ostunte inka partner ni enduku appreciate chestaru chpu !!! Manam deni kosam ina effort pedithe ne kadha dani result ni appreciate chesedi . I think they do not realize the abuse causing to their partner. e abusive behavior brought up conditions and environment meda base i untadi

2. Society lo ila harass chesthu narakam chupinche vallu ekuvaga leru,  self worth teliyaka a abuse ni barinche vallu ekuva. courage  a unte M lo di nuv oddu appreciation less relation ship oddu ani elpotaru.

3. inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu inka valla bad luck anukovale. Papam valaki a devude help cheyale

4. Avenues and organic endi ankul. 😀

True no way out !point 3😥

[MagaMaharaju]

3 minutes ago, Sachin200 said:

Consulting nuvvu  cheyachu ga , 200$/hr or 300$/hr

I do it for free. Am all ears anytime

[Sachin200]

3 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

I do it for free. Am all ears anytime

Abbo 

[vankarodu]

13 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

I do it for free. Am all ears anytime

sodhi vintam lo specialist la unnav

[MagaMaharaju]

Just now, vankarodu said:

sodhi vintam lo specialist la unnav

cheppadam lo kuda 

[TensionNahiLeneka]

following like @Scada

[samaja_varagamana]

1 hour ago, riashli said:

Ilanti threads enduku chustano

lol

[samaja_varagamana]

1 hour ago, DaVinci said:

do the person abusing his/her partner realize the trauma they are causing to their partners? Chaala generalized question ayi undochu

Chaala relationships lo one partner is more giving than the other..instead of feeling lucky, daani weakness la teesukoni partner ni abuse/harrass chesthu vaalaki narakam chupinche vaalu society lo chaala mandey unnaru. For one reason or another, inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu kuda entha mando unnaru.. barinchelaka extreme measures teesukune ammayakulu unnaru.. 

I really wish there are more avenues to come out and discuss - to heal oneself - these things; and whoever is going through such abuse and exploitation find more organic methods to deal with/come out of such relationships. 

 

 

same caste and jathakalu match aythe ilanti problems undav ani tomb tolded

[DannyArcher]

1 hour ago, DaVinci said:

do the person abusing his/her partner realize the trauma they are causing to their partners? Chaala generalized question ayi undochu

Chaala relationships lo one partner is more giving than the other..instead of feeling lucky, daani weakness la teesukoni partner ni abuse/harrass chesthu vaalaki narakam chupinche vaalu society lo chaala mandey unnaru. For one reason or another, inka relationship nundi tappichukoleka barinchevaalu kuda entha mando unnaru.. barinchelaka extreme measures teesukune ammayakulu unnaru.. 

I really wish there are more avenues to come out and discuss - to heal oneself - these things; and whoever is going through such abuse and exploitation find more organic methods to deal with/come out of such relationships. 

 

 

Mostly ammayilu chestaru emotional blackmail etc., 

G meda tannu abuse chesta .